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Q: Please Help!!!! 15 And Possibly Pregnant???
asked by: flutegirlpro on November 28th, 2004
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Hi! I'm 15 years old and I had sex 4 tha 1st time like 2 weeks ago we didn't use a condom. And I was supposed 2 have my period already and I haven't so im worried I might b pregnant! I've taken 2 pregnancy tests already and they came out neg. Could there still b a chance im pregnant? I really dont kno wut 2 do. Crying or Very sad how soon after having sex do u start getting symptoms of pregnancy? I really need some advice!! Please help me!!
Thank you!
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oangelc543
replied on November 28th, 2004
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Hi there, when exactly was your period due? Are they usually regular?.. It might be too early to tell, but i'd say wait a few days take another one, then go to the doctors for a blood test because that is the most accurate.

Btw, im michelle, i'm 15 as well.. And im 15 weeks preggo with my first, so if u ever need anything else, u can pm me.

Goodluck, and keep us posted Laughing
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kitty2luv
replied on November 28th, 2004
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I sucks waiting lol im amanda 17 ....2 weeks late for my period 2 preg test both negtive I feel like crap .......................................... ......... How late are u ?
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BeckLyn
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Why didn't u use a condomn? Hun, even if the preg thing isn't a huge worry to u (which it sounds like it is) u should be worried bout diseases. Regardless. Use protection. Yes there could still be a chance with 2 neg urine tests. It is prob too soon to test. Also make sure when u do test it is in the morning. Some women only get neg urine tests, but that is rare. Good luck
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kitty2luv
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Me? I did use a condom with the father that I might b preg w/ im going 2 the gyno sat to see what happends
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BeckLyn
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Not u kitty, silly. I meant my post for flutegirl....
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SHM85
replied on November 29th, 2004
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My advice... Keep your legs closed !!!
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marta Hernandez
replied on November 29th, 2004
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I was 16 when I first got pregnant and the symptoms were there the next day. Go and get a pregnancy test done by a doctor. Do not start taking stuff over the counter or anything that will jeopardize your health. I don't know if you talked to your parents about being sexually active or not. I think that the best thing is to do so and get help from them. My friend lost her life because she started listening to advise from other kids her age and never told her parents and she went to get an abortion and lost her life in the process . Please don't be afraid to talk to your parents. It doesn't seem like they are cool, but when it comes to stuff like this you should get advise from them. They don't want bad things to happen to you. Remember that they love you. Wink
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justacanadiangirl
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Flutegirlpro- i'm vienna, 18, almost a month late and I still don't know for sure. My advice to u, take a blood test. Depending on how late u are, maybe u should wait a few days...I know it's hard to wait and not know. And u have to know, even with condoms and other protection, there's always a chance of pregnancy. My bf and I used condoms and still i'm worried I might be pregnant. Get a test soon so u don't have to worry. Blood tests are pretty accurate, ur urine tests could be wrong. Don't just waste time worrying hun. And don't be afraid to talk to ur parents. They love u and will give u their support.
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JeNNy985
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Okay whoever you are that said keep your legs closed that was just rude! She came on here for advice and she's probably really confused so the nasty negative comments can stay in your mouth!


Anyways... Hun you probably should have used a condom but you live and you learn! Next time you know what to do! Secondly, you just need to wait it out for about another 4-6 days and try another preg. Test! I hope this helps and keep us posted!
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wiannie
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Hi girls, i'm doing a project in school about teens getting pregnant and if their relationships change between them and their moms, could anyone help me out in finding answers to this subject??? You can email me or pm me...
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cookie_06
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Hey
Well the problem with pregnanct tests is that some say that they work after your missed period. But dont get all worked up the chances of them being wrong, even both are slim. But it is a possablity, a girl I know took 4 and they all said the same thing that she was preg. Maybe you should relax. Sry I cant be of more help though... :d
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Crysy
replied on December 29th, 2004
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Im Only 15 Too..
Well..My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now..We started having sex a c0uple of months ago..Im on the birthcontroll patch and we always use a condom...Last month I was off of the patch for medical reasons..And we had sex a couple of times *with protection* I had my period about 2 weeks ago..But I heard u can have ur period when ur pregnant...Ive been having heartburn..Cramps..Alot of discharge..Kinda bloated..Nasuea..And lightheaded...My period was supose to started today but since im back on the patch its kinda late...Im not sure im pregnant..I hope not considering im only 15..And ive givin up sex..Completely until im married..Im jus too paranoid lol
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Crysy
replied on December 30th, 2004
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And also..Me and my boyfriend check the condoms after we are done..We fill them up with water..And there have been no holes?? Its confusing..But is there still a chance???
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cookie_06
replied on December 30th, 2004
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Well....
There is always a chance but I doubt it maybe its all in your head. And anyways there can always be a microscopic hole in the condom one that can be seen or detected by the human eye.... Sorry to tell you this just though you should know... I really hope for your sake your not either...

Cookie :!: (luck)!!!
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Crysy
replied on December 30th, 2004
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But if water doesnt come through then clearly sperm wont considering its a lot thicker..?
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MaeTaylor3
replied on January 4th, 2005
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Keep your legs closed???? That is quite possibly the meanest thing ive ever heard in my life!! Not only that, but it was immature and you dont know what she's going through! Like another person mentioned earlier, she came here for help, so dont make nasty comments about something that you clearly dont know about! Im 16, and I just had sex for the first time and freeking out about it aswell!

And to flutegirlpro, get to a doctor to get tested for stds and pregnancy! The doctor wont tell your parents if thats something your worried about because they have to respect patient-doctor confidentiality, and if you need money or a ride whatever, try going to a friend, or make up a reason to go to the doctor. For example, to get on birth controle, I told my mom that I wanted to get on that seasonel stuff so that I would only get my period 4 times a year, or just say that you have irregular periods and want to get that worked out! Although, I would highly suggest that you be open and honest w/ your parents cause thats always the best way to go!! Best of luck to you!!
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needingadvice
replied on January 6th, 2005
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Oh God Help Me! Almost 17 Without Help
Hi,...Well im almost 17, in like two months and im really scared because first of all im not in a relationship with the guy that I really like, but we had sex....It wasn't my first time and I did make him wear a condom but surprise surprise I didn't know but he took it off great eh? Yeah I think its just dandy too not! Im so scared, its been like 20 days since we did it...We did it the day after my period was over....I dont think he got anything inside of me because I think he pulled out but I am not sure if he got any around it or not, im really scared....Im supposed to get my period in about well a week or so, im kinda scared because I dont know whats gonna happen ive had a scare like this before and I told my parents and I wasnt! So I scared them for nothing and now this time if I really am and I miss my period I wont know what the heck to do because telling them would be like walking in front of a bus. If I was they would seriously kill me and ask me why I didn't learn but its not my fault that he took it off! Ugh! I dont want a baby im only almost 17, going into grade 12 this fall I dont want a baby plus he doesn't even love me, were not even dating, this would really stir things up, anyone have any advice? I dont think ive really been having many symptoms, im probably making myself think im having symptoms but I still want some advice on what to do about talking to my parents and how I should feel if I am!!! Almost 17 without help...What now?! :!:
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jfultyn
replied on January 27th, 2005
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Hi,

i would just urge you, if you are pregnant, and you don't want the baby, please give the baby up for adoption instead of abortion.

My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for 3 years, and now we are looking into adoption. We were talking of adopting a baby even before we got married. It is so hard to adopt a newborn in the usa unless word of mouth or god is with you to help you through an agency. Well, it will be easy if god is with me, but I progress.

I know that it would be very hard to go through the pregnancy, the labor, and then give the baby up, but that is the best thing for the baby.

Thank you,
jackie
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unknowngirl504
replied on January 28th, 2005
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I am not usually a negative person because I choose to hold my tongue. But, for some reason, I was blown away by this post. I understand that young people get pregnant too, maybe because no morals were instilled. I am 19, and i'm probably like a month and a half late. I haven't had any symptoms of pregnancy. I believe it's from me stopping the patch. Although when I stopped it I was having unprotected sex and about a month later I had a very light brown passing. It only lasted about 3/4 days and wasn't painfull at all, unlike my normal period. I have been with my fiance for 2 years now. I really cannot afford to get pregnant not only money wise, but i'm starting college in april and that would totally suck. So far nothing, and the light bleeding came at the beginning of december. So i'm really messed up. I continue to have unprotected sex out of habbit.
The reason I say the thing about the morals is because parents are supposed to teach their "children" that having sex with a man for comfort is not a way to live. What do you think you would do if your little 15 year old baby had a baby? I am definately not trying to preach or say that i'm holier than thou but at 15 I knew that unprotected sex would be a really stupid idea. Think of the diseases your making your self suseptible to at such a young age. Yikes...I'm 19 and I still cringe at diseases and viruses. I had my fair share of sex in my day...But I was protected!! Who cares if your mom or dad sees condoms in your purse...At least you use them!! Come on girls...We've got to do better than this...We are really biting off more than we can chew ya know?Do you realize that your immaturity is going to reflect horribly on your children.
All of you young girls...Where are the fathers of these poor babies??
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