Hello everyone ill try to keep this as short as possible I had a one time episode of unprotected vaginal sex (i am the male) back in may of this year with someone who I believe to have had hiv. About 2 weeks after the encounter I came down with a high grade fever,soar throat and diarrhea that lasted about 4 or 5 days and I started to feal better then a few days later my soar throat came back and I looked inside of my mouth and I had white spots on my tonsiles,cheeks , the hangy ball thing in my mouth (i dont know what its called) swollen lymphnodes under my chin this went on for about 2 or 3 weeks when I finaly went to the er and the doctor did a mono spot and a strep test both negative he also took a blood count and came back in and said that my count was a "little high" and that it was mostlikly bactiral and perscribed anti biotics the day after I went to the er I had another lymphnode on the left side of my neck where it meets the upper back it was huge and very painfull to the touch then the next day I developed a dry cough that wasnt too bad but it was there (if that makes any sence) durring this whole illness I felt rundown and I had some joint / mussle pain after about a week on the anti-biotics I started to feel better and I wasnt worried about 2 months after that illness I started having headaches and they soon became cronic I now have headaches all the time I wake up with them and they hardly ever stop and about 10 days ago I started to have a soar throat again and I took a flashlight and looked at the inside of my mouth/throat and I have white spots on the back of my throat and a few white spots in my mouth that returned after I brushed them away and around that same time I hit my elbow/ forarm on a door not too hard but not softly either and the bruse is huge and painfull ive never brused like this before. I have not yet tested due to the fact that I did not have insureance at the time I have recently gotten insureance through my job and I went for a checkup my doctor took a fullblood count and did the normal checkups and what not I did not mention my fears of hiv to him because I do not want to lose my insureance due to a pre exsisting condision bs that the insureance companys pull but all my results came back normal the soar throat and the brusing started about 3 weeks after I had the bloodwork done so do you think its possible that I am a fast progressor? Im sure I have hiv and I know only a test can prove it but sometimes you just know (again I hope this makes sence to you guys & gals) I just need to know if I can hang in there for a few more months and then get tested and begin treatment without lossing my insureance? Please any advice would be helpfull I am very scared and im only 24 years old and I dont want to die yet I want to get married and have kids this is so depressing I dont know what to do I think I am slowly driving my self insane with all this stuff....