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KaiGela
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Joined: 14 Nov 2004
Posts: 485
Location: Anywhere (:
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Okay This Is So Crazy
Posted: 12-07-04 22:22pm
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Umm is it me of all of a sudden theres
been little teeny boppers comming on here
asking if they should get pregnant at the
age of 13-14? I mean, thats crazy.
Hey i'm 14, too. And no im not being
hypocritical since im pregnant, because I
wasn't ttc. My pregnancy was not planned
or expected, so lets get that straight
before everyone jumps on me here, I just
wanna state my opinion real quick.
You girls, are so young to be even
considering motherhood. I mean, wow,
13-14 year olds, we should still be
playing nintendo or something, caca, I
still do.
I dont have a job. Im not stable. Im
depending on my baby'sdaddy who doesnt
even send me money. And plus when you
girls get pregnant, who are you gonna
depend on when your parents back out on
you, like mine did? And your babydaddy,
when he pussiefies himself and leaves.
Then whose there? Your not old enough to
get a job, legally at least. You need to
get this thru your minds.
I dont mean to be harsh but it's the
truth. Having a child is so expensive.
And don't even bother looking for a job
without a degree in college! And who says
your gonna be able to pull off making it
thru hs with a child? Whose gonna take
care of your kids? Your parents work.
You have to go to school. You have like
no other choice than to be a sahm unless
your gonna take homeschooling, but thats
another story, and that's what i'm doing
btw.
You'll be pretty lucky if you have your
parents and babydaddy there. But don't
you ever think of the dissapointment youll
bring into your parents lives? Let alone
yours. Why would you want to bring a
child into a world at a time in your life
when your a child yourself? No matter how
responsible you are, you can't handle it,
you cant.
Im not saying teenmoms can't be good
mothers. They can be twice as good as the
average aged mothers, but that doesnt give
you any reason to be one!!
When reality slaps you in the face, you'll
realize the mistake you made. Im not
saying that a baby is a mistake. But it
was mistake for you to ttc at such a young
age! Why? Why..??!
I have so much more to say but I dont feel
like typing it up. This thread will
probally get locked or deleted anyway so I
wont waste my time. I hope this just
gives you girls an idea of what your
getting youself into..
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GuitarJade
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Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Princess385
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:27pm
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I'm nto a teen mother really...Well yeah I
guess I am!! Lol 19....Anyway...I'm not a
child any more. I'm an adult. I'm able
to take care of myself and my hubby and
now a child. I agree with everything
that was posted here. It's not an easy
task and everything that was stated here
is true...She's just not beathign around
the bush, but telling you flat out!!
Listen to her, you're not going to be able
to do this at the age of 13 or 14.
Man when I was that age, sex didn't even
cross my mind. I didn't know what it
was...Well I did, but it was int he back
of my mind at the time. At the age of 16
was when I began to have sex...Mistake
there, because it wasn't with the guy I
loved and I really wish I would have
waited till I was married, like I am now.
So many things could have gone wrong and
I could have found myself pregnant with
someone I didn't love or want to be with.
Yeah I would have still loved the child,
but I would have felt like I was
trapped....If that makes any sense to you
all!!
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Heathergirl
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Joined: 11 Oct 2004
Posts: 719
Location: Michigan
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:29pm
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Ka, babe, I love
you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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smith8500
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Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:34pm
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I love you ka. Good points made there.
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LHSbabe0207
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Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:39pm
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Wow ka! Good job!!! 
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KaiGela
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Posts: 485
Location: Anywhere (:
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:39pm
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 I just hope you all
know, I want whats best for everyone. And
I dont want you girls being so young to be
going through the same caca i'm going
through right now.
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bd1012
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Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:54pm
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That's the same thing I thought ka..
Chanda, can you see if this is the same
person.. (i don't really think so but it
just seem so suspicious..) there must be
something in the water or some baby fever
epidemic going around.
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JeNn134
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Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 116
Location: Ohio
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Posted: 12-07-04 22:55pm
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Ka good I couldn't have said it any better
then that
i am 19 and I might be preggo not sure yet
but more then likely I am but I am not
with the daddy but we are still really
close friends and he's going to be there
though the whole thing so I guess i'm
lucky
but yeah when I was 13 or 14 I have not
even started my period at that age and I
thought guys sucked and I didn't really
like guys
but good job ka
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 12-07-04 23:41pm
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Good points made. All those young
girls-reconsider what you are doing,
please!
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1stTimeMom2Be
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Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 466
Location: milwaukee, wi
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:30am
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They are not going to listen to us
ka...They are going to go do it anyways
because they think they know everything
prolly just like we did at one point and
then when it really happens, it will hit
them...Damn, I should have listened to
those girsl...I didnt know it was going to
be this hard but I never took the time to
listen to the facts that everyone was
tellin me....So let them not listen to us
now and when it does happen, they will be
kissing our a$$e$ becuz they dont know
what to do or what they got themselves
into....
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 12-08-04 00:32am
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Yea....Just watch. Now all their posts
are about getting pregnant. And when they
really do get pregnant, then their posts
will be like, "how am I going to do pay
for it? How do I do this? How do I do
that?" thought you were soooooo ready
to have a baby....Pffft
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kristynchase
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Joined: 03 Nov 2004
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Location: Michigan
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Posted: 12-08-04 01:10am
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Very well put I love how mature you are
when you read your post you cant even tell
that you are only 14 you are going to be
such a great mother.. You have a really
good head on your shoulders.. Good luck
with everything ka...
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rachrach
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Posted: 12-08-04 03:45am
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I agree..
Btw heyy ka! Loong time no talk, I hope
your doing great!
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SamiNSunisMa
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-08-04 09:15am
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Nicely put ka.. I couldnt have said
better myself.
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manytravels
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Joined: 16 Nov 2004
Posts: 159
Location: TN
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Posted: 12-08-04 10:03am
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Great post and well said. I like when
someone gives blunt honesty. Those girls
need a reality check and your post is a
good one.
But it seems the more truthful people are
in explaining something to these girls,
the more defensive and reactive they get
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hm_03
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Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
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Posted: 12-08-04 11:23am
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Wow ka i'm so impressed by what you said.
That was well put.
Sometimes girls don't realize that it is
hard to have a child at such a young age
and depending on their situation they
could really be messing themselves up
especially if you don't have support.
Girls listen to ka she has so much good
point and also she can tell you from
experience.
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TQuartz490
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Posted: 12-08-04 14:51pm
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this is
just my opinion. Im not saying pregnancy
young is the right thing, but when or if
it happens try to understand where the
child is coming from. And don't judge
them as their mother but as a friend or
someone with guidance. Some of u have
gone way out of hand to prove points that
are useless.
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babyrae
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Posted: 12-08-04 15:08pm
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Ka, u know how we all feel about u and u
know we think ur going to be a great
mother! You've had to do a lot of growing
up in these past few months and prepare
yourself ot be a mother. You've done a
good job. I'm glad u met these girls on
here.... I like to think we played a
small role in helping you out with
everything
ur wise beyond your years ka.. And you're
going to do a great job as a parent!
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