Hi,
im not enjoying one bit of posting this,
but I have to see if anyone has any
solutions to this problem.. My foreskin
is tight, doesnt always retract. When it
does, its ok, but tight (feels like its
going to snap, a highly uncomfortable
feeling both mentally and physically!!)
then after a few sessions of having it
back, it gets to a point of being really
really sore and there is no way it could
be retracted!! Its awful, I feel so
embarrased! Its there anyway of sorting
this out, like getting it to stay more
loose permenantly?
I really hope someone can give me some
advise, im not enjoying this one bit!
Thanks alot...
M
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Moira
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 302 Location: somewhere where it rains a lot
Posted: 11-30-04 12:26pm
Ok hun, I know this is embarrassing but
you're going to have to see a doctor. You
can request to see a guy if you feel more
comfortable, and remember: they've seen it
all before.
This is quite a common problem, and in
some cases a circumcision is necessary,
but don't panic, it may not be needed in
your case. Don't leave problems like this
before going to see a dcotor - that's what
they're there for.
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monke
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Posted: 11-30-04 13:56pm
Eeeek! Ok, a doctor it is then.. What
other options can they give other than the
very drastic one you mentioned.. I have
to say I dont right fancy that. . . Ohh
my.. Thanks for the help..
M
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monke
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Posted: 11-30-04 14:52pm
Ook... This whole subject is having a
more profound effect on me than I thought.
The idea of having my penis cut isnt
something I can really grasp, or want to
have to get used to. . (i realise that
im not alone in this thought, and im not
sympathy grabbing! Haha)
anyway, I had a look on the web, says I
might be able to get some cream, but
ultimately I still need a circum.. Well.
Ok. But it also said that you need a
circum if your foreskin is actually stuck
to your gland. Well mine isnt, I can
remove it, and sometimes its relatively
easy. Can anyone suggest (in this interim
period before I see a doctor) any other
ways of permenantly solving this problem?
Id be really grateful :d
thanks alot
m
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Jooles
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2004 Posts: 6
Posted: 12-01-04 16:59pm
I had the same problem
i was never told when I was younger that I
had to retract my foreskin and wash behind
it, I only learnt when I was about 17!!
It took me about 6 months but id gradually
pull it back farther and farther every day
until I can now pull it back all the way
without any discomfort
it used to hurt a lot and bathing in the
bath helps.
In hind sight I should have seen the
doctor but if you are scared to it might
be worth while trying what I did.
Your skin is very elastic and supple and
as long as you know your body you cant do
much damage [if it hurts lots then stop,
but it will be a bit uncomfortable]
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Moira
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 302 Location: somewhere where it rains a lot
Posted: 12-01-04 20:07pm
Don't worry hun, most men don't need a
circumcision. Try retracting it alittle
at a time and just working out the little
fella- how far you can retract him and so
on. Glad to hear you're going to a
doctor, that's sensible.
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monke
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Posted: 12-02-04 12:36pm
Ahh thanks alot guys, although for a while
this is had me pretty worried (especially
given iv got someone very special coming
to see me in a month..) I also think its
pretty funny!
Anyways, im seeing a quack tomorrow, we'll
see how that goes down.. Ill post what
ever he advises on here so that anyone
else with the same problem has got some
information. . .
Also, what you say about doing it
gradually over time, I guess that would
have been more sensible for me.. I was
trying the foreskin retracting equivilant
of 'shock and awe' .. Thinking that a bit
of pain would in the end stretch the
cheeky boy.. I guess its more sensible to
be kind to my penis..
Anyway, thanks again for your help, il
report back tomorrow for those whom it may
interest!
Cheers
m
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__Notorious__
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Lawton,Ok
Posted: 12-02-04 20:44pm
I used to have the same problem, till me
and my wife got together and when she gave
me a "hand-job" it hurt alittle then one
day she was really going to town on it and
it didnt hurt anymore.Hmm
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monke
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Posted: 12-05-04 12:04pm
Ok..
I went to the doc, said I had thrush!
When he explained how he knew, I realised
that it had only been like that for a few
days.. Which is weird. Anyway, he gave
me something for that, and im using it,
seems to be sorting that little issue...
and now I got some advise on strentching
exercises.. We'll see how it goes, rather
worrying, if it fails he says a snip might
be in order.
Guess ill see what happens. Thanks for
your help guys!
M
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monke
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 7 Location: uk
Posted: 12-07-04 12:53pm
Errgg..
Im thinking this natural stretching
business isnt going to sort my problem
out. . I think my foreskin maybe
scarred, so it will never become stretchy
again.
So
if I have to have a cut made, or a circum,
can someone please describe the process
that ill under go? Id prefer to get what
may well happen clear in my mind well
before I have to have it done.. If I do
indeed have to.
Golly, what a pickle. Haha..
M
