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hope to be a mom
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I Want to Be a Mom At 17
Posted: 11-26-04 14:35pm
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Well my name is carmen and I am 17yrs I
have been wanting a baby for a while know
and I think that I may be pregnant I am
happy and if I am I will be even happyer
the thing is that I should have had my
period on the 14 of nov. Now its the 26th
and I have still not had it, I have been
tierd and I have been wanting to throw up
a couple of times and I have had wierd
pains in my lower stomach
i have taking a pregnancy test and it said
no but that was a while ago on sunday I
will take another one
i really hopw that I am pregnant because I
think it will make me and my b-friend very
happy but am I pregnant?
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 14:41pm
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We cant answer forsure if you are pregnant
or not, I would wait another couple days
to take a test. You think this will make
you and your boyfriend happy? Does he
want this? Are you aware of the
responsiblities a baby comes along with?
If so, great! If not, I would reconsider
this. Babys are expensive, and require
all of your attention. It is life
changing, and you must realize this! It
is not fun and games like some young girls
think. You have a lot of life to live
still! Your only 17, what about
finishing highschool and going off to
college? I know everyone's opinion is
different, but I will stress upon you to
think this over again, realisticly. Good
luck!
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:10pm
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You shouldn't want a baby hun, you should
want to be a mother. The child wont' be
a baby forever hun. And then what?
When you are 21 and instead of going out
for your birthday.....You are chasing a
crying 4 year old all over your place
while she is squirting chocolate syrup all
over your new furniture?
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Heathergirl
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:11pm
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If you are ready to deal with
that....Congrats.
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lilangel2905
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:28pm
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Oh I am getting a babysitter for my 21st
birthday... Lol
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:29pm
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Lol...Good way to put it heather. Makes
me think...Ill be 21 in may, and instead
of going out to the bar and doing my thing
I will be home instead with a 2 month old.
I dont resent her for this though, I
know I wont have a problem doing this!
Its just...When I hear other girls saying
they want to have a baby so young, on
purpose, it drives me crazy! Because they
still have the ability to enjoy life like
you are supposed to!
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:43pm
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Ok now I know im gonna have a baby b4 im
21 unless I am preg then I wont go party
ya know and I know my mother will be here
for me pregnant now in lifr or later
...Hope2bamom are u close with yr mom
>?
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:48pm
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Sure your mom could help....But what about
a boyfriend or husband? Kitty-are you
plannign on becoming pregnant alone or do
you have a boyfriend you have been with
that you know you want to settle down with
for the rest of your life?
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:49pm
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Lilangel--actually, I think I want to get
a babysitter too, or eric will stay home
with her. But no getting wasted for me!
Specially if im breastfeeding....
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Max_Mummy too be
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Re: I Want to Be a Mom At 17
Posted: 11-26-04 15:51pm
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| hope to be a mom
wrote: | well my name is carmen and I
am 17yrs I have been wanting a baby for a
while know and I think that I may be
pregnant I am happy and if I am I will be
even happyer
the thing is that I should have had my
period on the 14 of nov. Now its the
26th and I have still not had it, I have
been tierd and I have been wanting to
throw up a couple of times and I have had
wierd pains in my lower stomach
i have taking a pregnancy test and it said
no but that was a while ago on sunday I
will take another one
i really hopw that I am pregnant because I
think it will make me and my b-friend very
happy but am I
pregnant? |
im 17, I wanted too be pregnant for ages
and ages, but I never once came off the
pill or stopped using a condom, because I
wanted too finish college. Im 6 months
pregnant now, dropped out of college, and
cant ge a job. Trust me, you have alot
too think about. I dont regret being
pregnant, because I did want it.
Another thing is, I used too miss my
periods, and my doctor said something
about your body reacting too how you are
thinking. If you want a baby, too be
pregnant, so bad, it could interfere
with your monthly cycle.
I would suggest that you think lots about
what situation you are in, and whether it
suitable too raise a child.
If you are pregnant, good luck. You
will need it. I thought being pregnant
would be fun, but its quite the opposite.
Exept for those lucky people.
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:55pm
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| sarahsweet
wrote: | | sure your mom could
help....But what about a boyfriend or
husband? Kitty-are you plannign on
becoming pregnant alone or do you have a
boyfriend you have been with that you know
you want to settle down with for the rest
of your life? |
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 15:57pm
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Being pregnant is a wonderful experience,
however I think you would enjoy it more if
you waited to finish school so that you
are stable. You dont want to be stressed
while being pregnant. Personally,
wanting a baby just because you to is
selfish in my eyes.
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:01pm
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Good idea kitty. Id finish school and
make sure you are stable before you think
about it.
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:02pm
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Who me? Im not selfish like I just said
untill I am ready to have a baby I will
and when I find a guy that really cares
for me.. Me and him will decided together
to have a baby im not ready for one I
still have a year and a 1/2 left of school
and im looking forward to my senior year
and maybe after highschool I will take a
break and have a a baby then go on to
college im not sure as far as what I am
gonna do for a liven and you can say im
selfish and every thing but only I know
who I am......
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:04pm
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I did not say you, personally are selfish.
I said..In my eyes, when someone says
that they want a baby just because they
want one, is selfish. They are only
thinking about themselves, not the
innocent life they are bringing into the
world.
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:08pm
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O0o ok im sorry 
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sarahsweet
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:11pm
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Lol im such a ass sometimes im @ 650 16
more to go ut uh lol
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:20pm
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I thought I wanted a baby when I was
younger too and when I had miscarriages at
the ages of 16 & then 19 I was
devastated. Now at 25 I am 9 weeks
preggo and am soooooooooo happy I waited.
I have a man who I love and treats me
like a princess (most of the time-lol) we
have been living together for 3 years.
Instead of being with a guy because I
thought I loved him. I
finished school and got a business degree,
I have my own a home 9well I rent but it's
mine) with a backyard I have a great job
where I get 1 year maternity leave. Also
my family is very supportive since i'm not
a kid everyone wants to help. My
partying days are over and done with,
especially since in mopntreal u only have
to be 18 for bars and things. Babies are
cute beautifull things but remember they
cry and barf and ruin your house!!!!!
Your life will never be the same again.
You will have to be prepared to take care
of someone for the rest of your life.
Please all the young girls out there think
about this very carefully before rushing
into anything!!!!
Sorry this was so long but.......
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 11-26-04 16:25pm
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I agree lil_blaze. It is not easy, and
its not like playing "house" I would
reconsider.....
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