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Taisa5

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Hey You Guys This Is a Big Update
Posted: 10-17-03 14:36pm

Hey I dont know if you all remember me but I was the 14 year old who was (or thought I was prehnant with a 19 year olds baby) well I wasnt pregnant and we had safe sex from then on but eventually my parents set me up and caught me! Not having sex but we were in my room Embarassed you see our maid my mom and dads that is had been leting him come over and not telling my parents.... Well one day she did (i also grew to trust her and told her I had been sneaking out) but she came over one day I guess it was when I was still sleeping (she was always there early) but she told my parents and she knew I had snuck out the night before... Ne who they woke me up and said they were going to orlando and be back round 6. I wasnt going to call him over seein I had just seen him but stupidly I did now my parents were just driving around waiting for the lady to call them and tell them he was there they showed up with the cops and my dad beet him up in my room! It was like a dream I was soo scaird! Crying
or Very sad but they had no proof we had been having sex so they just pressed trespassing on him.

Here comes the tricky stuff that weekend me n my friend and cousin were going to finally tell on my dad u see my step dad has molested em since I was 10 or 11 and I couldnt do it so I told them to and they told the day I got caough neither of them knew that had happened... Ne who to make a long story short my mom sent me away and didnt bielieve me and now ive lost the man I love my friends and family and virtually everything and to add to it! When I got here they made me go get birth control a papsmere the whol nine yards and they discovered I was pregnant I said id tell my mom so she lied for me and siad seein how the last time I had had sex was less than a week ago she cant put me on it 2 nights later I was by the river around midnight and I had a sharp pain and then I started bleeding alot! And some blood clots came too! Well 2 days later I told the doctor she checked me and I had had a miscarrige ive lost so much in so little tome! Sooo to all of you girls who are dating someone u shouldnt stop it now! If you love him let him go! Well thank you all for reading this ill appreciate any advice!
Too young for this! Embarassed
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nikki_caro

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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
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Posted: 10-17-03 14:50pm

Look what you got yourself into and your only 14! Sweetie this is a big sign that you need to calm down and take a break from everything. Tel the authorities on your step dad but you wont have much luck unless you have proof. Because its really your word against his. And the reason your maid or whatever told your parents is because you are way too young to be sneaking out and having sex and having him come over and stuff. He is 19, a man and you are a little girl. I hope you will do whats right, but be careful from now on. There are many consequenses to bad decisions. I know if I caught my little girl doing that, I would beat him up too. Neither of you have buisness doing all of this. I really hope this getting caught was a big lesson for you. Im sorry you miscarried too. But I dont get how you put "too young for this" when you werent too young to find a 19 year old man or too young to have sex or too young to sneak out or too young to be having him come over like that. You really brought this upon yourself. I hope you stop having sex for a while, wait until your older, get on birthcontrol and take care of yourself.
Good luck.
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sparklypixie12

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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099

Posted: 10-17-03 18:04pm

Basically,i agree with what nikki sed! U r too young 4 this sort of r/ship with a guy that much older.Its terrible that u had a miscarriage but this cud b a sign that u and ur body just arent ready 4 this.In the future be careful and like nikki sed,report ur dad-why shud he get away with doing these awful things? He's a hypocrite
goo luck huni, hope things start gettin better
liz x
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KissyBai912

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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida

Posted: 10-18-03 13:07pm

I'm so very sorry all of this had to happen to you. But I do have to agree with nikki and sparkypixie. Did u ever wonder y a 19 year old guy would want to be with a 14 year old? Most likely b/c hes a pervert. But I could be wrong, but most likely that is right. I am very sorry about ur miscarriage. No one should ever have to go through that. And about your step dad, I think the reason no one believed you is because the time you told was just a little too coincidental. Your step dad beat ur b/f up and u got in trouble. So naturally everyone probably thought you were saying that just to get back at him and get him in trouble. I'm very sorry. I used to be like you and sneak out and in all the time and such, but it was with a boy my age, and we werent doing it to have sex. For me, as stupid as it sounds, I did it for the thrill. We did begin having sex eventually, but not every time we snuck out together. But I do hope ur situation gets better. Pm me if u need to talk. Or my aim sn is kissybai912.
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