Innchic, what's your real name?? Anyways, well my husband has the hots for my older sister, she's 22, my husband is 23. I don't know, maybe I think he does just because htey're closer in age. And before I became pregnant, he'd always be like "why don't you have you sister's work ethics?". But, he always jokes about having sex with her and sh*t like that, which really doesn't bother me, because I do the same thing. He'll ask me what I did during the day and i'll jokingly say something like "my boyfriend came over". It really doesn't bother me about my sister basically because she lives 2 hours away, and I know my husband loves me. But about the weight thing, i'm just lazy, i'll think to myself I need to excersise, so I will, but then the next day I make up excuses not to.