It depends.... I like shaved. But that also gets scratchy... So def. Trimmed short (like 1/4") is good. I do not like natural...

I like my man to look like a man. I think shaving is very feminine.

I think shaving is clean. Men shave their faces and thats not fem. I don't know. I just don't like hair. It seems so dirty and sweaty and yuck! I really depends on each women and each man. A lot of men won't even shave if their women want them too. So maybe try trimming and see what she thinks. Then if she likes it try shaving. If she doesn't like it, it always grows back! Be sure to use a new razor and lots of shaving cream (or conditioner)

I guess i'm just old fashioned. Men and women are supposed to shave certain things.

Yeah. Maybe. I don't know. I know my opnion may be altered cuz I was with a guy for 4 years that shaved his entire body.....

Yes, I am thinking about shaving too. I mean doesn't it bother you girls (i2at24) when you give oral to have all that pubic hair in your mouth or does it not really bother you? I always thought it was either feminine or just something that guys did in pornos.

My hubby shaves down there and some times I do it for him so I like it alot :p

well, it looks like more women prefer it. Go for it.

Yeah, I hate hair! Hair is just gross. And I don't find it feminine for a man to be shaved. It is definately more clean and I love a man with good hygiene. But, it just depends on who you are going to be with. I don't personally know any girl who likes hair down there. It at least has to be trimmed, but there are those who do like it. I'm rambling. Anyway, if you want to, do it! I love a shaved man!

I have never ever known a man who shaved his nether bits! I don't think I would want to -- seems like a weird idea to me.

My husband shaves his balls, and trims the rest, that's how I like it, shaven balls are so soft, and I also agree that it's cleaner!

For my opinion...I like my man to b trimmed..I think its way fem. For a guy to shave it..Plus when theres nothin down there when u both shave it juss dun feel right.....N when givin oral sex...Dun bother me...Its never gotten in my way..But i've never made it all the way down like that...W/o gagin!

I think it is sexy for my husband to be trimmed, but not shaved all the way. I think that it is more cleaner to be trimmed then not to be.

I'm with poopoo on this one! I didn't know any men did that, except maybe swimmers, or gay men or maybe bodybuilders. How old are all these guys who do this, or is it an american thing? Maybe I need to get out more!

Wendypoo..Who knows if its an american thing..But for all I know guys do do it...Sum guys even shave it into shapes...A guy was talkin bout it to sum1 ...Talk about retarded!

I'm glad some women agree with me. I was beginning to wonder...Am I the only one?

this was surprising to me...I was with a guy for 4 years and he never shaved anything below the neck, and it didn't bother me for a second. I loved him and I would have been with him regardless of whether he had a penis, not to mention a "neat pubic hair region". Its just silly.

Plus I dont think it has anything to do with hygiene as long as the person showers regularly...Its just hair for christ sake, whats so terrible about hair? Unless its excessive or you back looks like a gorilla's leave your poor hair alone!

And yes, it is an american thing...You'll rarely find a european who shaves his balls or body...They'll shave their heads first.

Well,i like a well groomed man.This also applies to his nether bits.It does not have to be completely shaven,neat is fine.Once in a while,it is a nice surprise to find that my husband has shaven himself ! .Patty

Hey if you want the appearence of looking larger then shave .... Or trim.. My husband shaves it all most of the time and it just looks and feels good he just doesn't like it when it starts to grow back and get itchy.. We also shave eachother its fun..