I am really really nervous about hormones, and really unexcited about all of the available drug store birth control options at the moment. The result is that my partner and I use a combination of calendar and rhythmn methods of birth control. This is obviously not a fool-proof system, so I am looking for ways to make it more effective. I am wondering if anyone has used an ovulation detector kit??? Also, something that might be of interest: we have been researching ways for him to orgasm without ejaculating-found some great info on whitelotuseast.Com. Would be appreciative for any advice.