Im confused....

I want this post deleted!!!!!!!!!

Look, it's all about confidence. You have to have faith in yourself. If you are good looking, then women might want to talk to you. What if they are too shy? You have to be brave. Nothing is stopping you from meeting except you. Just start out with a conversation. What's the worst that can happen?

I think that if you like someone you should approach them. Everyone is afraid of rejection, but that will happen sometimes. Everyone has their own taste in men and women, and you never know they may feel the same way as you as far as being shy. So be confident about yourself, and talk to someone if you are attracted to them. Good luck!

I'm shy too. I've very shy (social anxiety disorder). I know it's hard to ask someone out when you are shy, especially if you have a fear of rejection. -but you need too look past that. I got my first boyfriend over a year ago, and I actually asked him out. I realized that if I didn't make a move, then i'd sit in the same unhappy place. Just know that if you get rejected, then they are not the one for you and move on. There is someone for everyone. I look at it this way......Someone always likes you. There is someone (probabily that you know already) who at this very moment that thinks you are the cutest thing out there. Thinks that you are a great guy. You just need to find her. How can you find her if you don't try? Try asking out a girl. Practice what you are gonig to say and try.
-good luck and stay positive-

I'm no expert. I only work in a mental hospital. And we have posters up all over the place about people who might be "allergic to people" its an anxiety disorder. You might want to ask you doctor about it. Or call your local mental health office for some help. This is a treatable problem.

I think you should at least start with saying "hi " to people - ask them how its going - then you can work up to actually asking someone out after you feel more comfortable saying hi .

dont be so silly just go and say hello you will be glad what makes you feel this way.....

I think romantic love is a lie. The real purpose of it all is reproduction, which is why we're all so "shallow". Really when you think about it, the entire process of "falling in love" is one of the most selfish, selective, judgemental processes humans engage in. Perhaps the most selfish selective judgemental process humans engage in. It's an animal instinct; real love is not found through any form of romance.


Real love is through friendships, through love of life and oneself, through other means.

Remember when you were a kid, before that whole sex-drive thing kicked in? Times were simpler, and truly happy. I think happiness comes from going that route, and focusing on your work, your passions and real love of life itself rather than selfish romance.