The experience in the pregnancy will bring you and your wife closer together.
My wife and I had difficulty at first getting pregnant. Right when we decided at the beginning of her next cycle we would use clomed, her next cycle never came.
Now we have the most awesome 19 month baby boy in the world! (i do realize I am biased.) I have loved every bid of it and will enjoy every other stage!
My wife read several books geared for women and I read one book geared toward men (i borrowed the book and can't remember the title.) the main book my wife read was "what to expect when expecting!"
if you want to talk futher or have questions, I will check this forum occasionally!
Congradulations! It sounds to me you will be a great dad!
Best wishes,
tom z