Emotionally Detached: a Good Thing? Posted: 12-07-04 16:46pm
I've been seeing someone for about 6
weeks. She claims she doesn't do pdas,
won't even hold my hand in public (and its
not the way I dress). Lately, she
doesn't even hold my hand when we are
alone. She really gets displeased if I
act emotional or affectionate physically
or verbally. The closest we come to
affection is sex, and it is tearing me up
inside? Am I just too sensitive? Too
emotional? I welcome any responses.
Thanks,
menahesh
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23roses
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Re: Emotionally Detached: a Good Thing? Posted: 02-06-05 22:24pm
[it seems that ur girkfriend is not
comfortable with the idea of sex
yet.Giveher some time. Make her
comfortable when u two r together. Don't
rush up at things. It seemed to me that
somethings r there in her mind talk it
out. Key thing is communication talk a
lot with her.
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 02-08-05 10:49am
There are some people.. Both men and
women, that aren't comfortable with public
display of affection. (pda). Some that
don't like to cuddle while in private
too... It's just preference. Appreciate
her for the person she is, don't try to
change her to meet your needs. If she
doesn't meet your needs, then perhaps you
should consider looking elsewhere for
happiness.
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FagScorned
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I Feel Your Pain... Posted: 07-21-07 11:45am
I doubt there is anything you can do..
Some people are just ice cold and it seems
to me that your GF is a [please watch your
language]. As I read your post I couldn't
help but think of my ex.. He was freaked
out about showing affection too. I'm not
sure what your GLs problem is but, as for
my boyfriend, I blame his evil mother..
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danielv
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Posted: 08-28-07 10:36am
menahesh,
if you're getting some at 6 weeks, it's
not too bad.
on a serious note, does she show affection
in other (non physical ways)?
it may be too early to judge. how long
have u known her?
