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Q: Is This Normal?

asked by: chrisean on December 9th, 2004

New User

I am 26. I have been married 3 years and have a 6 and 4 year old. I love my husband very much. I love having sex with him also, but when he touches me some times I just want him to leave me alone, most of the time I do not even feel like doing it so I pretend. I feel so guilty, I do not want any one else so what could be my problem. I know that I am tired alot, I work and I am at my childs scool 3-4 times a week helping and I have three step children. It makes him so angry we fight over it all the time. Is it normal? We are young we should be going at it all the time, I would like to but for some reason I don't have the urge like I used too. Any advice

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raesampo

replied on December 10th, 2004

New User

Yup

Yup I get like that sometimes and everyone that I asked ( older women that had been married awhile and stuff) all said the same thing it sounds cheesy but its true if you just try and take some time for yourself youll feel better that means go all out take along hot bath candles etc read alittle and think about how much ou love him and stuff and you should be ready to attack next time you see him Smile

you need some time to yourself and then to eachother you can find him sexy if you dont find yourself that way Smile

ithinkimdying

replied on December 16th, 2004

New User

I have alot dicharge.. Its white and clear... And it doesnt smells.. But my panties are always wet.. Why is this? Sad

PosrscheLvr

replied on December 17th, 2004

Experienced User

I am sometimes the same way as you feel. I think there is a certain amount of give and take in a relationship. You both have needs and rarely are you both going to have the same libido at the same time. He needs to understand your needs and the fact you are tired. Don't always give into him, sometimes you need to starn firm. Other times attempt to go with the flow. Being in a relationship means giving and taking. You need to talk to him and see if maybe you can find a happy medium...Good luck!

sunny03

replied on January 24th, 2005

New User

I am the same way I don't know why I don't feel like having sex alot but I don't. I've read someone's article about them not wanting to have sex alot after they started using birth control..I don't know if that is my problem, but what I do know is it is causing a big problem in my relationship.

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