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C0nfus3d_Ab0ut_L1f3
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Vaginal Bleeding, From Fingering Need Help Please!!!
Posted: 12-11-04 22:48pm
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Me and my girlfriend were messing around
mostly. Things went from good, to better
as you can imagine...
...It was great...No complaining or
anything.
Mine, and her, only problem is...That when
I finger her...She tends to bleed. It's
not my finger nails, because i've cut
them. This has happened several times
before.
She says she has no pains, and that it's
not her period. This problem happened
again tonight...And she's been off of her
period since last week.
She's got no std's and neither do i. The
sex we have is only between each
other...And no one else.
She says that it becomes sore after she
starts to bleed. She's not a virgin, and
her hymens already been broken. I was
wondering if the problem could be stemmed
around her tightness...And the fact that
she dry's up during sexual stimulation
rather quickly.
I don't know if maybe when she dries
up...If the friction of my fingers maybe
breaks the skin around the orifice.
Other times when I went down on her...I
tasted blood. This is still while she's
off of her period.
Tonight she found 3 drops of blood on her
panties...But my fingers show no sign of
any kind of blood...Or bleeding.
Neither does my mouth after preforming
oral sex on her.
If anyone can help us with this problem
we'd greatly appreciate it.
Thank you.
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-12-04 00:44am
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You definitely need lubrication when
penetrating her with anything. She is
getting tiny cuts. And it does hurt,
probably burns too, especially if you keep
fingering her and the cuts get irritated.
Try to use a lubricant and see if it
helps. She is probably getting dry
because she is in pain. Hopefully she is
honest with you and you're not hurting her
by the way you're fingering her.
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acidburnaj
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Question?
Posted: 12-13-04 10:59am
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I am on vacation visitng my girlfriend in
ky that I haven't seen in a year. And on
sat. Night penetration of three fingers
happened.. And today is monday morning.
I was too embarrassed to ask a nurse at
the local hosptial about lesbian sexual
stuff.. So I said instead a blank
statment "penetration". I was wondering
if I should still be bleeding heavily and
after two days? Can someone answer this
question?? I can't seem to find an
answer to this question online and was
wondering if anyone out there could help
me. I go home on wed. Should I wait to
see a local doctor in los angeles or
should I go now to the local hospital and
get it checked out?
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xgrotesque_angel
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Posted: 02-06-05 19:17pm
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Same thing that happened to ur gf happened
to me.
Let me know if u know what it is
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zomby_grl
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Posted: 02-10-05 07:15am
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Go to a ob/gyn he or she could tell u
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ninja_2225
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Posted: 12-14-06 05:18am
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Well..I was fingering my gf..And like I
know shes still a virgin..
But like when I finger her...Is it
possible that she would be not virgin
anymore..Cos like my fingers are not that
long...
But then today after I fingered her..Blood
was comin out of her vagina..And like I
asked her if she feels any pain she said
no...Thats why we both think that its not
my fingernails..Coz its not long too..
Im just wondering if the blood was because
the hymen was broken..And if it will bleed
again?? And the bleeding was only for
like an hour..
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ciulla1227
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Ughh..
Posted: 04-11-07 21:15pm
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what! Dude the person at the top im having
the legit same problem with my girlfriend
and i just don't understand i taste the
blood, it comes out of her, but no blood
in the mouth or on the fingers if someone
finds an anwser for this email me please.
My girls been bleeding for two days and
its def. not her period. Idk if im being
to ruff or what not and she isn't tell me
but someone help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Llewellyn
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Re: Ughh..
Posted: 04-11-07 21:22pm
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| ciulla1227
wrote: | | what! Dude the person at the
top im having the legit same problem with
my girlfriend and i just don't understand
i taste the blood, it comes out of her,
but no blood in the mouth or on the
fingers if someone finds an anwser for
this email me please. My girls been
bleeding for two days and its def. not her
period. Idk if im being to ruff or what
not and she isn't tell me but someone
help!!!!!!!!!!!! |
As others said, it is probably an issue of
either fingernails, being too rough in
general, or lack of lubrication. The
inside of the vagina is very delicate and
can be cut pretty easily without the woman
even feeling much pain.
Make sure she tells you if she is ever
feeling pain. Sexual things often require
communication and honesty. If she tends
to be dry, you can buy some lubrication
from the store.
Just to be on the safe side, she could
always visit an ob-gyn. Better safe than
sorry.
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NotSoSure20
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Someones Gotta Tell Me
Posted: 06-03-07 00:16am
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ok so i was fingering my gf tonight.. and
after we were done i noticed that my
fingers were covered in dry blood... my gf
isnt a virgin and i woulda thought her
"cherry" had been "popped".. her period
was over like a week and a half ago... i
dont believe it was from my fingernails
because there was quite a bit of blood? is
it possible that her hymen hadnt been
brokin by her previous having sex and that
i broke it with my fingers?
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Llewellyn
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Re: Someones Gotta Tell Me
Posted: 06-03-07 03:08am
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| NotSoSure20
wrote: | | ok so i was fingering my gf
tonight.. and after we were done i noticed
that my fingers were covered in dry
blood... my gf isnt a virgin and i woulda
thought her "cherry" had been "popped"..
her period was over like a week and a half
ago... i dont believe it was from my
fingernails because there was quite a bit
of blood? is it possible that her hymen
hadnt been brokin by her previous having
sex and that i broke it with my
fingers? |
It's possible, but unlikely. Most girls
tear their hymens long before they ever
have sex. They usually break in childhood
from things like running, jumping,
masturbating, and using tampons. It
usually does not hurt or bleed. However,
some women have an unusually thick hymen
that does not tear as easily. It's
possible that your girlfriend is one of
those few women. However, it is more
likely that she had a tear from a
fingernail or from being too dry.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 06-04-07 11:38am
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When you finger a woman, she should feel
wet. If she doesn't feel wet, it is
probably hurting her. Never stick anything
dry inside of a dry woman, it hurt a
lot!!! Buy some lubricant. This is why she
is bleeding--- the friction of dry fingers
rubbing on a dry vagina. And she will be
sore. Get your fingers wet with lube or
spit, and if she starts to dry up, stop!!
Work harder to get her aroused, use more
lube, whatever you are doing isn't
working...
She should be telling you this. Try to ask
her how she's doing, if she's enjoying
things, without putting pressure on her.
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poppypot
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Posted: 06-09-07 03:11am
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Problems dont have to be sexually
transmitted. her problems could be an
infection, cell changes or menstrual
problems. i would go to my local sexual
health clinic and tell them my symptoms
they will know what to do maybe look down
below or give you some lube 
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rosemagee
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Help
Posted: 08-08-07 11:59am
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Me and my guy friend were having some fun
yesterday aka fingering and i was really
into it and was very wet so i figured that
was a good enough luberication but after a
lil while he took his fingers out and they
were covered in blood and i was bleeding
it only lasted a day but this has never
happened before from fingering is
something wrong with me? i am not a virgin
and have had sex twice both times i did
bleed tho im very confussed and its really
upsetting me. please some one help
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-08-07 13:11pm
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My advice as well is to go buy some lube!
It hurts just thinking about it XD
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w2w
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Same Here
Posted: 10-29-07 20:06pm
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All of these are pretty much that same
question but mine is slightly different, I
bleed almost everytime during sex with my
gf and it's scary cuz it's usually a lot
and it gets uncomfortable so I have to
make her stop time over and over during
before I bleed because I keep feeling like
i have to go to the restroom. What does
that mean?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 10-29-07 21:27pm
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You as a male bleed? That's not normal at
all. Neither men nor women should bleed
during normal sex. You should get that
looked in to.
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monkey47
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Already Dealt With It
Posted: 11-01-07 07:43am
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When I read your worry, I knew exactly
what you felt like. As everytime I got
fingered by my boyfriend or had sex I kept
bleeding....So we worked it out that
before he actually enters me he makes me
really wet so I can't take any more I just
got to have him inside me and I didn't
bleed at all... So perhaps you can try
something like that......Hope it
helps......
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