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aprilshowers
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Boyfriend Is Too Small For Me
Posted: 11-22-04 22:28pm
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I have been dating a guy for over a year
now. We waited awhile before we had sex,
and I have grown very attached to him.
He's generally a wonderful guy, and I can
imagine marrying him one day. There's
just one problem. He has the smallest
penis I have ever seen. I measured it
with my hand, and it is not bigger than 3
inches. I think he might have micropenis.
I'm talking abnormally small. And I get
absolutely no sexual pleasure from it at
all! He is able to pleasure me in other
ways -- orally and with his fingers. But
I do miss the pleasure of penetration with
a man. Worse, I can't help feeling that
he is less than a man. I am ashamed to
admit it, but I feel that he is less
masculine or less powerful than if he had
a bigger penis. I feel guilty for these
thoughts. Does anyone have any words of
advice for me? 
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1sttimemama
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Posted: 11-23-04 09:25am
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If you really love someone then it
shouldnt matter what size their penis is.
Try experimenting with things and
everything should work out.
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__Notorious__
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Posted: 11-26-04 11:41am
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| 1sttimemama
wrote: | | if you really love someone
then it shouldnt matter what size their
penis is. Try experimenting with things
and everything should work
out. |
1sttimemama, that is exactly right, enough
said........
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kitty2luv
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Posted: 11-26-04 12:29pm
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Yea if u love him u wouldnt care if his
penis is too small.......
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aprilshowers
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Posted: 11-27-04 04:12am
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I'm not sure if I love him, yet. And, no,
I don't think i'm a "size queen." a size
queen, I think, is a person who is into a
large penis. I'm not really that
concerned about penis size, really. But
in the case of my current boyfriend, he is
really just unusually small. Smaller than
I have ever seen before -- smaller than I
ever even thought possible. I really
think he has an unusual medical condition.
I'm not even sure he is able to penetrate
enough to get me pregnant. When we are
having sex, he is constantly slipping out.
It gets frustrating, sometimes, and I
feel bad for him. I don't think it is a
reason to break up with him, but i'm at a
loss about what to do about it. We
haven't talked about it. Should I bring
it up? I'm afraid that, if I do, he will
be hurt. But if I don't, I feel are not
being totally honest with each other.
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Moira
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Posted: 11-27-04 08:29am
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Work on different positions to see which
works best for you - try to go for the
deepest penetration possible so you get
the maximum effect.
Doesn't sound like he's got a problem, he
just hasn't been blessed with many inches:
I bet you he's pretty sensitive about it.
Remember, it's what he does with it that
counts! You're lucky to have a guy that's
good at foreplay, focus ont he positives
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DesertEgl
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 11-27-04 12:42pm
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Oh lord
i can see this being a big problem if this
becomes a serious (lasting, i.E.
Marriage) relationship. Better do
something about it now then risk getting
hurt later in life.
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aprilshowers
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Posted: 11-27-04 15:04pm
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| moira
wrote: | work on different positions
to see which works best for you - try to
go for the deepest penetration possible so
you get the maximum effect.
Doesn't sound like he's got a problem, he
just hasn't been blessed with many inches:
I bet you he's pretty sensitive about it.
Remember, it's what he does with it that
counts! You're lucky to have a guy
that's good at foreplay, focus ont he
positives |
thanks for the advice. But do you have
any suggestions for what positions might
provide for a deeper penetration? And how
do you suggest I go about suggesting that
he use these positions with me? Any
thoughts are appreciated.
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-27-04 15:45pm
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You get the deepest penetration from
behind. 'doggie style'. Sorry, no
other ideas.
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aprilshowers
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Posted: 11-27-04 17:09pm
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| l2at24
wrote: | | you get the deepest
penetration from behind. 'doggie
style'. Sorry, no other
ideas. |
we've had sex doggy style, and I honestly
can't feel a thing.
thanks for sharing, tho. Have you ever
had sex with a man who was unusually
small? Did doggy style work for you?
Maybe there is something i'm missing here.
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-27-04 17:24pm
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Sorry honey. I don't know what to say.
I don't have any other ideas. I can't
imagine how you're feeling. You have
been together so long and you care about
him a lot. I wish I had some better
advice.
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aprilshowers
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Posted: 11-27-04 19:49pm
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| l2at24
wrote: | | sorry honey. I don't know
what to say. I don't have any other
ideas. I can't imagine how you're
feeling. You have been together so long
and you care about him a lot. I wish I
had some better
advice. |
that's okay; thanks for sharing your
ideas. It's just nice to be able to share
my thoughts with other people. I can't
tell him about it, and i'm afraid to tell
anyone I know, in case they can't keep it
a secret. I sure can't tell my parents!
So, thanks for listening.
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unreal_2004
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Try This
Posted: 11-29-04 13:50pm
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I have heard people talking about this
exercise called "jelqing" you can try
this... So I heard it improves size, but
it does take a while to get resuslts.
Http://www.Altp
enis.Com/penis_news/jelqing.Shtml
 its
worth a try
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-29-04 15:26pm
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Does anyone see the relation between
boyfriend is too small for me getting 200+
views, and aids stats getting 6 views?
Maybe that's why so many people will
continue to test positive for hiv and
aids. They don't inform themselves even
when the info is right in their face.
Just a thought. Oh, I just saw is bigger
better got 665 views! It doesn't matter
what size as long as it's wearing a
condom, and not infected with hiv or aids.
Sorry girl, didn't mean to invade your
post, just venting.
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aprilshowers
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Posted: 11-29-04 17:33pm
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| l2at24
wrote: | | does anyone see the relation
between boyfriend is too small for me
getting 200+ views, and aids stats getting
6 views? Maybe that's why so many
people will continue to test positive for
hiv and aids. They don't inform
themselves even when the info is right in
their face. Just a thought. Oh, I
just saw is bigger better got 665 views!
It doesn't matter what size as long as
it's wearing a condom, and not infected
with hiv or aids. Sorry girl, didn't
mean to invade your post, just
venting. |
you've got a point there. Compared to the
topic of hiv/aids, penis size is a
relatively trivial concern. Yet,
apparently, it is of great concern to a
lot of people, nevertheless. Why else
would there be all the page views?
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vc061370
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Joined: 29 Nov 2004
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Location: West Palm,Fl.
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to Small For U There Is Hope!
Posted: 11-29-04 18:53pm
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Girl with the man with a small penis. Go
shopping at either a sex shop or online
and purchase a penis extension. It is
fits over the head of the penis and adds
about 2 or more inches. A penis
enlargement surgery is the only other
proven options. It will only add about 1
or 2 inches; however the recover is a long
process and must be followed correctly or
else he could lose 1 or 2 inches instead
of gain.
Good luck.
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aprilshowers
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Posted: 11-29-04 18:58pm
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| bigman16
wrote: | | wow I admit that is sad and
I started the bigger is better colum, I
agree with you 100 percent about the
aids/hiv concern because size dosen't
matter sh*t when you are sick. I just
think size is much more a concern but
cause our society loves the
topic. |
any idea why society loves the topic of
size? 
I think that's part of my problem with my
boyfriend. Honestly, I think I can get
used to the idea that I will get off from
foreplay even if not from penetration with
him. Not a major problem. But like I
said originally -- and I feel guilty about
feeling this way, but can't help it -- I
feel like he must be damaged
psychologically in some way because of his
size. Men are so concerned about size,
and yet his is so small, it must effect
his self-esteem -- and could that be an
issue at some point in our relationship?
Might he feel less of a man, and if so,
what does that foretell about his future
behavior? Will he try to "prove" himself
in other ways?
See, I am getting way ahead of myself
here. Part of the problem is that I think
too damn much about this stuff.
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aprilshowers
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Re: to Small For U There Is Hope!
Posted: 11-29-04 19:02pm
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| vc061370
wrote: | girl with the man with a
small penis. Go shopping at either a
sex shop or online and purchase a penis
extension. It is fits over the head of
the penis and adds about 2 or more inches.
A penis enlargement surgery is the only
other proven options. It will only add
about 1 or 2 inches; however the recover
is a long process and must be followed
correctly or else he could lose 1 or 2
inches instead of gain.
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a penis extension? I've seen those
things. I can't figure out how those
things work. Have you ever tried it? I'd
think it would slip off, wouldn't it?
And
would he be able to enjoy the experience
with his penis covered by a latex
attachment of some sort? It seems it
would ruin his pleasure even if it
improved mine. 
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vc061370
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You Are Not Over Thinking
Posted: 11-29-04 19:10pm
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I will say this if he not ashamed to whip
it out than don't worry about his
self-esteem. He probably want risk
cheating because he knows some women my
embrass him about his small size.
However, you need to decided if you can be
satified with the war chest he brings to
the bed room. I think if you continue
to feel like he lacks something you want
in a man you will want to see how big the
dicks grow on the other size of the fence
and don't tell me that crap you want,
because people want what they want and
tend to miss what they don't have.
Never settle for less than what you want
in a man regardless of what it is unless
because the only thing worse than a bad
relationship is a good one that leaves
thinking if he or she only had  it
would be so much better.
Last edited by vc061370 on 11-29-04 19:56pm; edited 3 times in total
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vc061370
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It Will Work!
Posted: 11-29-04 19:29pm
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I will work for both of you and no I
never used one; however it is logical to
assume that since it will only go over the
head of the penis it would feel for him no
different than wearing a condom also, some
condoms are made with the extention piece
. Try it could not hurt.
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