Keep your legs closed???? That is quite possibly the meanest thing ive ever heard in my life!! Not only that, but it was immature and you dont know what she's going through! Like another person mentioned earlier, she came here for help, so dont make nasty comments about something that you clearly dont know about! Im 16, and I just had sex for the first time and freeking out about it aswell!
And to flutegirlpro, get to a doctor to get tested for stds and pregnancy! The doctor wont tell your parents if thats something your worried about because they have to respect patient-doctor confidentiality, and if you need money or a ride whatever, try going to a friend, or make up a reason to go to the doctor. For example, to get on birth controle, I told my mom that I wanted to get on that seasonel stuff so that I would only get my period 4 times a year, or just say that you have irregular periods and want to get that worked out! Although, I would highly suggest that you be open and honest w/ your parents cause thats always the best way to go!! Best of luck to you!!