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elizabeth_shea
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Stupid Question But Its Driving Me Crazy...
Posted: 12-07-04 23:22pm
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Ok... My bf and I had protected sex the
other day. I know for a fact that he
didn't come in me. But what i'm worried
about is the pre-ejeculation that could
have come before he pulled out. I know
the condom protects that but he had to
re-adjust the condom several times (we
think because I was particularly dry that
day) because it was slipping out of place.
What are my chances that i'm pregnant
from the pre? I know that there is
lubracant in the condom so that could have
killed some of the pre... But im just
being extremely paranoid... Please help
me...
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jillie81
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-07-04 23:50pm
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I agree! Test test test  good luck
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kristynchase
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:06am
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Are you late for your period?
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elizabeth_shea
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:21am
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No im not late... Im suppose to get my
period sometime next week... (the 15th or
so...)im just nervous about it...
Like I said I know he didn't cum into
me... And with the condom I shouldn't
worry... Right? All im worried about is
the slight chance that he could have
pre-ejec. A little bit...
I'm a very serious worrier... I worry
about everything and just knowing the fact
that it is possible that im pregnant
scares me to death... I couldn't stand
bringing life into this world when I can't
make sure that it will be taken care of...
Im just scared right now...
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kristynchase
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:25am
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Yes it is normal to feel worried..
Expecially if you arent ttc I dont think
you could be preggo if you used a condom..
I think you should be just fine.. Dont
stress out your self to much babe... Good
luck.. I am ttc and I am supposed to have
my period in 4 days.. So I am counting
down to but I am for a totally other
reason than you... Lol like I said before
babe good luck you will be just fine 
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kristynchase
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:25am
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Yes it is normal to feel worried..
Expecially if you arent ttc I dont think
you could be preggo if you used a condom..
I think you should be just fine.. Dont
stress out your self to much babe... Good
luck.. I am ttc and I am supposed to have
my period in 4 days.. So I am counting
down to but I am for a totally other
reason than you... Lol like I said before
babe good luck you will be just fine
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elizabeth_shea
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:38am
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Thanks kristyn... It helps knowing that
there is a chance i'm not... But i'm
gonna worry until I get my period... Or
until I break down and take a test...
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kristynchase
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:45am
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Well good luck girl... Hopefully
everything goes well with you.. Let me
know ok!! :d
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bluebubble888
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Posted: 12-08-04 05:15am
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Listen~worrying will only push your period
back later!! Just relax and try to
breathe. Of course there is a chance you
could be pregnant~but your probably not!
Good luck hun~and remember to learn from
this!!!
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-08-04 08:54am
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I dont think you are pregnant but that is
my opinion if you dont start your period
just take a test to confirm.
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elizabeth_shea
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Posted: 12-08-04 18:32pm
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Ok well today I woke up and I had started
spotting... As the day progressed the
spotting has gotten heavier but its not
like my normal period... Im hopeing that
it is just because of me stressing and
that my period will come in the morning...
But im still a bit worried...
Thanks for all of your advice... Its
comforting....
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elizabeth_shea
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Posted: 12-09-04 08:14am
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 nope
it wasnt my period... I think im gonna go
get a test today.. I cant take it
anymore...
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Tazzy D
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elizabeth_shea
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Posted: 12-09-04 22:27pm
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Today was a bad day... A very busy bad
day... Didn't have time to get the
test... Still scared... Still worried...
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elizabeth_shea
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Posted: 12-11-04 07:32am
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Still dont know... Still terrified...
Dont know what to do...
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-11-04 07:38am
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Girl, go get a test and take it! The
sooner you find out, the sooner you can
move on. Either you're having a baby, or
you need to get some bc.
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steen
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:36pm
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| elizabeth_shea
wrote: | | still dont know... Still
terrified... Dont know what to
do... |
Are you worried about what the test will
show and thus is unwilling to actually
take it, or is it an issue of finances
(the local planned parenthood will give
you a free pregnancy test, f.Ex.)
go get the test. The constant worry that
we see from you, but with you still not
taking the test, that is beginning to seem
a bit strange. 
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PosrscheLvr
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:14pm
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I don't think you would be pregnant.
There is only a slight chance you could
be.
It's close to the 15th, I wish you the
best of luck on getting your period. If
you are more worried about pregnancy try
to use two methods at once. Maybe get on
the pill/patch/depo. Or if hormones don't
sound to appealing use like like
spermicidal foam, that will help kill
sperm in any pre-cum if something should
happen in the future. There is also a
non-hormonal iud if you are not wanting to
get pregnant anytime soon. I think you
should just talk to your gyno about what
might be best for you, good luck.
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esteeg
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Posted: 12-11-04 15:09pm
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Well, I definitely think that you should
get a test. This could have been
implantation bleeding, even thou it seems
a bit early for that, might have been
caused by the stress you've put yourself
in. I do think, however, that you are not
pregnant, since you've mentioned that
1. He used a condom
2. He didn't cum inside of you
3. You've said that you were particularly
dry that day, which indicated that
ovulation had already passed for good.
Which means that you weren't (very)
fertile anymore (mucus is an indication of
when you are ovulating, thus when you are
most fertile. No mucus, no moist, not
really fertile. Do not take this as a
guideline thou, every woman is different
and that is just how my body is.)
well, go and take that test finally! That
really the only thing that will help
you!
Good luck!
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