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bluebubble888
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Posted: 11-20-04 22:00pm
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-20-04 22:40pm
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U sound like me I kno the cahnce of
getting preg but I dont take em lol im in
the same house I might be but im really
not too sure i',m gunna wait a lil more
tooo c keep us posted o by the way im
amanda
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004
Posts: 521
Location: TX
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Posted: 11-20-04 23:32pm
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Look im sorry.. But if you are
intentionally having sex when you know you
can get pregnant... Then you are trying
to conceive a child.
You are obviously aware of the
poissibility of getting pregnant.. So its
either ignorance or ur ttc.. Thats how I
see it.
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mommax3
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1134
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 11-20-04 23:33pm
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I agree with the last post, just not quite
so harshly 
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-21-04 09:12am
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I have never "intentionally" had sex to
try and get pregnant. Never. My
boyfriend and I always have sex up to 5
times a week, so it's not like this past
week different. Thank for the "support"
guys.
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mommax3
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1134
Location: Virginia
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Re: Just a Question*
Posted: 11-21-04 09:17am
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| bluebubble888
wrote: | | last month when I thought I
could be pregnant and wasn't, I have to
admit I was a little
disappointed......This past week is when
i've ovulated and me and my boyfriend have
had sex like 6 or seven times! I'm not
trying to get pregnant~just not preventing
it.....Is that real terrible? |
"this past week is when i've ovulated and
me and my boyfriend have had sex like 6 or
seven times!
Just not preventing it.....Is that real
terrible?"
sure sounds that way to me, sorry, it
could be a subconscious decision or
something, and we are trying to support
the fact that you said you don't want to,
if you aren;t sure, then you shouldn't
have a baby. And if you know how to
prevent it, then you should, not just risk
it because maybe you want to have a baby,
sex is great and fun, but the outcome if
you aren't careful can be life altering.
Just not preventing it.....Is that real
terrible?
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 499
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-21-04 16:48pm
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Sorry guys~didn't mean to blow
up......Just a touchy subject I
guess.....Sorry agiain
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 3718
Location: , va
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Posted: 11-21-04 17:01pm
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Ok here is my input
you are having sex, and you know that you
can get pregnant so..... If you are doing
nothing to prevent it than it means that
you dont care if you get pregnant or not.
So to answer your question no it's not
terrible to prevent pregnancy as long as
you know what you are in for
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004
Posts: 642
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted: 11-21-04 17:05pm
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Not trying to get pregnant and not
preventing it would be having sex when you
know you're not as fertile. But ovulating
or not you can still get pregnant.
I got pregnant with my son a year after
being with my bf (and a few months of
graduating hs). Our sex was normal too.
I wasnt preventing nor was I ttc. It
happened. Same as baby num 2. Sex was
the same and he came 3 years later. I
dont know about ovulation and what
not...So I know I was just having sex to
have it and be close to him.
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-21-04 17:06pm
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Thanx tazzy~that's kind of how I see it
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 11-21-04 17:24pm
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You know what can happen ifyou dont use
protection. You could get pregnant.
When you say you are having "normal sex"
to me, normal sex is having sex, yet using
a birth control method. On the other
hand, if you are not preventing it, you
know you could get pregnant, and
apparently wouldnt mind it if you did get
pregnant. So why would you ask if it is
terrible? Obviously you dont think it is
so terrible if you are doing it yourself.
Just my opinion
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PattyV
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Joined: 01 May 2004
Posts: 1103
Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 11-21-04 17:55pm
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Any time you have sex,the possibility of
conception is there.Sperm can live inside
the body for several days,so, you can get
pregnant almost any time you have sex.As
long as you are fully aware of how having
a child will change your life and
relationship and you are not using
contraception,chances are you will be
parents soon.Just remember that having a
child together means that the two of you
will always be connected in life through
your child.That is not to say that you
will or will not be with each other,but it
will mean that you will have to see each
other from time to time,if your
relationship does not work out.Just one
more thing to consider.Patty
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mommax3
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Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1134
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:34pm
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Hi blueie!!! I didn;t mean for you to
take that the wrong way, but like we have
all discovered b4, it is hard to know what
someone means w/o hearing their tone and
seeing their face, I am lucky I didn;t get
preg when I was younger, so I am not
saying anything is terrible... Just
saying wince you are thinking of it maybe
you should try to prevent it so you won't
have as much added stress in you life.
Best wishes
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:47pm
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I agree---you wont have to be worried all
the time about being pregnant if you use
protection and birth control
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004
Posts: 499
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Posted: 11-21-04 19:37pm
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Thanks ya'll....I agree it's really hard
sometimes to talk to people through a
forum because you cant really see their
expressions.... 
life can just be so frustrating
sometimes.....
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004
Posts: 2485
Location: traverse city, michigan
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 11-22-04 09:43am
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You'll get pregnant whether u use
protection or not sometimes-- the first 2
times I got preggy I was on the pill (i
miscarried both of those) I am alergic to
latex so condoms are out of the question
unless they have no latex (and those are
expensive) this time my bf and I have
been having sex for 3 1/2 years with no
protection and him coming in me and I
never got preggy untill a few months ago
so it goes to show it can happen whenever,
but if you are not , not trying then u are
trying.
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004
Posts: 727
Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 11-23-04 15:10pm
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Having a baby is not a casual decision. I
didn't think about the actions I was
commiting till it was 2 late. My xbf and
I were not being safe and now I will be
raising a baby by my self!! He promised
to be there at the beginning which made it
easier to except but now he wants nothing
to do with his child  . Just think about
it before u decide and you should talk to
your partner. You are still very young
and a baby is forever!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 11-23-04 15:16pm
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| newmommy23
wrote: | | he promised to be there at
the beginning which made it easier to
except but now he wants nothing to do with
his child .
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what a jack "bum"- I hope you have a
supportive family.. Is you ex the reason
you are overseas?
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