Focus more on the clitoris,that's where all the pleasure is!!(you do know where it is???!!!)a lot of guys think pleasure stems from the vagina and some does,but the clit is by far the more sensitive area.You can stimulate her clitoris,just be sure to be gentle at first and find out how much speed and pressure is right for her.Happy hunting!Patty

One thing,
it is so sensitive that sometimes direct contact isnt comfortable. Indirect throught skin or cloth sometimes works best.
Darkv

Pattyv
you didn't mention the "g" spot. While orally stimulating the clit, message the "g" spot, also. My lady said she gets the urge to urinate, but instead, has a very intense, wet (not urine), climax.
If you haven't had this done to you, you may have your friend stick his finger in 'bout 2 - 3" and gently push / message toward the front of you. He should be able to feel it. It will has a different texture, too.

Right you are granps!I thought it best to start him out slowly,seeing as he is new to the game!Let him find the clit first,then move on to the 'g' spot.Baby steps! .Patty

Pattyv
have you tried contacting sue (talk sex with sue), or did I give you the link?
She is good for beginners. Her team experiments w/ different sexual ideas / items.
God, what a job. It would be hard to get up in the morning, wouldn't it? :d

I've seen her on tv,but have not contacted her.I like her.She is no nonsense and to the point!It would be a great job,telling people how to get the most from their sex lives!She seems to be the most unlikely person to be telling you how to give a good bj-i would expect a casserole recipe from her more than sex tips!!Gotta love cable!!Patty

I love sue johnson!! Shes the best!!

As a girl... Let me tell you... When being fingered... The g spot is so good... Try that!!! The clit is always good, but I perfer to have the g spot done, and than do the clit by myself... Tell that to your girlfriend... Believe me... She'll love it!!!
Peace!!!

As a girl... Let me tell you... When being fingered... The g spot is so good... Try that!!! The clit is always good, but I perfer to have the g spot done, and than do the clit by myself... Tell that to your girlfriend... Believe me... She'll love it!!!
Peace!!!

I know that this topic is ollddddd but I have to jump in! It feels so amazing if my boyfriend puts his fingers in and moves them in circular motions or pushes forward, while he licks and sucks my clitoris... Totally mindblowing, cant get enough... And everytime it makes me want to have sex with him immediately after I orgasm, he says he loves the way he makes me explode and then want to pleasure him too! Its awesome :d