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KaiGela
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Question.
Posted: 12-29-04 03:32am
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What do they usually ask you at the
hospital about the father? And if I do
put my baby's daddy's name on the birth
certificate - what are they gonna ask?
Are they gonna ask his age?
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Newmommy23
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Posted: 12-29-04 07:01am
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I would like to know this as well!
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-29-04 09:43am
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Yes. They ask name, age and I think
where you both were born. Trying to
remember... I'm not sure what other info
I think it might be different in every
state. Me and my husband are seven years
apart, which is kind of embarassing on
paper :oops: , but I just remember it had
my name and the next line my age and the
next line his name and the next line his
age. Like this. It didn't have as much
info as my bc does. Everything is
getting so cheap! :lol:
lana
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eric
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dkenna04
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I Think.....
Posted: 12-29-04 10:12am
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Well the hospital were I am regerstered at
the give you this packet of information,
and one of the papers is a birth
certificate form to fill out the day the
baby is born. The questions are like all
the mothers information, date of birth,
where you were born, the address, social
security #, and the same for the father.
It may be different in some states though,
I am not sure!!!!
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Nikki n Rudy
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Posted: 12-29-04 10:44am
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On my son's birthcert. It has all of our
info on there.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 11:20am
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If you are not married they also ask if he
wants to sign the establishment of
paternity papers as well... The birth
certificate is just all of his info and
yours
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 17:12pm
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Well heres the problem. He's 18. I'm 14.
I dont want him going to jail or anything
if I put his age on the birth certificate.
So I dont know what to do :(
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 17:32pm
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Ka, I know what you mean. My boyfriend
was born in mexico, he doesnt have a ss#
and hes not suppost to be here. My
insurance was asking me alot of
information about him, so I just told them
I didnt know who the dad was. Well, hes
going to be at the hostpital with me, so I
cant lie then, and I cant say oh hes not a
legal citizen...I dont know what to do
either :(
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 17:51pm
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Awww. Someone help us, lol.
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 17:59pm
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For real, huh. Well my mom said that you
can put unknown for the dad on the birtch
certificate...If you dont want him
involved. If you do that, you can get
welfare if you needed. But if the daddys
name is on there, they will go after him
for collections first. Then they might
see his age and ask questions. But I
always watch maury and they do paternity
test and things, and they said there is
nothing anyone can do unless your legal
guardian has a problem with his age. Do
you want his name on the bc? I on the
other hand want luis's name on the bc. I
just dont know what actions they would
take, I dont want him to be
deported...Then I would have to move to
mexico!
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:00pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | awww. Someone help us,
lol. |
ka hun the only way he will go to jail is
if your parents press charges. Well in va
anyways. All states are different though.
You need to talk to your local police
dept and ask them..
To pinkbaby
you dont have to say anything.... All you
have to do is tell them hes the father
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:05pm
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I read somewhere up there ^^^ theyll ask
for his ss# and where he was born...
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:06pm
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Could you lie and just say he's from the
us?
And tazzy, the only thing is, I think in
california they will press charges anyway,
even if you don't file anything.
" the victim is at least 13 but less than
16 years old and the actor is at least
four years older than the victim." -- new
jersey law.
He was 17 when he got me pregnanct though.
So I know we could somehow work our way
around that. Our parents are fine with it
and everything. But I just don't wanna
risk anything.
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:07pm
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Oh just say that he's visiting from out of
state and he doesn't have it with him. I
dont think al will bring his ss # and he's
from nj. I was from nj too. Im just in
cali visiting.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:07pm
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You dont have to fill it out if you dont
want to. Your not married to him. All
you have to do is put his name and tell
them you dont know the rest
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:08pm
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But wouldn't they know if I was lying or
not? By saying "i dont know the rest of
the information". Do you think they'd
wanna research on him & stuff?
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:12pm
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Ya, I guess I could...But then they will
ask for his green card. But like you, I
dont want to risk anything. If I knew it
was gunna mess things up, I would just put
unknown. Then theres a little something
saying "well what if they dont even care
hes not legal" and I could have had him on
there, but I f'ed it all up cause I was
scared. I know theres other white girls
with illegal babys daddys. And I know
theres illegal girls that have white guys
babys, and she sure couldent lie about who
the mother was haha. Ka, why dont you put
unknown on the bc and they will never know
his age?
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KaiGela
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:14pm
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They want my baby to have his last name.
And they want his name on there for proof
he's the father so we can sue him for
child support if he decides to back out on
me.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:15pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | but wouldn't they know if I
was lying or not? By saying "i dont know
the rest of the information". Do you
think they'd wanna research on him &
stuff? |
no how could they... I did that with my
first child.
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pinkbaby
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Posted: 12-29-04 18:15pm
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| kaigela
wrote: | | but wouldn't they know if I
was lying or not? By saying "i dont know
the rest of the information". Do you
think they'd wanna research on him &
stuff? |
thats the part im afraid of. They could
be asssholes and take it to far, or they
could be like whatever. That out of state
thing is a good excuse actually. I would
believe it. Will he be at the hostpital?
See, I could say I dont know like tazzy
said, but he will be there, wouldent they
ask him?
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