Ok hun, I know this is embarrassing but you're going to have to see a doctor. You can request to see a guy if you feel more comfortable, and remember: they've seen it all before.

This is quite a common problem, and in some cases a circumcision is necessary, but don't panic, it may not be needed in your case. Don't leave problems like this before going to see a dcotor - that's what they're there for.

Eeeek! Ok, a doctor it is then.. What other options can they give other than the very drastic one you mentioned.. I have to say I dont right fancy that. . . Ohh my.. Thanks for the help..
M

Ook... This whole subject is having a more profound effect on me than I thought. The idea of having my penis cut isnt something I can really grasp, or want to have to get used to. . (i realise that im not alone in this thought, and im not sympathy grabbing! Haha)
anyway, I had a look on the web, says I might be able to get some cream, but ultimately I still need a circum.. Well. Ok. But it also said that you need a circum if your foreskin is actually stuck to your gland. Well mine isnt, I can remove it, and sometimes its relatively easy. Can anyone suggest (in this interim period before I see a doctor) any other ways of permenantly solving this problem? Id be really grateful :d
thanks alot
m

I had the same problem
i was never told when I was younger that I had to retract my foreskin and wash behind it, I only learnt when I was about 17!!

It took me about 6 months but id gradually pull it back farther and farther every day until I can now pull it back all the way without any discomfort

it used to hurt a lot and bathing in the bath helps.
In hind sight I should have seen the doctor but if you are scared to it might be worth while trying what I did.

Your skin is very elastic and supple and as long as you know your body you cant do much damage [if it hurts lots then stop, but it will be a bit uncomfortable]

Don't worry hun, most men don't need a circumcision. Try retracting it alittle at a time and just working out the little fella- how far you can retract him and so on. Glad to hear you're going to a doctor, that's sensible.

Ahh thanks alot guys, although for a while this is had me pretty worried (especially given iv got someone very special coming to see me in a month..) I also think its pretty funny!
Anyways, im seeing a quack tomorrow, we'll see how that goes down.. Ill post what ever he advises on here so that anyone else with the same problem has got some information. . .
Also, what you say about doing it gradually over time, I guess that would have been more sensible for me.. I was trying the foreskin retracting equivilant of 'shock and awe' .. Thinking that a bit of pain would in the end stretch the cheeky boy.. I guess its more sensible to be kind to my penis..
Anyway, thanks again for your help, il report back tomorrow for those whom it may interest!
Cheers
m

I used to have the same problem, till me and my wife got together and when she gave me a "hand-job" it hurt alittle then one day she was really going to town on it and it didnt hurt anymore.Hmm

Ok..
I went to the doc, said I had thrush! When he explained how he knew, I realised that it had only been like that for a few days.. Which is weird. Anyway, he gave me something for that, and im using it, seems to be sorting that little issue...
and now I got some advise on strentching exercises.. We'll see how it goes, rather worrying, if it fails he says a snip might be in order.
Guess ill see what happens. Thanks for your help guys!
M

Errgg..
Im thinking this natural stretching business isnt going to sort my problem out. . I think my foreskin maybe scarred, so it will never become stretchy again.
So
if I have to have a cut made, or a circum, can someone please describe the process that ill under go? Id prefer to get what may well happen clear in my mind well before I have to have it done.. If I do indeed have to.
Golly, what a pickle. Haha..
M