Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1 Location: columbus, oh
My Mom Was Recently Diagnosed With Bile Duct Cancer... Posted: 11-27-04 22:05pm
Hello all,
i was wondering if anyone has more
information on this type of cancer. It is
a rare cancer and her doctors don't know
what causes it. Does anyone have any
information regarding this type of cancer
or any personal experience dealing with
it? I pray that someone is out there that
can help. Thank you!
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Nagum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2004 Posts: 2 Location: new Zealand
Bile Duct Cancer Posted: 12-26-04 03:44am
My dear sullen lizard
my heart aches for you both.I know what
you are going through.My mum died last
august aged 73.She had bile duct
cancer.There is no history of cancer in
our family.
One day my mum who has had gallstones
since she was 30 but did not have
surgery,became jaundiced.She was in very
good health very active and happy.She went
to see her Dr.He sent her into hospital
for some tests.She was diagnosed with the
disease.She had a tumor the size of a
walnut we were told.It was inoperable as
it was too close to blood vessels.A stint
was inserted so as the bile would bypass
the tumor.Her colour did come back to
normal.She did not have chemo or
radiotherapy.The specialist said it would
not be in her best interest to.We
agreed.We preferred she have as little
discomfort as possible.
The prognosis was from 6mths to 2 yrs.She
was diagnosed at the end of feb 04.
Mum had a lot of heartburn and the odd
stomach pain.She had antacids and such.She
had a moderate appetite.She had lost
weight due to the often unnecessary
fasting for tests.She did not regain it
all but she was well.She never gave up.She
was such a determined little lady.She was
my rock.
She quickly began to deteriorate mid
july.Her blood pressure dropped.The pains
and heartburn left her.The only
uncomfortable thing about it all was the
buildup of bile in her system towards the
end.She was not in any pain really.She was
very much aware of everything that was
said and even though she did not speak
towards the end, her mannerisms implied
that she was still very much in control of
her faculties.
Dear mum went to be with the lord on aug
15th at 9.45pm.She was at home.We were all
there with her.
We had not heard anything about this
cancer ever before.We did not know what to
expect.It was not as dreadful as I had
expected.All I prayed for was that she
would not suffer.I was scared of that.She
had discomfort but no pain and she was
very peaceful.
If the tumor had been operable then with
chemo and all the available treatments
they said she would easily have had 5 to 7
yrs of good health.They also said if she
should have had her gallstones removed.
I hope I have not distressed you in any
way.I just felt I had to reply to you as I
remember being in your shoes only a few
months ago and nobody had answers.
I pray you are both well.Please contact me
as often as you like.If I can answer any
query at all I will.
Kindest regards
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Nagum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2004 Posts: 2 Location: new Zealand
Bile Duct Cancer Posted: 12-26-04 03:45am
My dear sullen lizard
my heart aches for you both.I know what
you are going through.My mum died last
august aged 73.She had bile duct
cancer.There is no history of cancer in
our family.
One day my mum who has had gallstones
since she was 30 but did not have
surgery,became jaundiced.She was in very
good health very active and happy.She went
to see her Dr.He sent her into hospital
for some tests.She was diagnosed with the
disease.She had a tumor the size of a
walnut we were told.It was inoperable as
it was too close to blood vessels.A stint
was inserted so as the bile would bypass
the tumor.Her colour did come back to
normal.She did not have chemo or
radiotherapy.The specialist said it would
not be in her best interest to.We
agreed.We preferred she have as little
discomfort as possible.
The prognosis was from 6mths to 2 yrs.She
was diagnosed at the end of feb 04.
Mum had a lot of heartburn and the odd
stomach pain.She had antacids and such.She
had a moderate appetite.She had lost
weight due to the often unnecessary
fasting for tests.She did not regain it
all but she was well.She never gave up.She
was such a determined little lady.She was
my rock.
She quickly began to deteriorate mid
july.Her blood pressure dropped.The pains
and heartburn left her.The only
uncomfortable thing about it all was the
buildup of bile in her system towards the
end.She was not in any pain really.She was
very much aware of everything that was
said and even though she did not speak
towards the end, her mannerisms implied
that she was still very much in control of
her faculties.
Dear mum went to be with the lord on aug
15th at 9.45pm.She was at home.We were all
there with her.
We had not heard anything about this
cancer ever before.We did not know what to
expect.It was not as dreadful as I had
expected.All I prayed for was that she
would not suffer.I was scared of that.She
had discomfort but no pain and she was
very peaceful.
If the tumor had been operable then with
chemo and all the available treatments
they said she would easily have had 5 to 7
yrs of good health.They also said if she
should have had her gallstones removed.
I hope I have not distressed you in any
way.I just felt I had to reply to you as I
remember being in your shoes only a few
months ago and nobody had answers.
I pray you are both well.Please contact me
as often as you like.If I can answer any
query at all I will.
Kindest regards
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jhauptman
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2005 Posts: 1
Bile Duct Cancer Posted: 01-05-05 20:52pm
Hello sullen....Just go back from visiting
with my cousin at nyu hospital here in
nyc. He was diagnosed with bile duct
cancer last week, and much like you, my
whole family including myself are sullen.
My biggest mistake to date has actually
been looking up research on the internet.
It seems everything I have read is all
gllom and doom, including the only other
response to your post (which I know was
well intended). My only imput on our
situation is this...Keep your head up, and
wish for the best. People survive!!!! I
refuse to look at percentages, and think
of my cousin as a percentage. I would
assume that the majority of people that
visit these forums are not here to tell
their success stories, but rather are
seeking solice in a tough time, much like
myself. Anyway, I hope and pray that we
will both be the exception and come back
to this website to report our good news to
those seeking help in the future. Be
well, and be strong. Jason
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Tia Duval
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Chicago
Posted: 02-02-05 22:27pm
Dear sullen ...
Keep your head up and pray. My mom was
also diagonsed with bile duct cancer right
after this past thanksgiving. All I
really know is that it is a very rare
cancer. No one really knows what to
expect. Has your mom had surgery to
remove any tumors?
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belena
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2005 Posts: 1
Bile Duct Cancer Posted: 02-05-05 21:04pm
Dear sullen...
My husband is 48. He was diagnosed with
bile duct cancer three weeks ago. He is
currently recovering from surgery to
remove the tumor. The doctor has stated
that he should make a full recovery.
Keep the faith. I can be reached at belenatur
n@aol.Com. I would be glad to answer
any questions. God bless you.
