Sometimes it takes longer for men to get into the pregnancy. Doesn't make your man a loser. My husband it took till I was about due for him to get really excited and interseted in the pregnancy. Simply because they're not experiancing anything really. They don't get to feel the baby's first moves, the baby's hiccups. They're not carring it, so they dont' have a clue to it in the world. My husband hated going shopping for the baby before he was born, he hated it with a passion, cause it bored him, but for me it was exciting!!

now that the baby is here, my hubby is so excited and is so into the baby it's so precious!! It'll take time, just give it that time and if he doesn't want to talk about it, it might also mean your man is a bit scared. It happens, specailly if you're younger and he's younger. He probably never thought something like thsi would ever happen to him. I t's a new change and something for him to get use to!! But trust me, if he stays wtih you, eventually he'll come around and get interested in the baby and want to talk about. It might help if you take him to a fw appointments. Maybe if you're going to find out the sex of the baby, that would be the best appointment to take him to, then he'll know if he's getting a son or daugther.

good luck to you hun and you man isn't a loser!!