:d hey dude im 14

look man ur confused about your sex and what you want I have thought my self gay at times dont worrie I know its crused me insdie before
well get a girl friend see how her skin feels see if you enjoy her skin (like enjoy kissing her)

thats how I found out I wasn't gay

but by the sounds of it you might love your friend which you might do I dont know but even if your gay,bi or stright it doesn't matter

Thanks dude i'll tryto explore different people and see if I like it or not, but I am not(or have ever) been attrcted to any other boy but this one.

I have a guess, that you are not gay, rather than you really like or even love your best friend so much that it got you confused. You are 13 so basically you have just passed puberty. You want to explore things more.

I don't think that you are homo since you say that you are attracked to two girls. And also because you say that you are only attracked to your best friend it might be emotional rather than sexual.
Just my 2 cents.

More replies pleaz

Dood, don't even think about hittin on ur dood frend, think about him, you say he got a gurl? Well,he be likin gurlz, not do0dz, dont mess ur frendship up...Latez

Bi, maybe?

Notorious, was that english? Just curious because I couldn't understand a word.

Yeah, I agree with most of the above posts. You could just be confusing loving him emotionally with sexually, or you could be bi. I wouldn't say anything to your friend though. Wait until you are done with puberty and your hormones calm down. Maybe you will find that you aren't gay at all, and you don't want to scare your best friend away.

When you are young it is common to have seemingly confusing messages sent to you from your brain or even your heart. Try not to worry about it.
What you can do is start conversations about sex and see where they lead with a very trusted friend. When I was 13 I had a good friend who I was in a similar situation with. We used to love to look at girlie magazines and that may be a good way to start the ball rolling. But don't spend too much time on it, have fun with other things, there is plenty of time and believe me, your sex drive will never go away.

Listen to how u stated it "i think im gay", well im my opinion I dont feel you are gay just from what u said. See I think that this society is so messed up nowadays that children and even adults get screwed in the head. Now if you have never been molested in anyway by a man, then what happening to you is "suggestions" somewhere and someone, or something made u think that it is ok to have sexual feeling about a man, well flat out its not. You were created ,and imma get a bit religious on u, you were created as a male which means you are to be attracted naturally to a female, plain and simple. When we are going thru our life's many changes we have a tendency to wonder all sorts of things, from something someone suggested to us. The suggestions dont have to be from someone we know either, they come from tv, magazines, etc. I know some folks dont believe what im saying to you , but its the truth. If it wasnt then why do we dress how we do, talk how we talk, like what we like? From suggestions fed to us by our environment. I hope this isnt too much I really hope that this will help u out. See when I was as a matter of fact I was about 11-12 my brother use to always tell (suggest) me I was gay, and for a minute I started to believe him, and why did i? Constantly repeating it to me over and over. See im the youngest in my family and I used to get picked on all the time, by him suggesting that to me I started to wonder was I really, of course I wasnt and am not, what im saying is be careful who u listen to and what u listen to , words are the food for our thoughts and you have gotten some bad food my friend. Be what you are created to be, a man and a man is created for a woman , as a woman is for a man. Sorry for writing so much I cant seem to stop when I get started , I hope I helped you.