Joined: 23 Oct 2003 Posts: 13 Location: New Jersey
Broken Dreams.... Posted: 10-24-03 21:31pm
Well my heart as well as my dreams have
been broken. I thought I married my true
love. He was the kind of man that could
finish my sentences.......Sigh... But he
has done a 360 since the day we said
ido... Now 3 years later... He is not
what I want..... I don't know what to
do... And there is nothing going on
between us sexually ...... I am thinking
if not with me then he is with someone
else..... I just don't get it.. I work,
I care for our child, I cook, clean, do
laundry.. Shop, pay the bills, etc...
And I get nothing in return......Any
experience out there that can help me?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-29-03 14:40pm
Yes, he needs to realize what you do and
you need to be appreciated. I suggest you
both go to counceling and find out why
there is a disconnection between you two.
You cant just run out of a marriage
without trying. You have to at least say,
"hey I tried". You need to have better
communication and talk about this. You
are a wife, not a slave. It takes two to
be in a marriage and make it work. Even
though you cannot keep that "romantic
high" forever you need to be in love and
happy. If he doesnt want counceling, then
you go. And you need to decide what you
want to do. Everything you posted here,
you need to tell him. He might not know.
I know with jose, I have to be open and
tell him how it is because he just doesnt
get it sometimes. I hope you work things
out.
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phil dennison
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2003 Posts: 71 Location: illinois
Posted: 11-16-03 22:21pm
People do not change. When a person shows
you who they are, belive it you will be
unhappy, in this relationship, as long as
you are together. You can go to
counceling day and night, talk is cheap.
Good luck!
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 11-18-03 20:17pm
He needs to wake up sweetie and realize
what wonderful things you are doing for
him. Maybe try councelling...But like
phil said most people like that dont
change im sorry sweetie. Much love
melissa
