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Q: I Have Bad New
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pinkxxxstarz
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my boyfriend broke up with me last night. And it was the worst way....He got his friend to call me and told me that he didnt want to have anything to do with me bc he didnt want to be tied down. Then they hung up and I called back bc I wanted to talk to him myself. They still wouldnt let me talk to him. He said he was pissed and didnt want to have anything to do with me or the baby. It hurt me so bad. I had spent the night over at my friends house and her boyfriend. They live together and they have ppl coming in and out of there. Well, most of them spent the night. There was this one guy who was passed out on the chair. And he was friends with dustin (my bf) and I didnt know it. Well, dustins friend asked if brandon (the guy passed out) was over there...I was like...Well, I dont know...Bc I didnt know anyone over there. So brandon must have told dustin something....And plus I know dustin was seeing this girl behind my back...I know I can do this on my own but I really dont want to...It just hurts that he would do this to me when he told me that he wouldnt leave me...
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pinkxxxstarz
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Newmommy23
Active User, very eHealthy
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pinkxxxstarz
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Newmommy23
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pinkxxxstarz
New User
Well...Im 19 and he is 16...I know thats kinda a big difference....But if it is my ex's well he is 19 also...Im kinda hoping it is my ex's bc he is so supportive to me right now...Him and his mom. I know I dont need another kid raising my kid! 
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Newmommy23
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pinkxxxstarz
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Newmommy23
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pinkxxxstarz
New User
Yes I live with my dad and my step mother who is a nurse....And I cant believe she cant tell yet..Bc you know since I havent told them yet.. 
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pinkxxxstarz
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Newmommy23
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mommax3
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pinkxxxstarz
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mommax3
Extremely eHealthy
| pinkxxxstarz wrote: |
| thanks mammax3 that really helped me a lot...Thanks again :d |
seriously, or did I make you mad, I hope I did help.....You can't always tell if someone is being sarcastic on here sorry,
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, very eHealthy
There was a time I didn't hear from my first son's daddy and I completely felt alone. But he just wasn't home at the times I called or went by (weird) and he was working at night. But, you dont need a man to help you. All you need is a job and strength to get you through it. I was 19 when I was pregnant with my son, and had him at 20. I am still with his daddy and we are having number 2 in january. I suggest you try to remember dates so that you can get yourself set up for child support when the baby is born. Also, .D.O.N.T. Put anyone but yourself on the birth cert. Either. Because if you do, he has rights to run off w/ him and there isnt anything you can do about it. Same goes for you. But if you only have your name there, then he can get into a lot of trouble for even .T.H.I.N.K.I.N.G. About it! Cheerp up girl, it will be ok 
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mommax3
Extremely eHealthy
| nikki n rudy wrote: |
| there was a time I didn't hear from my first son's daddy and I completely felt alone. But he just wasn't home at the times I called or went by (weird) and he was working at night. But, you dont need a man to help you. All you need is a job and strength to get you through it. I was 19 when I was pregnant with my son, and had him at 20. I am still with his daddy and we are having number 2 in january. I suggest you try to remember dates so that you can get yourself set up for child support when the baby is born. Also, .D.O.N.T. Put anyone but yourself on the birth cert. Either. Because if you do, he has rights to run off w/ him and there isnt anything you can do about it. Same goes for you. But if you only have your name there, then he can get into a lot of trouble for even .T.H.I.N.K.I.N.G. About it! Cheerp up girl, it will be ok |
good advice
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, very eHealthy
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nmmama2005
Experienced User
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l2at24
Extremely eHealthy
| nmmama2005 wrote: |
| that's the scary part. I think that might happen to me if I find the dad and then put him on the b.C. I dont want him to know at all.I know I sound selfish, but I honesty dont wanna share my baby with his dad. But I need to tell him just in case something happens and so I can have some help. I have lots of support. But really sucks all the baby stuff I have is from my mom and friends. I get so exhusted at work, even though I only work 4hrs, 5days a wk. I dont make enough money to but my baby stuff. I hate it. All my money goes to rent and bills. Even being a single mom, i'll make it and so will the other single moms we will make it. We will |
the problem with this is that one day your 'baby' will be old enough to ask about his/her daddy. And you don't want to ever say I never told your dad about you. Ouch.
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