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Q: Ok Messing With a Man That Has a Girl
asked by: kitty2luv on November 19th, 2004
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I like this guy and we had sex once b4 nad I had instent feelings for him and now I am goona be messing w/ him again and im kinda worry about it but I like em and he likes me I hope Rolling Eyes he said he needs a freak on the side and that me but I dont kno I will be messing w/ 2 guys that has girls........ Im so not nice but if they not giv'en them n e I can Embarassed
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Jocelyne
replied on November 25th, 2004
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Why would you want to do that!!!!!! Don't make excuses either...Its not okay even if you try to say it is because he is commited!!!! Maybe theres a reason there sex life is bad.....I think you need to leave the commited men alone would you really want to do that to that girl????? I'd rather tell her her man is a cheater then to be his cheating promiscuous person....Girl you need to smarten up!!!
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pinkbaby
replied on December 15th, 2004
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Seriously, leave him alone. If he likes you that much he will break up with his girlfriend. But as long as hes with her, you shouldent be messing with him.
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kitty2luv
replied on December 16th, 2004
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We talked bout it and its just too much b/s im looking for a great guy2 call my own
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sandyallen
replied on December 17th, 2004
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Kitty2luv
Why don't you get some serious professional help, it is girls like you that hurt other girls, what do you want, std's? Are you trying to seek attention this way, or what? Are you on drugs? Please get some help! Even younger girls read this and will think it is the right thing to do and you know that this is not the right thing to do! Please talk to an adult that you can trust that can get you some help that you truly need! Their might even be a mental health group in your area or social services, it is not too late.
Sorry people, if you don't believe me, try reading some of her other posts, this girl has problems and a lot of others have told her the same thing.
Sincerely,
sandy
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justacanadiangirl
replied on January 17th, 2005
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Kitty hunni, ur still young. U have tones of time to find a guy... One who's not involved with a girl already. Trust me, the family of the girlfriend doesn't usually like the one he's cheating with. I mean, my dad cheats. And I hate his gf more than anything. Don't be the one she hates. Be responsible and don't get urself involved.
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Health Angel
replied on January 17th, 2005
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Hi well im not going to tell you its wrong because you prob already know that. I was in a similar situation but I was only 17, but that is no excuse. Ive learnt from my mistakes and have grown as a person because of it, im now engaged and trying to have a baby with my fiance. Trust me. Dont let this guy think he can just have u on the side because it doesnt work, you will get down about yourself and he will think he has the best of both world.

Break it off with him, dont see him again or even talk to him. Try and get on with your life. You will be much better off if you do.
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Raziel
replied on January 23rd, 2005
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Re: Ok Messing With a Man That Has a Girl
kitty2luv wrote:
i like this guy and we had sex once b4 nad I had instent feelings for him and now I am goona be messing w/ him again and im kinda worry about it but I like em and he likes me I hope :roll: he said he needs a freak on the side and that me but I dont kno I will be messing w/ 2 guys that has girls........ Im so not nice but if they not giv'en them n e I can :oops:


bad! No.. Thats not good at all. If you had feelings for him after having sex, then most likely you just want sex right? You can get that from someone whos single.. And doens't have another girlfriend... If your just the "freak" on the side then your being used.. You cannot be weak minded like this.. Its not good at all.. I say stop messing with guys and getyourself a meaning ful real relationship.
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Justin_Toronto
replied on January 29th, 2005
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Not cool.

You're looking for a man to call your own.. But any real man wouldn't go for a girl like that, unfortunately... Any guy with a good head on his shoulders would steer clear. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and if you're willing to knowingly sleep with other people who are in relationships, there is no reason why you would not do the same while in a relationship.

I agree with what everyone else wrote.
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vanessalouanne
replied on August 8th, 2005
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I know this is an old post but I just wanted to know that any girl who messes with a guy that has a girl (whew!) is probably going to end up having to watch her back. Where im from, that is how an old fashion girl fight starts. Ive seen girls get the crap beat out of them for that.
Just telling thoes who are either with a guy like that or thinking about it.
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