Kitty, clean up the words, please. If don't want to be classified as potty mouth, clean it up. (sorry, its just discouraging to see such words from someone). If you need to talk, we are here, but you don't need to shoot everything we say down. The majority of us either have kids and are expecting again, have kids, or are expecting and we are only trying to help. You're blowing it out of the water, doesn't help us, help you! How old are you?