Honey nothing is wrong it is just that you love being around babies and you want one to take care of and love. I totally understand beleive me! Dont worry about your parents right now worry about yourself. Wait are you pregnant right now?

Honey nothing is wrong it is just that you love being around babies and you want one to take care of and love. I totally understand beleive me! Dont worry about your parents right now worry about yourself. Wait are you pregnant right now?

What ur having is "baby fever" and i'm sorry, but u would n.O.T be able to handle a child... U have school and life and work and family and friends. Babysitting is a hell of a lot different than haveing your own kid. Its a lot of time, love, effort and patience. Do not try and get pregnant please. Educate yourself on it, live your life, find a man you love, then u can plan on settling down.

No im not pregnant but I want 1 and how would I support it the money doctor clothes food??...I dont know

Yeah, read the other post by the girl who replied first. There are lots of good responses there!

Wouldnt your parents help you scene they are suppose to love you unconditionaly?

But to reply to you, wait! If you want a baby so badly, then obviously you will care for this child right? Good, then care for it before it is conceived by not getting pregnant! Wait until you at least graduate from high school, get a job and are financially ready (which my take quite sometime) and then get pregnant and have a baby.

I know but I want 1 soo bad and what if baby fever doesnt leave me and I have 1..Im scared because if I do get preg how will I support it...I know I kan take kare of it but I need money...No one understands me rite now...

We understand u..Most of us have gone through the same thing

if you can't take care of yourself..And move out...Get married..Get a good job..And many other things.

You're not ready

Baby fever can't "take over" if you use birth control and condoms. No matter how badly you want a baby, just keep in the back of your mind that you want the best for your child and the best is to wait.

Arent your parents supportive? I understand what you mean and so does everyone else.

Like I said in the other thread

you need to wait. I know ur prolly dealing with a bad case of baby fever..I've gone through a major bit of it myself lately...And i'm 16..But I would not bring a child into this world until I could take care of myself...Get married...Live on my own..Pay for my bills..Have a good job...Family support. I want to wait until I can tell my parents.. "guess what, ur gonna be grandparents" and them to cry happy because they are gonna be grandparents at a good time..And their grandchilds parents are married..And have set a good foundation for their child.. Instead of having a child now..And them crying because they are dissapointed in me.

Yes...They would be supportive..My parents will support me in anything.
I have never lied to them..They trust me.

At ur age...13...I was a cheif instructor at a karate studio. I never liked boys much until I was 15. I have wanted a baby since I was 6...That's 10 years ago.. But I will wait until I can bring a child into the world as prepared as I can possibly be.. Prolly 3 years after I get married


plz wait kiddo

Well I know I kan provide a great environment 4 it and I want it sooo badly im sooo confused

I think you should wait, but out of couriousity what would you name the baby if it was a girl/boy?

A great environment? How? With your parents taking care of it while you are in school? Well, then why don't your parents just have another kid.
You need to finish school, get married (if you believe in marriage), have a home of your own, have a job and be financially stable enough to raise your child.
I know you are confused and have strong feelings right now. I don't mean to sound harsh, but you really need to think about what is best for the baby.

At 13 your body isn't fully developed yet. Having a baby now could cause you and the child major harm. Possibly risking both of your lives. You also could miscarry. Would you be able to deal with that??? If ur child had a disability would u be able to deal with it? My brother has one...And I have enough trouble dealing with him..And he's 13. When you turn 21 you would have an 8 year old child. You won't be having fun with friends...You'd be staying home helping your child with homework. Wait please!!!!!

I hadn't even had my period yet at 13. Heck, I hadn't even had my first kiss yet. Wow.

I didn't get my first kiss until recently...And i'm 16 lol
and I got my period just just just b4 my 14th birthday

Thanx u guys 4 all of the advice.....It makes me feel a lot better...But im still confused and I have noooo clu what to say or do..I just go mii period like last month andd ever since then ive really been thinking bcuz now I kan..Mot likely...And I would name mii grl arianna capri and my boy elijah talan