I guess somewomen like the real feeling of a penis, it's the sensation, are you afraid of getting her pregnant or some type of std?

Its not wise to not use a condom if you are concerned about stds. If you aren't concerned about stds and are just concered with pregnancy, see if she is willing to use other forms of bc to prevent pregnancy. If she has been sexually active with others in her past and you aren't sure if she may/may not have an std then you should really try to explain to her that her you aren't comfortable having sex without that kind of protection. It can be a scary thing to admit but its better than facing possilbe life changing consequences to having unprotected sex.

I'm not too afriad of catching an std. I mean, I know that they're out there, and do take precaution. They main thing is, that i'm only 18. There's no way in high hell i'm ready to have a child. That's the main reason I keep avoiding having sex with my girlfriend. She is really stuck on the idea that I don't need to wear one.

You sound like a smart young guy,follow your instincts!!There are some great condoms that are ultra thin and feel fine.I like durex ultra sensitive.If your guts tell you not to have sex without a condom,go with that.Good luck to you!
Patty

I agree with pattyv you sound very smart not many people would think/act the same way as you including me.

Hey man ano she doesnt want to use condoms but I have been told to use durex featherlites supposedly you feel the whole thing as if there was no condom :lol: