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Q: 16 And Possibly Pregnant.
asked by: scared_to_breath on December 5th, 2004
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Hi everyone. I just needed someplace to talk about what i'm going through because I can't tell my mom and my bf doesn't seem to want to talk about it. I'm 16, and I might be pregnant. I'm not sure though, I haven't had my period yet, well I had light spotting on nov. 14, so I thought i'd get my period around nov. 25 but I still haven't gotten it. I took a hpt a lil while ago, it was about a weekish, I don't remember. Well I took 2 because I don't think I did the first one right, but they both came out negative. My period still hasn't come, and i've been feeling sick but I haven't thrown up. Does anyone know when I should take another hpt, or if I should just wait and see if my period comes.
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LHSbabe0207
replied on December 5th, 2004
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Good luck! Yes exactly test asap!!! Or consider a blood test that always works too. Wink
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scared_to_breath
replied on December 6th, 2004
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Thanks everyone, i'm worried about testing because I don't know how to tell my mom if I am pregnant. Plus i'm not sure how my boyfriend would take it, i'm sure he'd be happy, but it would be really hard to tell my mom because she doesn't think that me and him are going out anymore. She thinks that we've been broken up since september and that we are just friends now. I'm thinking about either going to get a blood test within the next couple days at a birth control center, or waiting till fri to buy another hpt. Maybe i'll just wait though because my period is sometimes irregular, and theres been times where i've thought I was pregnant but I got my period later on. I'm not sure. Thanks for the help you guys, i'll probably post here a bit because from what i've read on the forums it seems like a pretty good place to be.
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LHSbabe0207
replied on December 6th, 2004
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Yes yes... Being worried about it can make your period late so dont try to do that much. Btw. I like your icon Wink
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JeNn134
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Don't worry girl I might be right with you I am 19 and I might be also preggo but my ex knows and he's acually happy but scared at the same time he's going to stick by me the whole time if I am

but good luck and I think your mom will understand yes she might be mad at first but she will help you out in the long run
i know my mom will be mad but she will end up helping me out


good luck
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Ill be here whether u r or arent! Keep us posted!
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Ellie6388
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Sweetheart take another hpt, I was do for my period november 27, and I am 6 weeks preggo. You need to find out so you can start taking care of yourself.
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heavenlyangel
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Sweetie take another hpt. Your hcg level may be to low the home pregnancy teset to pick up. I would say go to your doctor for a blood test they alway right.
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mayer4567
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Hey, im right there with you I was supposed to get my period nov 18th and still havent got it.. I took 2 tests and they both came out negative.. My boyfriend doesnt seem to intrested in talking about it or anything, hes more into his car.. Which worrys me if I am
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on December 7th, 2004
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mayer4567 wrote:
hey, im right there with you I was supposed to get my period nov 18th and still havent got it.. I took 2 tests and they both came out negative.. My boyfriend doesnt seem to intrested in talking about it or anything, hes more into his car.. Which worrys me if I am

sounds like a loser to me jmo
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Princess385
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Sometimes it takes longer for men to get into the pregnancy. Doesn't make your man a loser. My husband it took till I was about due for him to get really excited and interseted in the pregnancy. Simply because they're not experiancing anything really. They don't get to feel the baby's first moves, the baby's hiccups. They're not carring it, so they dont' have a clue to it in the world. My husband hated going shopping for the baby before he was born, he hated it with a passion, cause it bored him, but for me it was exciting!! Smile now that the baby is here, my hubby is so excited and is so into the baby it's so precious!! It'll take time, just give it that time and if he doesn't want to talk about it, it might also mean your man is a bit scared. It happens, specailly if you're younger and he's younger. He probably never thought something like thsi would ever happen to him. I t's a new change and something for him to get use to!! But trust me, if he stays wtih you, eventually he'll come around and get interested in the baby and want to talk about. It might help if you take him to a fw appointments. Maybe if you're going to find out the sex of the baby, that would be the best appointment to take him to, then he'll know if he's getting a son or daugther. Smile good luck to you hun and you man isn't a loser!!
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mayer4567
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Lol I know hes not a loser.. But sumtimes I wonder lol.. But im not actually sure if I am pregnant or not yet.. When sumthings bothering him he doesnt like to talk about it... So I dont push it.. Hes a huge car guy tho, I used to be first in his life until recently he got his first car.. Now the car comes first and it seems to be all he cares about...Im worrying that if I am pregnant his cars gonna stay most important and im not gonna have the help I mite need from him.. Its frustrating enough already!!! Hes outside installing a cd player in his car right now... I hate that damn car.. I wanna be his baby again lol
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Wow I just realized I was kinda harsh, if he's not gonna take care of u and be with his car *then* hes a loser!
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Princess385
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Guys do love their cars. My man is a car guy too!! But once the baby was here he fell in love and the car isn't that important. Your man will realize that in time. So don't sweat it, it just might take him a little longer. And sometimes it happens right then and there when they find out their going to have a son or daughter. But once again, your man is not a loser....And if he loves you and everything, he'll understand that these other things come first. You should really sit down and talk to him.

Let him know that this baby is going to be born and that it's going to be more important than his car...If you have to, tell him either this child and me or you car....Let him know that you're serious about this.

But didn't you say you don't even know if you're pregnant or not yet? I think before you sweat about anything else, you should find out if you're for sure pregnant!! You might be sitting stressing over that your man isn't going to care or be interested in a child, that might be causing you to miss your period.
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mayer4567
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Im not really stressin over anything.. Just kinda waiting things out to see.. In 10 days it will be a month late tho, but tests are still negative

by the way I am 17 and my boyfriend is only 18
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Princess385
replied on December 7th, 2004
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You might be better off going to the drs and having them do a blood test for you. You'll be able to find out sooner as well. Do you want to be pregnant??
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mayer4567
replied on December 7th, 2004
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A while ago b4 any of this I thought I wanted to be but now that I think I mite be.. I dont wanna be
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Princess385
replied on December 7th, 2004
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And that's understandable!! If you are though, it's a precious gift and the greatest thing in the world. Smile
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rachrach
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Good luck!
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sarahsweet
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Good luck dear. Princess is absolutly right, your guy is not a looser. A lot of guys are into their cars and might make you feel neglected because they are so into it, but hey, its better than him being at the strip joint every night. He will get used to it, but test first!
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