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*Rin*
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Joined: 05 Dec 2004
Posts: 3
Location: Cliftom, NJ
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Cutting
Posted: 12-05-04 02:42am
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Listen....
I dont need your rude coments or stipid
ideas like bashing my head into a wall to
try to help....Im a 13 yer old girl and my
friends are really disapointed of me for
doing this.....
I cut myself and im trying to stop....And
b 4 you stupid ppl have n e coments about
me being crazy then your wrong. If you
would see me at school you would think im
a normal person...I know how to use
forums( I have one of my own) so srry if I
posted this in the wrong spot....
Heres this coment so you ppl dont think im
crazy...
Okay, first of all, people who cut do not
do it to kill themselves. They do it to
release the built up overwhelming emotions
inside of them so that they can stay
alive. Its a hard to understand concept,
but the best way I can explain it is this:
some people have trouble expressing
emotional pain and they can't understand
why or where emotional pain hurts."
i only wanna stop....And I need some ppl
to help with there coments or ideas....
Please help
~rin
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gingeroo
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Joined: 26 Dec 2004
Posts: 1
Location: North Dakota
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Posted: 12-26-04 00:30am
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I understand what you are going through
with the cutting. I am 32 and have been
cutting and other
self-harm/injure/mutilation since I was
12.
People who don't si really don't
understand how we who do work.
There is a web site called bodies under
siege that is specifically for those who
si. Http://busmail.Org/phpbb/inde
x.Php
gingeroo
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 12-29-04 15:13pm
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Rin, I don't think u are a crazy kid. I
too had a cutting problem growing up.
From the time I was 12 untill about 2-3
years ago (i am now 25) people thought I
was nuts. I thought I was nuts. I
couldn't stop no matter what. I was put
on strong meds, I was put in the hospital,
but nothing worked. I found a way to cut
myself with plastic utensils even. I had
to get stitches 3 times and should
probably have gotten more but I hid it
those times. No one seemed to understand
and even when I tried to explain that it
was better to take it out on myself than
on someone else they still didn't get it.
I too was a great student and had lots of
friends but I had this "weird problem" .
I finally stopped because my boyfriend
started crying the last time I did it.
It takes a lot of will power to stop (it's
like a drug) I went and got tattoos and
piercings and that seemed to help cause it
was still pain. (you're a little young
for tattoos but....) next time you go to
cut, think of the future and the nasty
scars it leaves. (i wear long sleeves a
lot) I am now pregnant and have not
wanted to cut for a long time but.... I
get that feeling every once in a while.
Not to cut but almost. It's a very hard
habit to stop but you can, just be aware
of when you're about to do it and force
yourself to stop. Do it while you are
young so u won't have to go through all
the caca like I did. Good luck to u.
:hugs:
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Health Angel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2004
Posts: 141
Location: Australia
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Posted: 12-30-04 07:07am
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I used to cut when I was in high school
after a few big events in my life ie a
close relative dying. Not because I
wanted to die but it was the only thing
that I felt a tiny bit of release from my
emotions........So I understand. I
havent cut for atleast 4 years now. 1
reason I stopped was willpower, I needed
to stop because of me not because of
someone else telling me 2 and 2....I kept
myself busy, tried to spend time with
friends and 3 when I couldnt do that I did
what ur doing now....Speak to someone on
the net. I think if u really want to
stop you can. Just make sure you have
someone to talk to about it.
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lilgothchick
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 33
Location: Ontario Canada
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Posted: 01-02-05 00:16am
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At the moment I am trying to stop
my bf really wants me to stop so I am
trying to for him
it is really hard sometimes (i cut myself
for about 6 years.... I'm almost 20
now)... Its like loosing a long time
friend sometimes...
Just try your best and dont beat yourself
up if you fail a few times
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jurplesman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2004
Posts: 139
Location: Sydney Australia
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Posted: 01-18-05 23:44pm
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The best way for people to stop inflicting
pain on themselves is by treating the
underlying biochemical disorder that
prompts them to do so.
Si people have a kind of depression caused
by hypoglycemia (insulin resistance) that
can be treated by going on a hypoglycemic
diet.
This diet which is a sugar-free diet taken
in frequent small snacks during the day,
together with some vitamins and minerals,
helps to normalize stress hormones, as
well as erratic insulin and blood sugar
levels.
Please read:
"what is hypoglycemia?" at our web site.
Jurriaan plesman
for more articles see
free web site at:
http://www.Hypoglycemia.Asn.Au
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Carman
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2005
Posts: 3
Location: PHOENIX
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Cutting
Posted: 01-19-05 00:22am
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Rin, you see you are not alone. My son
did that for years, and maybe he still is.
He now 22 year old. My son was adhd,
and latter was diagnosed with bypolar.
He drove me crazy with worry. I love him
so much it hurt to see his arms. He too
has to wear long sleeve shirts when he
goes to job interviews. It's
imbarrassing to him. There is no wonder
drug that can fix the problem. But after
doing a lot of research on the matter it
seems to come on during the teen years
with all the stress you kids go through.
And as you grow older it becomes
managable. He hid it from me because it
upset him, but now we talk about it and
everything else.
You hit the nail on the head. You get
the urge when you have a lot of pent up
emotions. Don't beat yourself up about
it. That only adds to your stress. You
can always come here to talk. You are
not nuts. I wish the best for you.
Carman
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hurt28
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Dec 2004
Posts: 49
Location: lowell
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Hey This Is Kelsey's Friend
Posted: 02-04-05 19:28pm
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Hi I am this girls friend -- I dont want
to use my name so ill call myself anonmyus
for now until im comfortable revealing
myself. Ok well I am a cutter and I know
how you feel, I dont like talking about
it. My arms have about 4 scars on each
lower arm and ones u cannot see. I get
depressded everytime soemthing happens so
I just cut myself--usually with a safety
pin really deep or a little blade, deep
but not deep enought to kill myself...=/
wellll I am 14 yrs old and a freshman in
high schoool. I know how you feel and I
hope u cope better with ur cutting than I
do with mine no one knows but kelsey and I
dont like sharing it with people so they
dont tihnk im crazy or anything like that
so if u have any advice for me anyone
reply to this and kelsey will tell me
until I sign up for this which wont be
soon, I am too shy right now. :(
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Unread Thoughts
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Mar 2005
Posts: 1
Location: Nova Scotia
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Desperate Cry For Help
Posted: 03-11-05 10:17am
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Hey, i've been cutting since I was in the
eighth grade(i was 14 when I started.) now
i'm in grade 11 (17 years old) and I am
way beyond tired of my habit...I've tried
everything to fix this but as soon as I
think i've stopped, I do it again...No one
in my family knows how I feel...It would
make things worse if they did, they would
over-react and blame me for being stupid
and making bad decisions...Thats how they
are...I've been suffering from
un-diagnosed depression for since I was 13
years old...I just want to get
better....But I know there's no way I can
get help until I leave here...When I get
out on my own I should be able to get
help...But until then I need to deal with
it on my own...My friends are scared and
it's gotten bad enough that they said if
they see another cut on my wrist they will
drive me themselves to the doctor and tell
my parents...And it's not uncommon for me
to stand alone with a knife to my wrist or
a bottle of pills in my hand...I've
written countless letters...But something
always stops me just in time...I dont want
to die...I just need an escape...To make
my emotional pain visable so I can see
that it's healing...I see that scabe
forming, I see the scars fading...I make
the hurt real... I've talked to teachers
and our school nurse about a "friend" of
mine that needs help without parental
support but none of them seem to know much
that can help me in any way...I just need
to talk to someone that won't
ovverreact...Someone that knows what it's
like...My depression is affecting
everything in my life....I can't sleep, I
cant concentrate...I used to be good in
school and now I can barely pass...I just
want to get out of this....I want
help...If any of you know anything that
might help me...Please....Let me know....Scarlet_whispers69@hotm
ail.Com
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MissJudged
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2005
Posts: 8
Location: new York
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Hey
Posted: 06-28-05 14:45pm
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Email me if anything okay??
I will answer back, if you need someone to
talk to im here for you-jenny
pri
incesz190@hotmail.Com
that goes for all of you too, you guys can
email me when ever for what ever
reason..On the subject put (forum) okay??
Thnx ..
Love -jenny aka missjudged
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Super_K
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2005
Posts: 42
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Me2
Posted: 06-30-05 01:33am
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Hi..Im 14 I used to cut....My parents
found out and now I dont it was easy for
me to stop cause I hadnt done it for to
long I did it for the same reasons as you
and liek no none at my school would ever
guess that I did.
If you want you can email me
rose0
40291@comcast.Net
--keely
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MickyS
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jul 2005
Posts: 29
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???bloodstainheartdeathcry
Posted: 07-22-05 11:09am
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Dear....You can do all of us a favour
:stop writing in these forums !! Or at
least talk about your problems cause it's
clear that you thought about killing
yourself once or twice .Do you think these
people need this kind of advice?
These people are looking for someone to
understand them and to whom they can
relate, and I know that you are full of
prejudices maby someone here can
understand you.
And another thing christ never said kill
yourself.
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Zabrina
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005
Posts: 67
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Posted: 07-22-05 13:45pm
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I know how you feel. Sometimes the pain
inside is so much you can"t express it.
So you cut yourself so the pain is visable
something you can see. Trying to make the
pain outside so it dulls the pain inside.
Well at least that is how it is for me.
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punkette
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jul 2005
Posts: 5
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Posted: 08-01-05 23:49pm
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First I am responding to what this man
said...
I beg you, dears, please do yourselves and
everyone that knows you or knows of you or
may know you in the future a great
service: stop cutting to feel better and
just kill yourself. You'll feel great!
Seriously, if you're depressed and hurting
at 13, don't you see that life will never
get better? So why prolong the agony for
another 30 or 40 years? Just kill
yourself. If cutting your arms doesn't do
it, go across the neck (aim for the
jugular, like a real man). If that
doesn't work, just beat your head with a
brick/large rock until you bash through
the skull and the stupid. Right before
you cash in your chips, you'll experience
enlightenment.
For these are the words of christ, our
lord.
Health questiones.
What is wrong with you? Telling someone
to kill themself first of all ppl cut
themselves not to kill themself but to
release the built up emotions they have
instead of them, and no christ doesnt tell
ppl to kill themself cause that is a sin,
you obvisiously need help big time and I
think you should go to seek therapy.
Now sorry back to you, I to have on
occassion cut my arms, usually with tacks
or knives and I have a couples scars on my
arm but I havent cut myself in awhile I am
still depressed but I don't have this urge
to do that anymore, im not sure if I am
done forever but I havent cut in awhile, I
would suggest trying to see a therapist or
when you feel sad call someone anyone even
if you cant talk about your feelings just
talk about anything to take your mind off
of what is going on
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dramaqueen28
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2005
Posts: 4
Location: Detroit baby!
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Cutting
Posted: 08-05-05 17:10pm
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I used to cut. I felt a little better
afterward and also guilty. Then people at
school started rumors about my cutting and
it would feel terrible and cut. But I
realized the more I cut the more people
would talk caca. So eventually I stopped.
Don't worry girl know what you're going
through, but you will get over it, just
ask for help like you're doing now and
you'll be on the right track :-)
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vanessalouanne
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Joined: 31 May 2005
Posts: 2269
Location: ,
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Posted: 08-05-05 17:27pm
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Try getting on anti depressiants... It's
at least worth a shot.
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005
Posts: 3050
Location: Georgia, USA
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Posted: 08-05-05 18:40pm
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| gingeroo
wrote: | i understand what you are
going through with the cutting. I am 32
and have been cutting and other
self-harm/injure/mutilation since I was
12.
People who don't si really don't
understand how we who do work.
There is a web site called bodies under
siege that is specifically for those who
si. Http://busmail.Org/phpbb/inde
x.Php
gingeroo |
this link is changed for anyone
interested
concerned 'forumer' http://buslist.Org/phpbb/
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fatfamily02
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005
Posts: 3050
Location: Georgia, USA
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Re: Please, I Beg You:
Posted: 08-05-05 18:42pm
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| bloodstainheartdeathcry
wrote: | i beg you, dears, please do
yourselves and everyone that knows you or
knows of you or may know you in the future
a great service: stop cutting to feel
better and just kill yourself. You'll
feel great! Seriously, if you're
depressed and hurting at 13, don't you see
that life will never get better? So why
prolong the agony for another 30 or 40
years? Just kill yourself. If cutting
your arms doesn't do it, go across the
neck (aim for the jugular, like a real
man). If that doesn't work, just beat
your head with a brick/large rock until
you bash through the skull and the stupid.
Right before you cash in your chips,
you'll experience enlightenment.
For these are the words of christ, our
lord.
Health questiones. |
not very nice--dont say that about jesus
christ
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RikkuAkuda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 17
Location: Brighton
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:40am
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Some times taking meds ain't going to
help. You need to be ready to be helped.
Like I am. Thats why i'm here. So I
canbe helped.
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RikkuAkuda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2005
Posts: 17
Location: Brighton
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Posted: 11-01-05 11:41am
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Some times taking meds ain't going to
help. You need to be ready to be helped.
Like I am. Thats why i'm here. So I
canbe helped.
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