First of all, I feel for you. I am so sorry about your mom n stepdad. My grandmother said some horrible things about me when I got pregnant to and although it hurt, I don't believe a word she said. You shouldn't either. Just because you had sex duznt make you a promiscuous person or a tramp or otherwise. And yes, you have every say in whether you keep the baby. So you can tell your parents to f*** off if you like. Although they may kick you out of your house, this is illegal. You can get them in trouble. Hope this helps. Pm me if you need to talk.

Oh my word!! I cannot believe that your mother called you that!! Sweetheart, she cannot make you give up your child! That is the loveliness of america, its your child and legally her and your stepdad's hands are tied! They legally can't kick you out until you are 18. Second of all, I would go as soon as possible and apply for things like medicade(to help with doctors and prenatals) and wic(to provide food like milk, bread, fruit, veggies, etc along with baby stuff, diapers, formula). Finally you should check out the law book and see if you can be emacipated(or become a legal adult before 18.) and then move in with raven. I think for now that would be your best bet, since there is so much stress at home. Until then, try talking with her and see if you can try to mend fences. But don't apologize for anything!!! You did nothing wrong jeni!!



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-jessika-

I just got back from the doctors and I am officially pregnant even though I already knew that! My mom wanted to make sure! Well on the way home she was saying I have no say that im still underage and I will give it up for adoption! I kept shaking my head no shes like jeni you will do what I say! And if I have to be hard about it I will! I was like hold on a sec I thaught it was my child not hers! Im soo lost girls and I havent talked to raven he talked to my dad last nite my mom said he had said sometihng about adoption but I know its not possitive kind ya know what I mean? Like saying he wasnt for it and that! Well I better go if you guys can give me anymore feed back I would love it thatnks!


Jeni

How old are you? R u 17, if so move the @#@! Out!!!! I would not put up with that anymore...Im pregnant and nobody would tell me to give my baby up...Oh h@#! No!!! It's your body, its ur baby not theirs....Jordan

Thanks jordan but I thuaght you had to be 18 to move out legally on your own thats just what I thaught!I dont wanna give it up at all!!!

Wow jordan, take a deep breath hun. Jeni you can get emancipated at 17 and move out on your own. That way you legally become an adult at 17.

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-jess-

Okay I understand that but I dont think my parents will sign the papers for me to get emancipated is there a way around it?? Please help!!

Jeni

Thats just it jeni! They don't have to, you go to court and a judge decides if you are mature enough to do it on your own and then he will make the decision, your parents don't sign anything!

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-jess-

Jeni, just move out. You should be fine. You can go to a group home for now. My cousin wasa runaway and shes in a group home with her baby. You shouldnt be forced to have an adoption.

I can exppress empathy for you, I know what you are going through because I have been there to. When my mother found out that I was pregnant she was like freaking out and was rea upset, and now she loves my son. Good luck in whatever you do, and I hope that it all works out for you. Remember we are all here for you if you need us and that is what friends are for....Friends that dont know each other!! She can't make you do what you dont want to...Trust us!! Don't let her take you down!! P.S. Get the shania twain "up" cd and listen to number 16!!

Thanks niki,
but honestly I wanna move in w/ raven he wants to be a full time daddy not a part time!!!
Jen

Then thats even better!!!! Good luck!

Good luck sweetie, and who know's maybe your parents will come around and accept it. Good luck to you sweetie.

Just look at it this way, my mom came around. And now she comes throught like every week to see sean. Good luck, and I am here for you if you need me, I take that back we are here for you if you need us!!

Stacie (mesmerizeu15 is my aol sn!)