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Q: What Should I Do?

asked by: mahrya on December 28th, 2004

New User

:( hello everyone. I really need some advise. Okay I am 14 years old...And I met this boy around 8 months ago. We met in a chat room, I know its rediculous. But anyways..We talked for a while and we started liking eachother. I know its weird...But I don't know. We were together for a while and we wanted to see eachother soo much but he lives in nj and I live in ny. Now we barely ever talk. I can't stop thinking about him. And I love him so much. He really has no clue, he has moved on I think but I just dont know what to do. Can anyone tell me what to do? I mean my friends always told me it wouldnt work out..But everything was fine between us, he made a song for his band and everything, please someone help me. I cry over him all the time. Please I need someones advise or something. If only he knew how much I really cared for him, I wanted to see him this february but he never even emailed me back about it, and I don't know. I just love him so much.

Please give me some advise, thank you.

Replies(5)

zoomer815

replied on December 31st, 2004

New User

Actually, I agree with most people. A chat room is not a very good place to meet someone that you would actually fall in love with. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, or that it didn't happen to you.

More than likely he found someone else and has moved on. I know it hurts very badly, but you should move on too. You need to meet someone that you can see, and that you are near. Like someone in your school.

I know my opinion is just that, an opinion, but I hope what I have said makes sense, and helps even a little.

Zoomer

bubbly

replied on January 5th, 2005

New User

Well I don't beleive it's bad to know a person from that chat room...But you really need to be carful and you should know your limits...As far as it's too late now,,,the only thing I can say that by time you'll just forget about him as far as he did so...And you'll see that it was a stupid matter and one day you'll find your prince and say bubbly said so...So just try to avoid thinking of him....Try to do anything once he pops in to your mind...Go shopping ..Have a ride...Talk to your friends...Good luck..I hope you'll find a better person who will just appreciate you where ever you are...

sandyallen

replied on January 5th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I agree with the others and that is the chat room is not always the best place to meet someone, you ccannot even look them in the eye. You are only 14, you have plenty of time for this, slow down, enjoy your life, it is too soon to be serious!
Sincerely,
sandy

zomby_grl

replied on February 10th, 2005

New User

I was 16 and I did the same thing. He was 26 it didnt work out either and it does hurt but u will get over it.

nadeentears

replied on February 11th, 2005

Experienced User

What Should I Do

Hello mahrya,

please go to depression forum you will find my reply to your problem. Unfortunately they posted it in wrong forum under this title (depression is depressing and so is cutting.

My heart is with you, peace

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