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Q: Men And Cheating
asked by: kitty2luv on November 22nd, 2004
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Y di men cheat????

The guy im about to mess with has a girl friend taht does not please him in bed he told me he needs a freak on da side (me) we had sex befor but I dont under stand why me????
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__Notorious__
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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Men Cheat Cuz..
Men cheat cuz the aint satisfied of what they got(period!)
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oangelc543
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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Thats awful, I cant believe your actually agreeing to have sex with a guy who has a girlfriend already.
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BeckLyn
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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I'm not saying I haven't done a guy that had a girlf. But u need to think if this is what u want. Obv. U prob wont be able to ever have a relationship with him, cuz even if he dumps her, u will think he cheats on u. And think of his girl now. Do u want to be the other woman? She will hate u. If she ever finds out, and i'm sure she will... Just try to look at it from all sides! Men cheat cuz they're not satisfied. Emotionally or sexually. They may just not be in love with who they're with. They may not have very high morals, or they may not be getting good enough sex with their partner.
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princess529_98
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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Men cheat for the same reason woman cheat there usually lacking something with what they already have and arent happy..Why you let that man call you a freak in the first place is behond me..And as for you asking why you..Well the only thing I can come up with on that is your willing to sleep with a man who you know has a girlfirend..Apparentely that doesnt bother you..Unless of course he was your man and he was cheating on you then I bet that would bother you..
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oangelc543
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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This is kind of like the friends with benefits situation.. Im just saying, that if you have sex with a guy who has a girlfriend it might seem like a good idea at the time.... But your gunna get hurt.. Think about how bad its gunna hurt when u want him really bad, but he doesnt want you.. He only wants you when he feels like getting laid.

Dont make someone your priority when you are only their option.

Thats all im saying..
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kitty2luv
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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Well...
Im stll thinking over it but I dont kno imall kool w/ him callen me a freak(inbed) it dont bother me but I know how it feels to be cheated on if his girl isnt giv'en it well it not my fault

i havent thought about it 2 hard sooo... Im still gunna think about what im gonna do ....Im not looking to be in a realiship cuz I have low trust in men because of what they have did 2 me

o and my other friend has a crazy ass ex: and we are messing around too but hes not cheating tho

I do have many booty calls ....... But im not gonna have sex untill I find out if I am pregnant or not.....


And im sure the we all have cheated or been w/ some1 that had a girl
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PattyV
replied on November 24th, 2004
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Sweet kitty,you need to respect yourself!Men cheat because of an insecurity within themselves-it has nothing to do with the woman at all!A man could have a supermodel,sex-machine at home,but if he is not secure in himself,he will still cheat!!!This guy and all the others you sleep with are using you!!1i have seen your posts-you sleep with this guy and that,but do any of them hold you afterward and make you feel secure and loved???That is what you are supposed to feel after being intimate.I was young and wild once myself and I wish I had known this in my teens and twenties.It would have saved me alot of heartache.I know that I am sooooo old that you could not even think I could relate to you-but you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of shallow sex and no real intimacy.I discovered real intimacy with my husband.I did not sleep with him right away.He was the only one that did not try to get me in the sack right away.Not that he did not want to,he just wanted our relationship to be different,to be meaninful.And it is,for both of us.Please expect more for yourself-you deserve it!!!Patty
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PosrscheLvr
replied on November 25th, 2004
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I don't mean to be rude but why would you ask why men cheat when you are in essence helping that along. If it concerns you so, then don't sleep with anyone who is with someone else. Plain and simple. Not cool really, morals and character are important. Find someone who isnt with another girl. How would you feel if you were her?
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Jocelyne
replied on November 25th, 2004
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How old are you???? Seriously though I think you need to do some growing up learn to respect yourself and your body before its too late I honest don't think you need to be trying to bring a child into this world until your a little more stable with who you are....Your life sounds like it belongs on a episode of jerry springer!!!! Your sleeping with different men, some have girlfriends, your not using protection, trying to get pregnant from men who don't know your trying to get pregnant, maybe you need to step back and take a look at your life so far.....You have plenty of time to have kids...And at least if your going to have sex use protection and find someone who respects you and be with only them....Stop letting men use you for freaky sex...There using you!!!!!!
You said "....Im not looking to be in a realiship cuz I have low trust in men because of what they have did 2 me.... " well your having relationships with men your letting yourself be disrespected and you going to hurt that guys girlfriend and make her lose trust in me!!! And what about what your doing to yourself you can't blame that on someone else!!!!
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kitty2luv
replied on November 27th, 2004
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Im 17 im not going to do that because I dont wanna b caught in the middle but I do have a fwb that has a crazy ass ex im gonna ask him what does he see as in me and him ....
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Hotness
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Hmm..
Yeah girl, like the other people have said...You should really take a look at the things you're doing. I was a wild girl too man..I would say I had a slutty 10th grade summer. Then, when I met the one i'm with now..I was completely blown away and shocked at what a real relationship is and what real sex is. I'm not sayin i've never had pleasurable sex before, but damn, this was some real real good stuff, ya know. And i'm not saying i've never been the other woman, because I was for 2 years. I did their relationship so dirty! Granted, I was in the picture before her..But I still was having sex with him when they got together, when she was pregnant, and right up until they got married. Shocked horrible..Trust me, I realized this when I fell in love. I would be so hurt if my love ever did that and to this day I regret everything I did to their relationship. Maybe you should slow it down and really try to learn how to respect yourself and your body. Sex will always be there. Don't rush things girly! If you are truly happy with your lifestyle, then do your thing girl! All i'm saying is that maybe you should stop and really step back and take a look at what you're doing. You don't want to hurt anybody or more importantly yourself.
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sandyallen
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Don't you realize that things like this can come back on you! You seem to be really messed up! Wake up and smell the coffee, this is no way to get attention! If he messes around with her he could be messing around with others, haven't you heard about std's, don't you realize that this can happen to you! Show some respect for yourself!
Sincerely,
sandy
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kitty2luv
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Im not looking to get attention I get that either was .........
And I am not gonna sleep with em cuz it nutten but b/s
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vc061370
replied on November 29th, 2004
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This Why U!
He chose you because you took the bait. He has ran that same line on every girl who would listen. Do not be a easy mark those labels tend to spread and stick. Take it from a reformed player; demand more and you will get more or get to stepping Cool
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vc061370
replied on November 29th, 2004
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This Why U!
He chose you because you took the bait. He has ran that same line on every girl who would listen. Do not be a easy mark those labels tend to spread and stick. Take it from a reformed player; demand more and you will get more or get to stepping Cool
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kitty2luv
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Im not gonan open my mouth about it and I know he wont b cuz he chill w. My brother sooo
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vc061370
replied on November 29th, 2004
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Ask No Question And Tell You No Lies
kitty2luv wrote:
im not gonan open my mouth about it and I know he wont b cuz he chill w. My brother sooo


he may not tell your brother after all what guy would tell the brother of the girl he is doing that he is hitting his sister on the down low. But I bet he has told his other friends all about you; that's just the way players play. Evil or Very Mad
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kitty2luv
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Hes no like that trust me all his friends are my brothers friends and he wont open his mouth .... He is nothing like that ..... I guess I will hafta see .. Last time we had sex he didnt even tel the other guy that was there that night.... So I dontknow imgonna hafta see how he is
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vc061370
replied on November 30th, 2004
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Don,t Worry Be Happy
kitty2luv wrote:
hes no like that trust me all his friends are my brothers friends and he wont open his mouth .... He is nothing like that ..... I guess I will hafta see .. Last time we had sex he didnt even tel the other guy that was there that night.... So I dontknow imgonna hafta see how he is



you know there is an old saying never eat were you sleep. Girl stay away form your brother's freinds because some of those guys only come around because they might want to ge a shot at you; after all boys will be boys.
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