Ceecee, the pill didn't suit me for exactly the same reasons, so I went on the shot (alongside condoms) which is perfect. There's plenty of different types of b/c, just ask your doctor. I can guarantee you there will be one that suits you.
And sarah's right - if you're tooing and froing about whether you want a kid, don't try to conceive, especially while you've got your college to get through.
I'm also one that would rather take a pill than get preggo. Good grief the pill taking is soooo much easier than pregnancy and birth.
I know the day after pill is a smart choice, but I wouldn't take it. I know that's dumb, but that's just me. And I know the difference between birth control pills and the day after pill. It's just I haven't been cautious this year and i've been having a lot of pregnancy scares. I just hope that next year I don't have these problems because I want to have a child when I have my life is together when i'm out of school with my degree and at least married.
If you're having pregnancy scares, it's a sign that you need to be on better birth control. Visit your doctor and they'll find one that suits you. The depo is very effective, and impossible for you to muck up with human error. When you're ready to have kids, you can come off the b/c and get yourself knocked up
Moira, I hope u r not on depo I heard that is the worst b/c ever!!! My best friends sister almost died well, not died but she was hospitalized and stopped breathing from depo so be careful with depo. I like orto-ti-cyclen lo, I just hate birth control pills and I rather stick with condoms and no sex in order to stay away from taking them, but thank you for the advice. I'm just going to be extra safe, but I decided for now i'm going to lay off of sex and focus on my upcoming finals and I will control my urges by reading my "sex chronicles". If any of you like to read novels with erotic writing then read zane's "sex chronicles" and "nervous" they r good to read to your boyfriend or alone!