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Q: 13 And Expecting
asked by: 13nExpecting on December 14th, 2004
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Hey I am thirteen and expecting a baby. I dont know how to tell maii parents. I never wanted to hve a baby but it happened. It not like I wanted to even hve sex. I got raped bye maii boyfriend who is 16 about 3 months ago and I am starting to show a littl maii ma thinks I am getting fat becuz of maii period and caca. I dont know how to tell them they dont even know I got raped no one does except me and maii ex. I am so scared what they will think. I think I just might kill myself. Maybe if I was just rapped and didnt get pregnant I might be able to handle it but being pregnnt too. Uhh I am going to kill myself I swear I will. On new years eve I am going to so maii family can start the year with out me a promiscuous person who got rapped and pregnant
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Princess385
replied on December 14th, 2004
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It's not your fault that you got raped. So don't go and kill yourself over it. There are things out there that can help you with this. Seeking help is one!! You really have to tell your parents about this. Even though you don't want to. They'll understand...For god's sake you were raped...That's not a laughing matter and they will understand. And i'm sure that htey'll help you though this. But you need to get to a dr to omake srue that you and that child are going to be okay and to make sure you dn't have any std's of any sort!! Sorry i'm not of much more help, but just flat out share with your parents what happened. If you feel more comfortable having someone with you, then do that too!!
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YoshisPrincess
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Ok, I have two feelings right now. One is, if you're a liar trying to get attention, i'll kill you and save you the trouble, bc this crap is nothing to joke about. Evil or Very Mad
my second feeling is, if it's real, i'm truly sorry. In october 2003 I was raped in my dorm room by a guy that I was tutoring. As a result, I became pregnant, but had a chemical pregnancy and lost it very early. I know the pain. I told no one for months until I opened up to my fiance in march. I was also suicidal in the mean time. It's also not the first time i've been raped.
If your story is for real, tell your parents. No matter what your relationship with them is like, they love you deep inside and would hate to hear that they're little girl has been raped, but they want to know. I guarantee you they want to know your pain, and they want to help you with it. They won't think you're a promiscuous person. The rape wasn't your fault, and neither was the pregnancy. You didn't ask to be raped and the baby didn't ask to be concieved, but both of you are victims now and you need to take care of both of you. You're baby is a beautiful thing coming out of a horrible situation. Sad :d

i pray to god that you're for real, bc if you're not then you are the most disgustingly heinous person i've ever met. Evil or Very Mad
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13nExpecting
replied on December 14th, 2004
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But maii dad will not care he will say it wa maii fault and I deserve it and then killl meh or put meh in a foster home.Mii ma wont either
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YoshisPrincess
replied on December 14th, 2004
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doing it try it. What's the worst that could happen? You're gonna' kill yourself anyways, right? Rolling Eyes
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13nExpecting
replied on December 14th, 2004
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First of all I aint liing eond maii dads an problem and wont care seriously I am gonna kill maii self
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13nExpecting
replied on December 14th, 2004
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And if I dont kill myself he will
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YoshisPrincess
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Ok everyone knows that people, whether truly suicidal or not, wants some one to stop them. Here's my idea: go get your parents to stop you! They will want to know what's up with you. They will want to know what's been done to you. If your father rejects you, then so be it. If your mother rejects you, then so be it. Obviously they are terrible and undeserving parents. Do you want to be like them? Be a good parent. Get health acre for yourself and your baby, but it's also important to give your parents a chance. You want them to give you a chance, don't you? You don't want them judging you, calling you a sl*t or kicking you out, so how about returning the favor and at least giving them a chance. It's only fair and right to everyone involved.
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a2ck418
replied on December 14th, 2004
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13nexpecting do you have hotmail?
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Princess385
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Oh geeze...If you're going to kill yourself and talk about it, just go do it...I was being nice, but now this is just too much. If you're ging to do it, do it. I doubt you will, simply for the fact that I don't buy this any more!! Well I didn't in the first place, but thought I would be nice to you!! I was almost raped, it's not a laughing matter. I lied to my husband about it, cause I was afriad of sharing that with him!! I didn't knwo what to do....I ended up sharing with my husband, then trying to get the guy in trouble. Being in the military and all, both I and the guy that tried to rape me, I would have been able to get him in a caca load of trouble...But since my sgt didn't blieve me, ntohign happened and to this day I live with athat...It's not fun, it's not a luaghing matter, ti's nothing to joke about!!
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YoshisPrincess
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Agreed Evil or Very Mad
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xLove x Lostx
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Someone check the ips for her and arianna_capri...I have a feeling its the same person...Because of the way they spelled "my" or that one girl that got preggo for her bf beto...
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Princess385
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Haha...How sad is that!! I had a feeling this wasn't right!!
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peanutbuttertreasure
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Same...I'm just not gonna say anymore Laughing
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mommaashley
replied on December 14th, 2004
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First of all if you were going to kill yourself you wouldnt be boasting about it on the internet. Second learn how to talk no offense but you sound very immature, and I hope to god you aren't pregnant for the sake of your child. Third of all I was raped, and became pregnant because of it then lost the child, if your for real go and get help I lost the child and that made me feel even worse. Dont be selfish and dont be irresponsible.
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13nExpecting
replied on December 14th, 2004
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First of all I aint arianna cari that health forum is a liar she hasnt even gotten her period she is a liar and second I want to kill maii self and I might I might not I am sasying it on the net cause u casnt stop me and 3rd me and arianna were friends and we both do that maii thing so ya get a life I aint her I can prove it
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Princess385
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Haha....Prove it then....
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13nExpecting
replied on December 14th, 2004
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Ok im iridecowboys25 at aol that is jessi and then me beautiful2514 at aol I am margerita u will see she will say so and also arianna_capri is not me she doesnt even have her period
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xLove x Lostx
replied on December 14th, 2004
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That doesnt roll with me sweetie...Try some better proof..
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peanutbuttertreasure
replied on December 14th, 2004
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I can easily run three or more aim screen names at the same time..Lol Laughing
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