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Q: Taken Alot Out of Me
asked by: kitty2luv on November 23rd, 2004
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I am really sorry for the way ive been acting ive been a real health forum I have a lot on my mind n its really gett'en to me.... And no one understand I cant take this n e more I wanna doing it leave and get over whta I have done......... I get no respect from anyone my dad and my brother hate me im just not wanted not saying that haven a child will solve n e thing the way I feel right now sucks dick.....
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Nikki n Rudy
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Kitty, clean up the words, please. If don't want to be classified as potty mouth, clean it up. (sorry, its just discouraging to see such words from someone). If you need to talk, we are here, but you don't need to shoot everything we say down. The majority of us either have kids and are expecting again, have kids, or are expecting and we are only trying to help. You're blowing it out of the water, doesn't help us, help you! How old are you?
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Im 17
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sarahsweet
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Im sorry to hear you are going thru a hard time. You can get support from us, just tell us a little more so we are able to help you!! I think with everything that is going on though, maybe you should wait to bring another life into this world. Take care of you first....Then that time will come!
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Nikki n Rudy
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Girl, you have a lot to wait for.

Why do you think you're not wanted? And that your dad and brother hate you?
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Because they say it im nothing but a promiscuous person , hoe , scum bag etc all thoes other names out ther eto them so y should I care ................................. All I am seen as is a messed up kid
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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I go for guys for confort that y ive been with so many .. And thought I was pregnant and I cant be excepted for me !!!!
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sarahsweet
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Well then stop having a lot of sex and show them differently! Obviously it is not right for your own family to be calling you those names. And you have it hard, and im sorry for that. But you have you, and take care of yourself, do somthing to make yourself proud, and they will see....
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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I have nothing................................... .......................................... ....... When I look at my self I dont see anything there I get looked down on, put down on, and everything like that ....

I messed up a lot and whats the point of trying to prove myself to my family that im worth more then I really am I cant take it anymore sooner or later im gonna flip out and I wont be here anymore (not say'en killing myself)
I need to get out and as far away from ppl I can
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Nikki n Rudy
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Kitty, I believe you need to seek some help. Counseling at school or something. You shouldnt have to prove yourself to your family, but honey you need to stop going to men for comfort. You're going to end up with something or someone who isnt going to care how he treats you and you being so vulnerable, you will let him do it and think its ok!
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Nikki n Rudy
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Or you will find someone who thinks you are more then you think you are and treat you sooo good and you can't handle it!
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sarahsweet
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Yes, we can tell you to keep your chin up, but the rest sounds like you need to talk about to a counsler...
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Ive been to many of them they dont help maybe I am pregnan t cuz my emotions are up in the air and I have mood swings for the past 2 days I really dont know right now I know I nned to keep my chin up and I no I sound nuts.... But theres just a lot of caca that is bothering me right now.

1:being called names from my dad and brother
2:my dads a drunk
3:being pregnant
4:not being able to have someone I cant have
5:haven that abortion
6:nfamily not able to trust me
7:etc....

I dont know what I want right now....
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sarahsweet
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Well I would not bring another life into all of that! Like I said before...Take care ofyourself first...Talk to someone
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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No one under stands ..................................
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sarahsweet
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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I understand that a lot of teens get pregnant to fill a void in their life. They feel as if they dont have anyone that needs them, so they want to have ababy to love them. I am not saying that is the case with you, but it seems as if you need someone to love. Take a deep breath. Are there any clinics that you can go to to talk to someone about this? I think you need to. I know you say you have tried, but I wouldnt recomend a therapist or psychiatrist, just someone at maybe a womans clinic that can hear you out. Im sorry you have to go through this ,but still, feel free to ask us for advice, that is why we are here.
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KaiGela
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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sarahsweet wrote:
well I would not bring another life into all of that!


i agree 100%. Especially if it's on purpose! Dont do it amanda. A innocent child does not deserve a life with horrible surroundings. You should wait hun.
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Yes true I have some where I can if I am pregnant right now I wiould have my own room if I needed to go there in any case ..... I do have a phyic but he does nothing at all so I blow it off I feel better at the moment I took a hott bath and thought of somethings . I really apperate u guys trying to help me
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samismama
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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kitty2luv wrote:


1:being called names from my dad and brother
2:my dads a drunk
3:being pregnant
4:not being able to have someone I cant have
5:haven that abortion
6:nfamily not able to trust me
7:etc....


I dont know what I want right now....

everyones got health question in there life, look at mine.... I conquered it, well kinda, I sitll have relapses
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kitty2luv
replied on November 23rd, 2004
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Yea I kno im like gonan hoot my self omg im gonna blow the medical question up if I dont get away omg omg omg not wonder y im so fuced up
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