Well I have been dating this guy for about 4 months now and our relationship has changed alot from when we first got together... Things that I liked, but he didn't, he now tries sometimes to give me what I want... He tells me he loves me (he told me first, as I wasnt sure of feelings yet)..
But I have noticed that he has become very selfish... I try to give him most of the things he mentioned for christmas and even things that dont cost money (those sometimes mean more than things that cost money).... For christmas he bought me some diamond earring hoops and some perfume and a few small things...
But he is very insecure... He is very jealous... Every guy I talk to he makes comments about and so I respect him to an extent and dont talk to alot of single guys and just to our married friends (if I talk to guys)... But it seems like we fight everyday when we aren't together... Like if we chit chat on the phone, we are fighting... But once we are in person, everything is perfect, get along great and everything...
But the problem is, he will accuse and accuse and accuse and blame me for things but once I want to talk things out, he doesnt ever want to talk (which I think is important in a relationship)... But once I accuse him of something if he does something wrong, he gets alllll mad and upset thinking that I am looking for something to gripe about... Once we get togehter in person, its like nothing has happened...
I really like him alot and I know he loves me... Once we were fighting and I tried to end it because I just couldn't take it and he was so upset and asked for one more chance and apologized and everything, and all was well for a week or so... Then it was back to normal...
We got a puppy together and he loves that dog and we take good care of her together (she sleeps at my home)... But I think alot of his issues are with things that have happened in his life recently...
I think that he is afraid to lose me because now I am someone close to him and I am his first real relationship... In the last 2 years he has lost alot of people close to him... He hasn't spoke to his real dad, his mother and step dad (practically his father, been there his whole life) are getting a divorce, and lost his 2 best friends in a car accident that he was closest with and been best friends with since childhood.....
So I think he might be overprotective because he is insecure and afraid to lose me (another person to with he has grown close with)... Am I overreacting????? The fighting is getting unreal when we aren't together, which is sometimes for a few days because of his work...
Any ideas on how to fix this? Thanks :)
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