I am a teen father and I know that this might seem like a major problem but there worse things that could happen. I think that you should try to get him to mabe write a letter/e-mail telling your parents why he wont see them. Then after they reply mabe you could get him to talk to them on the phone or mabe something like that. What I am suggesting is that you need him to do this but don't make him do it cold turkey let him worm up to it then after the telephone call mabe he will see them. Also don't force him into anything because that is how you will make him realy mad or even mabe even lose him. I might only be 17 but trust me, my gf has been pregnant for about 3 months and the only people that know are my parents. My gf and I arn't even togeter anymore. She wont even tell me why she wont let me see her or the ultra sounds or anything. She wont even answer my calls. Feel luckey that your boy friend did even stick around. I wanted to and I guess I can't.

-teen_father29

You are only 2 months on so I guess he has only just found out for sure that he is going to be a dad, give him a chance for this to sink in, he`s probably just as worried scared and apprehensive as you are.Once he gets his own feelings sorted he may be more willing to help

Rebecca - I have honestly been in your situation before. When I first got pregnant, I was 17. My boyfriend (now dh) was 20 years old. At first, after telling my father I was pregnant, he refused to meet him. I think he was more scared than anything - scared my father wouldn't like him/my father would blame him.

Maybe your boyfriend is feeling the same way. He might just be scared. Give him some time to evaluate things, and figure out what he wants to do. Atleast he is sticking around for you and the baby. And - right now - that is all you need. Tell your parents to wait around - and give him some time. I am sure they will understand!! :)

and maybe in the future - your bf with be like my husband and father, lol.

Well whatever happens, make sure your parents make his first meeting with them a comfortable one. If he meets them for the first time and they drill him with every question in the book, no matter how good their intentions are he will have a negative view on them for life and won't want to meet them again. If their first meeting is good, and your parents stray away from uncomfortable discussion and just talk about work, where he grew up, and non baby related or without questions drilling him about what type of character he is then it will go better in the long run. Make sure you talk to your parents about this ahead of time. Let them know it isn't personal (obviously, he doesn't know them so it can't be personal) it's just that he is nervous because of what is going on with the pregnancy.