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Q: Sigh.. I Think My Relationship Has Gone Down the Crapper.
asked by: bd1012 on December 17th, 2004
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I seriously think it's time for a breakup or a seperation because it's not working out... It just seems like I have fallen out of love with him. I don't have the money to get my own place and I don't know how to go through the logistics of doing that if I did have the money so right now I have to deal with it.. We just get on each others nerves. He talks about marriage but it will never work out... Everytime he says it I can't help but look away and roll my eyes. We have been together for 2 years and living together for 1 and already are having problems so I doubt marriage will ever be an option.. I just don't know how to do it.. To break it to him that we are not working out.. And probably never will.. What we had was puppy love and we are grown up and it's over now.. I thought it was the real thing but again I was fooled. I thought it would last forever and it felt like it would but it won't.. I guess if we ever do break up.. I should just stay single.. I don't get along well with people and never have. We were just ships passing through the night. Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
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PattyV
replied on December 18th, 2004
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The longer you stay,the harder it will be to leave.I was once in a situation like that and had no$$$ to get my own place.I stayed for a while,but got to the point where I could not stand for him to even talk to me.I bit the bullet and got a second job and lived like a hermit for a while to save money for my escape.I did it and it was tough and scary,but freedom was never so sweet!!I eventually met my husband and we have a great relationship.I was not ready for a great guy until I got my head together.Once you are happy with yourself,you can have happiness with someone else.Until you figure that out,you will always find yourself unhappy and always searching for something.Best to you.
Patty
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Roxy
replied on December 28th, 2004
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Hello bd.

Everyone has problems.First before you leave I think you both should go to counseling together to see if you can last.If not,go your separate ways.....If it works for you.I've heard a statement from someone I like very much.He said,"people do things that work for them".(dr.Phil mcgraw)
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