You may want to go online and look for yourself, in front of him. You may tell him you want to look at some porn w/ him. I look a porn w/ my lady friend and we discuss some scenes, too.

If you really want to rock his socks, go to "google" and search for "shemales". This is a sight that shows half female and male.

Obviously, he feel embarrassed, but you can make him feel more comfortable by watching w/ him.

Some of it is funny to me and some is gross. I don't like anal sex.....

I hope this helps and doesn't offend you.

i feel that way sometimes.. But I try to not let it bother me.. I find it very handy now that my libido is gone.. It makes us both happy because I can be left alone to watch tv or whatever and he's not bugging me and he doesnt' have to suffer and walk around with a swollen member. Trust me..If you get like I am now.. Porn will be your friend..Anything to get him off your case.

Okay,are we talking using porn as a substitute for real intimacy with you or just looking at porn for giggles once in a while???If it is an occasional thing,no biggie.Just be glad he's not in a strip club wasting the college fund or worse,out trolling for fresh meat.If he is using porn as his primary source of stimulation,then,my dear, you have a serious problem.I was once engaged to a man who would rather watch porn(the real hard core stuff!!)than make love to me-and it's not like i'm an unwilling partner!!I finally had enough and left him!I am married to a wonderful man who does not need to see naked barbie dolls to get off.We watch porn sometimes,but we can't stop laughing at it,we think it is amusing!If your situation is the latter.Pm me and we''l talk.Best to you!
Patty

We still have sex. But any chance that he can get if I go to the grocery store or to my mothers or to bed he is on the computer looking at porn.... And its not for giggles he gets off on it. We have a porn movie that he supposidly bought for us to watch together because I told him that I feel left out and we have had it for 5 months and he has seen it... By himself everytime that I say oh lets watch it he is like oh I dont feel like moving the vcr now. I try to talk with him to understand it and he says that its just a man thing...

Have you tried to calmly explain to him that you feel left out when he views and/or gets off on porn without you??If you know he's watching porn or online,maybe join him and surprise him with a little show of your own??You might surprise yourself as well.A little effort on both of your parts may help resolve this issue.Sometimes,viewing porn becomes a sort of addiction and he may need some help from you to overcome it.Do not approach him in a confrontational matter,this will only add to the problem.As long as he is not using porn as a substitute for real intimacy and your sex life is still good,maybe he needs a little shaking up,try something new in the sack.(maybe have sex in a different room or try some toys).Good luck to you.
Patty

My fiance was 'addicted' to pornography. I hear this is a common problem for some men. Don't let any one tell you not to let it bother you, because your feelings are true and shouldn't be denied. The only way he and I got over it is when we sat down and discussed it. . . At length. Because he loved me he was willing to work on it and now his porn viewing is minimal. It took me a while to trust him again however, because he did lie about it.

I'm having the same problem. My boyfriend says he doesn't even look to "take care of himself", rather just to look because he likes it. But I feel insecure about it and feel like it means I'm not what he wants to look at or I'm not sexy enough for him so he has to look else where. I also worry that maybe it's because he wants to think about other women when we make love which even I think is silly because I can always tell that he's in the moment when we're in bed. I don't know how to deal with this. He and I have talked about my insecurities and he knows how upset it makes me, but it doesn't stop him from looking at porn and what's worse is that it even though I get very upset, I still feel compelled to look at the computer history.

I am the same way...I feel the same way when I find out that my boyfriend has been looking at it alone. He knows that I am into it, now its not something that I want to see a lot but every blue moon or two I am game...I have my own porn movie that I said lets watch them together but yet we never do. Then I found out that he is looking at porn alone and keeping it all hush hush. So like the other post stated. Dont let people tell you to not let it bother you, you feel the way you feel and its ok to feel that way. I would just keep trying to talk to him about it.