Joined: 13 Dec 2004 Posts: 2 Location: United States - California
Sexual Preference? Posted: 12-13-04 15:06pm
Is it normal to wonder about being
intimate with another woman? I have been
curious for a few years now, but never
persued my curiosity. I am very very
happy with my boyfriend, I do not think I
can even fathom a normal relationship with
another woman, but I do think about
exploring the possibility of intimacy with
one. Is this normal? Does this mean im
bi?
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Forum Girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Orlando, Florida
Posted: 12-13-04 19:44pm
Totally normal. First off - don't worry
about labels. Don't pigeon hole yourself
into gay or straight or bi. Instead - do
what you feel right and what feels good to
you. If guys turn you on and you enjoy
being with them - awesome. If you think
about girls, wonder what it would be like
with them and the opportunity presents
itself one day - give it a try. The
worst that would happen is that you'll
decide you don't like it. Which is
totally cool too.
It is very possible that while you might
fantasize about being with a woman, if the
opportunity presented itself to you, you
might think twice. I have fantazied
about threesomes or doing things sexually
that seem exciting - but i'm pretty sure
that if I was ever in a position to try
them i'd just chicken out. But its nice
to think about them and get excited about
them.
Ultimately - don't stress over whether
wondering about what its like to be with
another woman or dreaming about being with
another woman or finding another woman
attractive is more than it really is: a
fantasy, a dream or enjoying seeing
someone woman. If this is something you
really want to pursue - give it a try.
If not, just enjoy your private thoughts.
Nothing wrong with either one
