Theres alot of people going through the
same thing, allthough its totaly different
its the same.
Im 13 too and ive been cutting I have huge
scars now
if u take a long long look inside yourself
and figure out what really make you happy
(this may take from 2 days to 5 years) but
when u have done it it u will be happy!
Luv me
p.S isnt it weirsd I cant take my own
advice?
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unwrittenverse
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 5 Location: n/a
I Cut Myself Too Posted: 11-15-05 00:08am
Hay im 12 turning 13 month after next and
I cut myself too,my friends are worried
and so is everyone else I have even had a
meeting with my princeipal but no one
understands...
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a_caged_mind
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2005 Posts: 3 Location: IN, USA
....... Posted: 11-15-05 23:25pm
After reading so many replies to this
topic and others, I actually realized that
I perform s.I. I didn't even take it into
account that I was, and it's quite odd,
but I use my cats.... When I play with
them and they bite and scratch my arms. I
noticed my arms when I was reading all
these post, the scars from the cat
scratches. I have so many, I always play
with them to and after I stop my arms and
hands are always scratched up. I can't
believe I didn't even realize I was doing
this...For almost like 5 years now I
think....Geeze...
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forever_cutting66
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Hackettstown, NJ
Posted: 12-07-05 20:30pm
Yeah, I know what you are going through.
I'm a 13 (well, 14 tomorrow) year old
teen, and I cut my self constantly. I
started only about 10 months ago, and I
can't stop. I've only been able to tell
one person about it, and even then I
couldn't bring myself to tell the complete
truth. I think I might have a serious
problem because i've tried to kill myself
at least 5 times since I was 12, and I
just need some help. It seems that no one
cares about me, and I just can't relieve
the pain without cutting. Can somebody
help me out????? :(
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september65
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 12-07-05 21:39pm
Hello. Some people cut just to feel (like
me). I don't want attention. I just want
to feel the pain and look at the blood
flow out of my skin. Yes, it's very
addictive. So I try not to touch the
razor, because once I do, I cut myself
tens of times before I can put the razor
down.
Forever_cutting66, I can't say I know how
you feel because I really don't, and
saying that would be a lie. One thing I
know for sure is that you won't be willing
to accept the help of a psychiatrist yet,
or will you..? Anyhow, I want you to know
that there are a lot of people who care
about and love you. Look, even I care
about you. If I didn't, I wouldn't have
posted this reply. =)
please don't kill yourself. Do you have a
dream..? Everytime you feel like killing
youself, think of your dream, and that if
you died, your dream can never come true.
Your dream could be simple, for example, I
want to enter university. But I can't if
i'm dead. I'm sure you have dreams, like
owning a porsche or flying a plane. Think
of things that make you happy.
If you can't stop cutting, make sure you
use a clean razor. Not one which is all
rusted up and covered in dirt. Email me
if you need someone to talk to..
Joined: 19 May 2007 Posts: 1 Location: Hesperia, CA
Responce to *rin*- Youre Not Alone Posted: 05-19-07 13:47pm
*RIN*
youre not alone in wanting to stop
cutting yourself. I am 20 years old now
but when i was your age i was cutting too.
i was doing it mostly as a cry for help
because my father was abusive. im not sure
exactly how i stopped cutting myself,
(most of that part of my life hard to
remember) but i think my poems helped. I
just started writing all the time about
what i was going through. I dove into
writing headfirst and kept going. it also
helped me finding where i belonged in high
school. I joined the band, because thats
my passion, and finding out that i
belonged somewhere and i was not a useless
person like my father made me believe i
was, made me feel better.
here's my advice: take whatever youre
in to... and make that the most important
thing to you. try writing. if thats not
your thing, try painting or something
artistic. even if youre not good at it,
try it. artistic activities open up the
abilities controlled by the left side of
your brain and greatly releases stress and
anxiety.
just try it out. hope i can help
- Charlotte
I started cutting at 14, and I'm 17 now.
My mom found out about my problem back
when I was 16, and she promissed she'd get
help for me. I never told her that she was
mostly the reason why I did it. My mom
physically abused me as a child, and now
all the physical abuse has turned verbal.
She never did get me the help I need, and
it's been over a year. Whenever it comes
up, she says it "slips her mind".
Hopefully, if I get a decent job, I can
get my own help...
This is my first post on this forum, and I
feel like I have a bond with the people
here, just by reading their posts. I don't
have to explain anything to anyone here...
It's like you guys already know.
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haleyx0
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 12-29-07 02:03am
Depending on how understanding your
parents are this might work but only if
your ready. Last year my parents found out
and checked me into a phyciatric hospital
and it help for a little while. If your
parents found out somehow, maybe even
without you telling them, they wuld
probably rush to get you help. No one like
to see their loved ones hurt, especially
if it's self-inflicted. Good luck (:
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