Snowball,
hi it is leslie, try going to a nutrition store or a health store that sells not only different variety of foods for special needs eaters but also skin products, shampoos, soaps and anything else you can think of. I have exceptionaly dry skin and use a product called kiss my face. Sorry that is it's name. When you shower rub it on by hand and then rub off after washing until there is still a slight slick feeling to the skin. Don't dry your skin by rubbing with a towel but pat yourself dry instead, told to me by a great dermatologist. It works for me. Try it out and talk to the peolple in the store, they usually are pretty well informed. You might be allergic to different regular soaps too. Also try using olive oil shampoo. I have for years and it is great. These products don't have all the chemicals in them that other regular products do.
Tkae care and good luck on your operation.
Les