Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Ok Messing With a Man That Has a Girl Posted: 11-19-04 12:04pm
I like this guy and we had sex once b4 nad
I had instent feelings for him and now I
am goona be messing w/ him again and im
kinda worry about it but I like em and he
likes me I hope
he said he needs a freak on the side and
that me but I dont kno I will be messing
w/ 2 guys that has girls........ Im so
not nice but if they not giv'en them n e I
can
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Jocelyne
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 121
Posted: 11-25-04 09:37am
Why would you want to do that!!!!!! Don't
make excuses either...Its not okay even if
you try to say it is because he is
commited!!!! Maybe theres a reason there
sex life is bad.....I think you need to
leave the commited men alone would you
really want to do that to that girl?????
I'd rather tell her her man is a cheater
then to be his cheating promiscuous
person....Girl you need to smarten up!!!
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pinkbaby
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 618 Location: Arizona
Posted: 12-15-04 16:21pm
Seriously, leave him alone. If he likes
you that much he will break up with his
girlfriend. But as long as hes with her,
you shouldent be messing with him.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 12-16-04 23:08pm
We talked bout it and its just too much
b/s im looking for a great guy2 call my
own
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Kitty2luv Posted: 12-17-04 00:27am
Why don't you get some serious
professional help, it is girls like you
that hurt other girls, what do you want,
std's? Are you trying to seek attention
this way, or what? Are you on drugs?
Please get some help! Even younger girls
read this and will think it is the right
thing to do and you know that this is not
the right thing to do! Please talk to an
adult that you can trust that can get you
some help that you truly need! Their
might even be a mental health group in
your area or social services, it is not
too late.
Sorry people, if you don't believe me, try
reading some of her other posts, this girl
has problems and a lot of others have told
her the same thing.
Sincerely,
sandy
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 01-17-05 01:58am
Kitty hunni, ur still young. U have tones
of time to find a guy... One who's not
involved with a girl already. Trust me,
the family of the girlfriend doesn't
usually like the one he's cheating with.
I mean, my dad cheats. And I hate his gf
more than anything. Don't be the one she
hates. Be responsible and don't get
urself involved.
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Health Angel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2004 Posts: 141 Location: Australia
Posted: 01-17-05 03:19am
Hi well im not going to tell you its wrong
because you prob already know that. I
was in a similar situation but I was only
17, but that is no excuse. Ive learnt
from my mistakes and have grown as a
person because of it, im now engaged and
trying to have a baby with my fiance.
Trust me. Dont let this guy think he can
just have u on the side because it doesnt
work, you will get down about yourself and
he will think he has the best of both
world.
Break it off with him, dont see him again
or even talk to him. Try and get on with
your life. You will be much better off
if you do.
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Raziel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 5
Re: Ok Messing With a Man That Has a Girl Posted: 01-23-05 17:07pm
kitty2luv
wrote:
i like this guy and we had
sex once b4 nad I had instent feelings for
him and now I am goona be messing w/ him
again and im kinda worry about it but I
like em and he likes me I hope :roll: he
said he needs a freak on the side and that
me but I dont kno I will be messing w/ 2
guys that has girls........ Im so not
nice but if they not giv'en them n e I can
:oops:
bad! No.. Thats not good at all. If
you had feelings for him after having sex,
then most likely you just want sex right?
You can get that from someone whos
single.. And doens't have another
girlfriend... If your just the "freak" on
the side then your being used.. You
cannot be weak minded like this.. Its not
good at all.. I say stop messing with
guys and getyourself a meaning ful real
relationship.
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Posted: 01-29-05 19:03pm
Not cool.
You're looking for a man to call your
own.. But any real man wouldn't go for a
girl like that, unfortunately... Any guy
with a good head on his shoulders would
steer clear. Trust is the foundation of
any relationship, and if you're willing to
knowingly sleep with other people who are
in relationships, there is no reason why
you would not do the same while in a
relationship.
I agree with what everyone else wrote.
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vanessalouanne
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2268 Location: ,
Thanks: 1
Thanked:0
Posted: 08-08-05 16:08pm
I know this is an old post but I just
wanted to know that any girl who messes
with a guy that has a girl (whew!) is
probably going to end up having to watch
her back. Where im from, that is how an
old fashion girl fight starts. Ive seen
girls get the crap beat out of them for
that.
Just telling thoes who are either with a
guy like that or thinking about it.
he said he needs a freak on the side and
that me but I dont kno I will be messing
w/ 2 guys that has girls........ Im so
not nice but if they not giv'en them n e I
can 
