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caseyde
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 2
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Being Too Wet During Intercourse
Posted: 11-30-04 23:02pm
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Hey everyone. I just wandered if anyone
else had this problem. Ever since I had
my daughter....When me and my husband
would have sex..I would get extremely wet.
I dont think its normal. We will have to
stop so that I can wipe myself. He says
its fine..But honestly I think that it
isnt. I want him to be able to feel me
and I dont think that he does because im
always soaking. Does anyone else have
this problem...And have you been able to
fix it? I was on the pill when before I
had my daughter and then afterwards I
switched to the patch and then to the depo
shot. I dont know if that has anything to
do with the change or not. I would like
anyones suggestions. I just went to the
doctor today and the doc didnt know what
to tell me. Thanks in advance.
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
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Being Too Wet During Intercourse
Posted: 11-30-04 23:52pm
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Caseyde
the wetter the better!!! I love it when
my lady cums all over me. Hey, it drys
up in minutes and turns to powder. Even
when I cum in / on her, we just enjoy the
experience that we shared, cuddle and fall
asleep together.
You sound like you're doing a lot of
thinking for him. If he is not
complaining, then leave it alone.
Another way to look @ it is the money you
save on lubricant......
Put it out of your mind and go, girl.
You're natural.
Love the experience
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 12-01-04 01:25am
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I have experienced what you're going
through. It doesn't always happen, so I
haven't been too concerned. I know what
you mean when you say, you feel like he
may not be enjoying it. I think the same
thing, but my husband says the same thing
that yours says. I wish I could be more
help. I just wanted to let you know that
it happened to me too.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 12-01-04 10:25am
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Your lubrication is there to enhance your
lovemaking.Many women have the opposite
problem.Your husband is not turned off by
your wetness,in fact,he told you it was
fine.I know I enjoy sex more when I am
very wet.If this is embarassing for
you,talk with your doctor.Your hormone
levels change after you have children and
that could be the reason you are wetter
now.Good luck.Patty
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caseyde
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 2
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Posted: 12-02-04 19:20pm
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Thanks everyone for answering. I still
might try going back on the pill and see
if that lets up the wetness a little bit.
My doctor gave me 3 months worth of pills
that are low in estrogen. She said that
it might help so I might try it and see.
Im just glad there are other people out
there with this. Thanks again 
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southcoach
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 May 2004 Posts: 65
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Posted: 12-02-04 23:46pm
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From a guy's perspective, I would love it
if my woman was 'soaking'!!!!! If you
are worried about your guy not enjoying it
I think you are wasting time. Most guys
I know including myself would be flattered
that they can turn their lady on that much
and as already said, it makes if better
and more lubricated. It bothers me
soooooooo much when I go to have sex and
my woman is dry and I have to get the ky.
Just enjoy it!!!!!!
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 12-03-04 07:24am
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I've been quite wet before and my man says
he loves it. He says it's better that way
and he knows that he's really turned me
on. He says it makes it better when i'm
that wet.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 12-04-04 21:10pm
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Well, I will be honest with you. Too wet
is no good. No matter what anyone says.
Really wet, okay, too wet, no. Now if he
says it is okay, then don't stress about
it. Atleast he doesn't mind waiting
while you wipe.
But, I understand exactly what you mean.
I don't even like being too wet because I
don't get pleasure out of it, so I don't
see how the man could. You may have a
bacterial infection. Just a minor one
that doesn't have odor/color or anything,
but just causes extreme wetness. Your
hormones could be overload since you had
your daughter and maybe the sex is just
better?Lol. Or it may be from depo. It
is just so hard to say.
But, just be very thankful that you are
with a man who is understanding and
patient! That is wonderful!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 12-04-04 21:53pm
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Welcome back,angie!!!!How are
you,girl???!!Patty
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 12-04-04 23:19pm
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Oh I was okay until about an hour ago!
Lol. Some of the girls in another forum
are being really immature and giving me
grief. Grrr. How are you!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 12-04-04 23:25pm
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I'm great.School is kicking my old butt!

patty
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
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Posted: 12-04-04 23:37pm
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Pattyv
tough it out, patty. In the long run,
it'll have its (education) pay off.
Go girl........ 
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 12-05-04 00:03am
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Oh, i'm sorry. I cannot even talk about
school because it makes me want to cry.
My car was broken down for a month and I
could only go to school when my brother
let me take his. (his extra car keep in
mind) well, in that whole month he let me
take it once, so I missed like seven days
of school and I had already missed two.
Therefore, I automatically was dropped two
letter grades in one class, three in
another and automatically failed another.
Grrr. And I had a b and all freakin
a's. So, anyway, I failed this semester
entirely (almost entirely I passed 4 whole
credits yippee!) so my financial aid is
cancelled and who knows if I will even be
allowd to continue this next semester. I
am so stressed!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 12-05-04 00:18am
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that's for your brother!!Sorry for your
bad luck,hun.You'll get back into it,don't
give up.Patty
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
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Posted: 12-05-04 00:34am
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Hotasfrick
what's wrong w/ your car and how much to
repair?
Granps
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 12-05-04 01:08am
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Well it is fixed now. My transmission
was hitting really hard everytime it
shifted to the point where I thought it
was going to drop for sure. So, it sat
for a week while I waited for my dad to
come home on the weekend and "look at it"
well, he says, "it is shifting a little
funny, but it's okay"
of course, I knew better. I wasn't going
to drive it and mess something up and then
have him yell at me, ya know?
So, it sat for like another week. Then
on voting day, I just have two miles to
drive to vote, so I took it. It wasn't
doing it. I mean, it was shifting funny,
but it wasn't knocking like it did. So I
ended up driving it all day (of course I
already missed school!). I took it to a
transmission place and he took it for a
test drive. He told me not to drive it
like that because I will mess all kinds of
stuff up(see I am good). He thought it
was an electrical problem because he had
like six error come up on that little
diagnostic machine. 4 were electrical
and 2 were transmission. Well, he
couldn't fit me in for two weeks, which
was okay because I didn't have money
anyway. So it took about five weeks
altogether. It ended up being some kind
of valve inside the transmission had
rotted somehow and it cost me $650. It
could have been much, much worse, but you
know, I don't have that kind of money!
So, my dad paid for it (which I hate) and
I have to pay him back now. But, keep in
mind, I just paid $290 a week before it
broke to get new front brakes/rotors and
to get it inspected. And now, my back
drums need replaced very, very badly and I
need my snow tires put on! It never
ends!
And the sad thing is I owe on my care for
3 more years! Ha! Imagine that one.
Grrrr.
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
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Posted: 12-05-04 01:45am
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And the sad thing is I owe on my care for
3 more years! Ha! Imagine that one.
Grrrr.
I owe on my care for 3 more years????
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
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Posted: 12-05-04 02:13am
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Sorry, car. Geez, that whole post and
that is all you can say?
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jjones18
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2007 Posts: 21 Location: chicago IL,
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Posted: 10-01-07 15:36pm
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my boyfriend told me the weter the better
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ilovemyfishies81
Supporter
Joined: 13 Jul 2007 Posts: 1565 Location: Raleigh, NC
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Posted: 10-01-07 15:47pm
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i had that issue when i was pregnant but
when i lost the baby and after the
bleeding i was normal again.
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