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PosrscheLvr
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Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Yah So I Guess I Got Mine...=(
Posted: 12-29-04 02:52am
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I was in our room sleeping just now and
the s/o went to get on the comp in our
room. I said I was trying to sleep please
use the other one in the living room. I
went to turn off the computer and he
grabbed my wrists real hard. I told him
to release me. Then he grabbed me by the
waist and shoved me down real hard into
our dresses. I stood up and just stared
at him. He kept yelling at me about the
damn computer. I just told him I wasn't
afraid of him and I wasn't going to be
pushed around...I am just freaking out...
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SamiNSunisMa
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Posted: 12-29-04 03:13am
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Did u call the authorities... Im going to
plug an order for protection (ofp) again.
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004
Posts: 727
Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 12-29-04 07:03am
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Girl, I say he need's to go!! That is how
it starts. Please get out of that
situation before he actually does hurt
you!! We are here for you!!
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-29-04 09:39am
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what? K what happened? They doesn't
sound like something he would do. I'm
just sitting here in shock... I don't
know, i'll im you later girl. I hope
you're okay.
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Tazzy D
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Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 3718
Location: , va
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Posted: 12-29-04 11:32am
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Okay.... Now its time to really make that
choice.... Once he does that everytime he
gets pissed off he will do that or worse
or something similar. You dont need that
type of stuff. I know it is easier said
then done and it is always hard to make a
decision like this, but the best thing to
do is walk away and find someone who
really cares about you, or stay single
which ever one you prefer. Good luck hun
and pm me if you want to talk
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-29-04 13:37pm
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Thanks. Lana is right when saying it
doesn't sound like him at all. I don't
know exactly what I am going to do... I
will keep you guys posted.
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steen
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Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Re: Yah So I Guess I Got Mine...=(
Posted: 12-29-04 15:56pm
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[edit: sorry, in this post I assumed that
porchelvr was pregnant. She didn't say
anithing about that herself]
ok, this could be serious. When he
reacts that strongly to you needing rest
when you are pregnant, and especially if
he could just go to another computer, then
there is trouble.
It might seem moderately scarry now, but I
am going to add a really scarry statistic
here. The most common cause of death
among pregnant women is homicide by their
s.O.
If he can not handle the changes now that
you are pregnant, it is also likely that
he can not handle the big changes that
occur after the baby is born.
This is serious stuff. You might still
consider your options at this time, but
guaranteed, if this continues then it is
time to get out, and at that point rather
than later. Don't take it lightly.
What he did constitutes *assault* and is a
crime. Possibly, because you are
pregnant, it is elevated to *aggrevated
assault.* guys get thrown in jail for
this, particularly because of the
forementioned statistic.
At least set up an emergency plan. Talk
to your family or a close friend so you
have a place to go if you need to. See
if you can leave extra sets of clothes and
a bit of money at your safe place. It
might never be needed, but that's a lot
better than you running for your life
without a goal or a plan some day. You
*need* a backup plan at this point.
Last edited by steen on 12-29-04 17:07pm; edited 1 time in total
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lil_blaze2004
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Re: Yah So I Guess I Got Mine...=(
Posted: 12-29-04 16:05pm
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| posrschelvr
wrote: | | i was in our room sleeping
just now and the s/o went to get on the
comp in our room. I said I was trying
to sleep please use the other one in the
living room. I went to turn off the
computer and he grabbed my wrists real
hard. I told him to release me. Then
he grabbed me by the waist and shoved me
down real hard into our dresses. I
stood up and just stared at him. He
kept yelling at me about the damn
computer. I just told him I wasn't
afraid of him and I wasn't going to be
pushed around...I am just freaking
out... |
has this happened before???? And what do
u mean u guess you got yours???
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Tazzy D
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Posts: 3718
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Posted: 12-29-04 16:57pm
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O kay wait a minute 1st off she not
pregnant well atleast its not confirmed
yet. All her test come back neg. But
still it doesnt give anyone the right to
push shove or hit you in any way shape or
form...
Last edited by Tazzy D on 12-29-04 18:03pm; edited 1 time in total
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steen
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Location: Upper Midwest
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My Fault.
Posted: 12-29-04 17:06pm
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Sorry, I was the one assuming that
porchelvr was pregnant. That might nit
be the xase; certainly she didn't say so,
now that I re-read her post.
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KaiGela
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2004
Posts: 485
Location: Anywhere (:
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Posted: 12-29-04 17:13pm
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That's disrespectful and thats abusive!
You need to call the police or something!
Im serious!
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ftmommy201
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2004
Posts: 178
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Please Be Careful....
Posted: 12-29-04 22:30pm
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I had a relationship that started that way
and in the end I almost ended up in the
hospital!! If a family member of mine
wouldn't have walked in, it would have
been bad. His grabs and little pushes
over time turned into punches and
bleeding! Take care girl and we are all
here for you!!
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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004
Posts: 1528
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Posted: 12-29-04 22:54pm
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An order for protection is easy to obtain
and served within 48 hrs usually by
poh-leese
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-29-04 22:58pm
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Thanks everyone. No I don't know if I am
prego or not, that's a long complicated
story. I didn't want to post wondering if
I was or not because well...I just wanted
to know first...
I talked to him about it today and I don't
know. I don't think it will progress, but
I don't know for sure.
I will let everyone know what happens with
it all.
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004
Posts: 727
Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 12-30-04 16:23pm
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I think it is a bad situation all
together!! No man should ever raise a
hand in anger to a women!! I would've
kicked his butt out. Goodluck hun and I
hope you are right and it stops there.
Make sure he knows how unacceptable what
he did was and that there are consequences
if it ever happens again. If you need to
talk shoot me a note. I'll be home on
thurs. So when you want meet up for lunch
or something?
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-31-04 00:32am
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Are you in texas now??? I am off all next
week let me know what is going on...
If you pm me I will give you my phone
number and we can make plans from there.
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