Ive recently been worried about geting my
girlfriend pregnant. Shes 15 and im
unemployed and were definatly not in the
position to have a baby. Plus her father
hates me and I think he would literally
kill me if he knew I was still seeing her
let alone got her pregnant and he would
probably dissown her. We allways practice
safe sex but out of the 30 condoms we used
3 of them splitt. I only ejaculated once
and she took the morning after pill, but
the other 2 times were in the same menstal
cycle so she couldnt use the morning after
pill again. I dont think she is pregnant
but we both agreed that if she did get
pregnant she would have an abortion. We
live in england but I was wondering how
easy it is to get an abortion. Would she
be able to have one without her father
finding out? I would go with her for
support. She also said she would go on
the pill but im a little worried that she
might allready be pregnant
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 11-25-04 20:19pm
You better get a different brand of
condoms. There is not way that many
should be breaking.
And same menstrual cycle or not, you can
only use the morning after pill like three
times in a lifetime. It is not safe and
it is not to be used as regular birth
control.
She should go on the pill/shot or patch so
if this happens again the chances are very
slim, and you need to get different
condoms.
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oopoopoop
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Posted: 11-26-04 07:35am
Rancid -- you may already know that birth
control pills are available free in the
uk. Her own doctor will give her a
prescription, or there are usually young
persons clinics or sexual health clinics
where she could go -- but her own gp would
not be allowed to tell her parents anyway,
so she shouldn't worry. By the way, they
will also give you free condoms.
As for abortion, these are not usually too
difficult to obtain, especially under 13
weeks. If necessary, her school nurse
would be able to help point her in the
right direction. Abortions are covered by
the nhs in many cases. Otherwise, planned
parenthood will be able to help.
It seems that you are trying to be
responsible. But you will need to be very
careful and understand what you are doing.
Don't take any silly chances.
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rancid_beats
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 31
Posted: 11-26-04 09:09am
Thank you for the information.
Yea we have been getin free condoms. But
they tend to give you different types, and
I wasnt paying atention to the ones that
broke. If she is on the pill are you
supposed to use condoms too?
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Moira
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 302 Location: somewhere where it rains a lot
Posted: 11-26-04 15:56pm
Yup, it's best to use condoms too as the
pill doesn't protect against stds and
also, it's better to have two methods than
one.
If she's pregnant, there should be no
problem getting an abortion and they will
only tell her parents in extreme
circumstances. Go to h
ttp://www.Bpas.Org/ for further
details.
