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babygrl111
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Afraid to Hear Imput But Need It. I Think I May Be Pregnant
Posted: 12-01-04 16:39pm
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Hi everybody,
what I am really seeking is comfort and in
a way I am scared to post coz I am afraid
I will not hear what I want to hear.
For starters, I am 16 years old. I had
sex november 13th and we used a condom.
Not to insult him or anything but he was
only in me for literaly maybe half a
minute... A minute at very most.... And
I mean very. (i also got my period the
next day if that would effect anything..)
he said that he pulled out as soon as he
felt like he was going to cum and he said
that he is pretty sure he was sucessful in
doing that... If not, that only the very
tip of him was in me when he started too
but he was out before he finished.
I know that would mean the chances are
fairly low.
About maybe a week later I started to not
feel well. I was feeling nausea
periodicaly during the day and my stomach
was a little off... (pressure in the
bottom of my stomach, light pains like gas
or cramps near my hips, and some aching
under my ribs....Etc...)
at first I thought maybe it was just a
virus or something. I have not actually
gotten sick at all though and my appetite
has since decreased... Alot. I am barely
ever hungry and these symptoms are still a
problem now. The nausea is not as
frequent as it was but I still feel sick
and like I said, barely any appetite what
so ever.
I know people will tell me to take a home
pregnancy test the day after I was suppose
to get my period if I do not get it. (i
am due to get it december 11th) but it is
tough coz I have not told my mom that I
think I may be incase I am not coz I do
not want her to know I am sexually active
and so it would be tough for me to get
one. Also, I am nervous about the results
and I hear they can be inaccurate.
I am sooooo nervous and I am stressing
over this like crazy.... Do you think I
am pregnant?
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-01-04 16:47pm
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First of all, calm down. Ur stress could
be causing this. It's not uncommon to get
symptoms like that from stress. However
if ur still thinking u might be pregnant
wait until u miss ur period. Then buy a
hpt or go see ur doctor to get tested.
Good luck hun, keep us posted. I hope
everything works out. Personally, I think
ur chances are quite low that u are
pregnant.
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-01-04 16:54pm
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Thank you. I know I need to calm down, I
do have a habit of stressing alot. Its
just that all these symptoms started
before I started to stress so I don't
think its from the stress. I don't
know...
I mean, I have randomly felt sick before
but not like this and loosing my appetite
is uncommon for me coz I usualy eat alot.
Plus, my stomach...The feeling is
just...Weird and different at times. All
these symptoms together for this long and
coincidentally (however you spell it) at
this time is freaking me out.
I know the chances should be low but its
just a weird coincidence and I am very
scared coz the sickness is not easing
much.
Even if I do get my period I am gonna
still worry though coz someone told me
today you cna have it for up to 2 months
into your pregnancy... I can't win. 
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-01-04 17:14pm
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Go get checked out by ur doctor. That's
the only other advice I can think to give
u right now... Personally, i'm still
waiting to find out, and u don't need to
be waiting and worrying like I have
been.Get an appointment with ur doctor
soon it will make u feel better. And be
sure to ask for a blood test. When are u
due for ur period?
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-01-04 17:18pm
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I am due next week on the.... December
11th.
I would make a doctors appointment but
like I said, my mom doesn't know and I
don't drive or anything so its not like I
can scheduel my own... I would need to
depend on her. Plus she is in the process
of switching my doctor to a different one.
I have a regular physical exam coming up
sometime in january but I don't want to
wait that long. Not to mention that the
doctor is a friend of the family so I am
bit unsure about trusting them to keep
their mouth shut if I say anything....
I am sorry if I am being too negative. I
really do appreciate your input. Thank
you. Its just coz I am stressing.
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-01-04 18:48pm
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Don't worry about being negative hun, I
know how stressed u must be feeling.
Well, if u can't get ur mom to take u and
u don't think u can trust the doctor, do u
have any friends who can drive, or any
other way to get to a doctor? If u do, u
could try a walk in clinic, they can give
u a test there. There must be some way u
can get to a doctor... Or tell ur mom ur
not feeling well and want to see a doctor.
She doesn't need to know that u think ur
pregnant.
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-01-04 18:55pm
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Yeah thats true. I just know how she is..
If she thinks I am sick she'll be
flipping out and want to be in the doctors
room with me coz shes one of those manic
germ people. She automatically gets all
paranoid. I suppose I could try though,
if I get up the guts to do it.
So, if I were to get a blood test before I
am even due for my period, they can find
out if I am pregnant? I don't have to
wait like I would with a hpt?
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-01-04 18:59pm
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Well I don't know how soon u can get a
blood test, but maybe u should just take
one of those first response hpts...They
work 5 days before ur period is due. If u
have the money for that u could try it.
And u'd have to ask ur doctor how soon
blood tests will work. It might work now,
u never know...
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-01-04 19:03pm
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Yeah, would the tests themselves cost
extra money or would they just be part of
the co-pay thing you have to pay to cover
the visit? Do you know?
And also, would the tests ever show up
anywhere on like a bill or something that
my mom would see or would it be completely
confidential? I am not sure if you know
the answer to these things but I figure
its worth a try to ask.
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-01-04 19:23pm
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I don't know if they cost more. U could
ask them when u get there. And i'm pretty
sure it's confidential.... U can make
sure of that when u talk to someone there.
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-01-04 19:29pm
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Ok, thank you for your help and input.
I really hope your right and I am not
pregnant.
Technically I shouldn't be... I am just
hoping I am not and that I find out for
sure sometime really soon.
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 12-01-04 19:54pm
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Good luck hun, let me know what u find
out.  ttyl
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pooma
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Posted: 12-01-04 21:43pm
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Hey, we're in exactly the same boat with
symptoms (i've had all the same ones) and
crazy moms... I'm expecting my period
next week too, let's hope we get it...
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-01-04 22:02pm
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Pooma,
we definatly have to keep in touch so we
can keep each other updated.
Its nice to here that you know more or
less exactly what I am going through. How
old are you?
*crossing fingers*
hopefully, we'll both end up with what we
want. Doesn't it suck feeling sick all
the time?
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pooma
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Posted: 12-01-04 22:52pm
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Yeah... Nausea has actually stopped for
me now, just a slight upset stomach and
the weird pressure thing. I'm 17, and
ironically a virgin... My worries come
from possible sperm on the hand. There's
little chance, but i'm still worried.
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bluebubble888
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Posted: 12-02-04 05:30am
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Wait~didn't you say you started your
period the next day?? Well if that's the
case, then the chances of pregnancy are
low~however there are always the
exceptions!!!! I could be too early to
have alot of those symptoms as well, but
every girl is different. Do you have a
local drugstore nearby?? You could always
walk, or have your mom drop you off at the
mall and look around there for hpt's!
Any friends that drive?! There's got to
be a way for you to get a hold of one of
those without the momma knowing!! Good
luck, and be more careful next time!! Let
us know what happens!!
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babygrl111
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Posted: 12-02-04 17:30pm
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Well pooma, I really hope things work out
for you too.
Keep me posted. Hoping for next week!
Bluebubble888,
at first my boyfriend and I were thinking
the same thing...Since I got my period the
next morning that my chances of being
pregnant would be even lower coz more than
likely the egg was already on its way out
when we had sex... But then when I
started to get these weird symptoms I
doubted our thought on that.
So, is that true though? (our theory...)
would that make my chances even lower? I
sure hope so. When I got your message it
was certainly a comforting thought that
someone else thought the same thing .
Anyone else have any imput on that?
I know there are alot of rumors about when
is the best time to have sex, and when
your chances are the lowest and stuff and
I just want multiple opinions on that to
make sure its not one of them...
Thanks everybody. Keep me posted... Your
all sort of my comfort at the moment.
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cookie_06
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Im Just Like You
Posted: 12-02-04 18:05pm
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I feel as paranoid as you are, I have the
same problem, except that my period is
irregular. I am so scared, but I hear I
shouldn't be you atleast used protection,
but dont worry...
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bluebubble888
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Posted: 12-02-04 18:12pm
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Nothing is 100%........Using birth
control, condoms, and having sex on or
right before your period can all lead to
an unplanned pregnancy......The most you
can do is wait and test!! 
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mommyof3girls
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Posted: 12-03-04 22:19pm
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I'm wayyyy confused. Didn't you say you
used a condom??
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