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Q: a Bit Paranoid.. Maybe You All Can Help..
asked by: vespertine eyes on November 30th, 2004
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Im 18 yr old female and last monday I just had sex for the first time . It was with a condom and because it hurt so much he really didnt go in all the way. He said he only 'pre-cummd' and than to make me feel comfortable went to change the condom but we didnt try again because it hurt me. And I wasnt relaxing lol about 2 days later I started getting cramps in my lower abdominal area and I still have them till today! (its tuesday the 30th) theyre kinda like period cramps but im not expecting mine till around the 13th. Theyre so uncomfotable and of course the first thing that comes to my mind is a baby or disease. But it was protected and would u even feel anything this early? Maybe im just worrying about nothing. Im scared now Sad can someone help me please.. Where can these cramps come from?
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BeckLyn
replied on November 30th, 2004
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I would say ur most likely just paranoid. Very rarely would u have preg. Signs so soon, so that is very unlikely. It could, however, be a disease, but since u used a condomn, I would wait for other signs or until ur next pap smear to get tested. Good luck
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bluebubble888
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Yes~i agree.....You are just most likely paranoid. However condoms do not always prevent std's and such...So you should get tested! Good luck!
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vespertine eyes
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Stds?? Would you feel symptoms so quickly? And what would indicate stomach /menstrual like cramps? Help mmee
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bluebubble888
replied on December 1st, 2004
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Yes~signs for sts's can show up the next day....Just go to the gyno to make sure everything is okay~and they can maybe give you a blood test to find out if there is a pregnancy~!!
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SamiNSunisMa
replied on December 1st, 2004
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*sigh* you do not have symptoms that early
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vespertine eyes
replied on December 1st, 2004
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Is it possible that havin sex for the first time can kinda bring your period early? I havent had it yet.. I expect it around the 12th..But I feel the symptoms.. Im just freaking out lol. I dont want a baby Sad I mean, everything went fine.. But I feel like ill always have that little doubt. I guess I should get on birth control too..
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BeckLyn
replied on December 1st, 2004
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Hmmm.. Not sure about that. But I def. Think u shoudl get the std tests done. U can have symptoms of those right away. Good luck.
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vespertine eyes
replied on December 1st, 2004
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The cramps felt a little better today.. I think im just stressing out way too much. But I was wondering .. If I go to planned parenthood can they give me std screening or pregnancy test and get results quickly? And do u have to pay alot? Because just to ease my mind I want to take both. Also can the gynecologist give me the same tests? Because I figured im 18 already and I havent been to a check up so might as well go now and get everything over with. I cant tell my parents.. How do I pay for it? What about insurance? I dont know anythin about this stuff!
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BeckLyn
replied on December 1st, 2004
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U can use insurance but most likely ur still on ur parents and the tests will show up on there, so if u don't want them to know u shouldn't use ur insurance. U can go to planned parenthood and get discounted rates. They can do all of the tests. If u don't have a job, it may be free for u. All u gotta do is fill out paperwork and then ask them how much it will be before having it done.
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vespertine eyes
replied on December 1st, 2004
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O Ok
Okay.. Because I am under my parents still.. I can try planned parenthood then..Thanks so much
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