I unerstand that in today's society it's
unlikely to find a young adult that
doesn't have sex with anything with two
legs, but my girlfriend wants to have sex.
I don't have any problem with that, it's
just that she doesn't want me to wear a
condom. So, i've been makin excuses so I
wouldn't have to. Can someone give me
some advice?
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doola
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 22 Location: south carolina
Posted: 12-13-04 06:38am
I guess somewomen like the real feeling of
a penis, it's the sensation, are you
afraid of getting her pregnant or some
type of std?
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ginginhi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2004 Posts: 20 Location: Hawaii
Posted: 12-15-04 00:54am
Its not wise to not use a condom if you
are concerned about stds. If you aren't
concerned about stds and are just concered
with pregnancy, see if she is willing to
use other forms of bc to prevent
pregnancy. If she has been sexually
active with others in her past and you
aren't sure if she may/may not have an std
then you should really try to explain to
her that her you aren't comfortable having
sex without that kind of protection. It
can be a scary thing to admit but its
better than facing possilbe life changing
consequences to having unprotected sex.
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Dimez411
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Dec 2004 Posts: 3 Location: VA
Posted: 12-20-04 10:23am
I'm not too afriad of catching an std. I
mean, I know that they're out there, and
do take precaution. They main thing is,
that i'm only 18. There's no way in high
hell i'm ready to have a child. That's
the main reason I keep avoiding having sex
with my girlfriend. She is really stuck
on the idea that I don't need to wear one.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 12-20-04 21:58pm
You sound like a smart young guy,follow
your instincts!!There are some great
condoms that are ultra thin and feel
fine.I like durex ultra sensitive.If your
guts tell you not to have sex without a
condom,go with that.Good luck to you!
Patty
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Painful_Pleasure
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2004 Posts: 5
Posted: 12-23-04 07:32am
I agree with pattyv you sound very smart
not many people would think/act the same
way as you including me.
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arty_bhoy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2004 Posts: 3
Posted: 12-23-04 19:27pm
Hey man ano she doesnt want to use condoms
but I have been told to use durex
featherlites supposedly you feel the whole
thing as if there was no condom :lol:
