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Q: Results ***tada***
asked by: Yazmine on October 20th, 2003
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In case any of u didnt know I went to the doc today and I am pregnant. Wow! Im feeling a lot of different emotions right now. Me and my bro finnaly told my mom the whole story. At first she felt bad for me and wants to move. But I love where I live I cant leave everyone here just because of one ignorant man! But anywayz... Now she is unsure bout how she feels bout it cuz she was saying I should be more careful and blah blah blah. Besides that she took it a lot better than I thought she would. The police are still looking for the man, hopefully they find him soon!!

Well I have a few questions bout pregnancy. Question I am very active (dance and basketball) how long can I continue to do these activities while pregnant? When can I know if the baby is a boy/ or a girl? I want a girl but either is still I gift from god Laughing !!

Yaz
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Mommy_2_b
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Hey yazmine - well its good that your mom is taking it ok. I know it must be almost as much of a shock to her as it was to you. No mother wants her daughter to be raped. For exercising just dont be to rough or over exerting yourself. The first three months of pregnancy are crutial. And just about anything can go wrong. Not to scare you, im just telling you for your own good. As for when you can tell if its a boy or girl between 15 and 20 weeks you can go to the doctors and they can tell ya what it is. Best of luck sweetie ~melissa
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CrombieChic16
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Yazmine,
im so sorry to hear about what happened to you...You're so strong. Melissa's right, the first 3 months are crucial and you should take extra precautions to make sure u and ur baby stay safe....However, after that, u should be able to keep up on some activity. They say if ur active before u get pregnant, u should be able to stay active as long as u stay extra safe and healthy...And as for when u can tell the sex....Usually around 16 weeks...But babys dont always cooperate, so dont get discouraged if u dont find out on the first try....Good luck and keep us updated!
*vanessa*
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nikki_caro
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Yazmine, are you really pregnant? I thought you were unsure, maybe I missed the post...
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Dance you can probably do longer since it is not as strenuous, you can practice basketball at a lower pace, like 50% less. You can definitly continue just not as hard sweets. And truthfully if I were you I dont think that I would do the basketball much longer because you run the risk of falling and getting hurt, and then harming your child. You can ask your doctor. You can usually tell if it is a boy or girl when you are between 4-6 months old. I think that what you are doing takes a lot of courage because I dont think that I would be able to do it. That would be to hard for me. I have been raped before and if I were you, I still dont know what I would do. Good luck sweetie, I am here for you if you need me!!

Mesmerizeu15(also aol sn!!)
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sparklypixie12
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Yazmine-i know ur child wasnt conceived in the best of circumstances but u seem so strong and I hope u can put that behind u & look 2wards the future! But I still hope they get that health questions
take it easy and look after urself
love liz x
p.S. We're all here 4 u whenever u need us
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PregnaJordan
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Yazmine!!
Yazmine, how far along are you??? I have been waiting for another post...You are really strong...I hope you stay healthy during you pregnancy and you have a healthy baby....Im only 6 weeks pregnant so were pretty close please pm and well stay close...Ok? Thnx girlie
stay strong...
Jordan
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Yazmine
replied on October 21st, 2003
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I only bout 4 1/2 weeks. So no sickness or anything yet. Thank god! Its so wierd knowing a lil person is growing inside u. Lol. Well I guess im not going to even try-out for basketball because the coach said it will be strenious Confused . But I have the rest of my life for that right?!


Yaz
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nikki_caro
replied on October 21st, 2003
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Yazmine, you are preggy??? I didnt know that!!! I missed that one! Wow, congrats! You are a strong person!~
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on October 22nd, 2003
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Your coach was right, and I think that you are being very respondsible for taking on that like a woman!! What do your parents think? Do they know? What is happening with the police? I am praying for you, and remember we are all here for you , send me a message..'

mezzy

(aol sn mesmerizeu15)
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Yazmine
replied on October 22nd, 2003
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My mom now knows and she has alot of different feelings about it...My dad isnt very involved with me so I find no reason to tell him! The whole police thing....Im really on sure of because its going knida slow and my brother is telling my not to worry bout it him and vincent will take care of it. They dont want me to stress....Hopefully something will happen soon! Confused

Yaz
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on October 23rd, 2003
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:d tigger!! Where did you get that?? :d well I am glad that you mother is not like freaking out on you! Who is venict again?? I am so proud of you and I dont even know you. This is taking a lot of courage, and each and every time I talk to you I almost wanna cry. This is really weird for me, because I didn't think that when that happened to people that htye would have actually kept the baby. Make sure that you keep me posted, you are a strong woman(caps!)

stacie
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