Just smile sweetly and keep going. Don't lower yourself to her level. Act like the lady you know you are and keep going. (no matter how badly you might want to pull the hair out of her head) just keep in your head how good you will feel when you get to the size you want to be and how happy that will make you...Just focus on yourself not on anything else. I found it helped me to think about how I would look and feel about myself if I set a goal I wanted to reach. Good luck.

Thanks for the support. I will try to stay focus on my exercise. But you know it's hard when you know someone is picking and it takes all the power you have to try not to grab her when she does these things. I act as though I do not see her but she slowly walks by and pretends to be looking at something and stops in front of me so I can see her. But, I will try and I will meet my goal.. Thank you ...Z

Omg!!! If it were me, I would handle my business with her and then handle my business with myself! Her littel arrogant self! Like she's better than you? Nah, I don't think so............Kick her frickin butt and then just forget about her! Don't let her make you keep relivin that situation by her taunting you girl!!! For real............Just get it over with and believe me, you will feel so much better!!!! It's the only way to get over it is to put her back down in her place..............She is nothin!

Go to a different gym. You shouldnt have to deal with that at all!! Sometimes it takes moving away to cleanse the affair out of your life, not that you should have to move, but feeling like crap isn't a good thing either. Good luck.

Thanks for all of your suggestions,. I am on my way to getting into shape. It has been about a month or so since I had seen her last , until last week when she walked in the gym, but let me tell you!! She is gainging her weight back! And she looks so stressed!! Well I have been getting alot of compliments lately on how I look, so now it's on!!. Thank you all for giving me all the support..Please keep them comming... Wish me luck

Good for you !!!Do not let the sight of her upset you or stop you from your goals.Living well is the best revenge.Just do the best you can for yourself and do not let her bother you.It may appear on the outside that she is happy or thin or whatever,but do not let yourself compare yourself to her!Live your life and be happy you do not have to live in her head!Best to you!!!
Patty

Thank you for your reply vanessa, and patty. I am really trying hard at this. I will let everyone know how much weight I have lost by the end of the year. I am trying the positive thinking tapes. It is so wonderful to hear such good advice from everyone. Thanks. You all will help me to reach my goal.!!...Z

My mom always says "living well is the best revenge".

Thanks badsal, I agree!!