Joined: 08 Nov 2004 Posts: 141 Location: Statesville NC
Why Am I Sooo Worried??? Posted: 11-18-04 00:13am
Hey ladies!!! Okay, i'm pregnant, and I
think i'm about 4 weeks and 4 days. I was
pregnant once before and had a
miscarriage. I'm so afriad that i'm going
to have another one. I don't think I
could go through that agian. It may be
all in my head but it feels like I have
the same pressure in my stomach as I did
when I had the miscarriage. Can someone
please tell me how likely I am to have
another miscarriage now that I have
already had one??? That's all I can think
about... I don't want to lose this baby
too. Oh and, I heard recently that my ex
boyfriend was cheating on me with a girl
who has chlamydia. (not the guy i'm
pregnant by by the way). When I had my
miscarriage I went to the hospital because
I thought I had a bad urinary tract
infection (i didn't even know I was
pregnant.) do you think that they checked
me for std's and stuff while I was at the
hospital?? They took so much blood that
night, so i'm not sure if they did or not.
I'm really worried about that too!!! Any
adivice??? Help!!!
teresa
oh, I have my first doc. App. Friday!!!
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laura_girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 173 Location: Montreal, Quebec
Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Posted: 11-18-04 04:45am
Miscarriage is hard to deal with. It
occurs in 15-20% of all pregnancies,
usually in the first three months.
However, some families will experience
multiple miscarriages. After three or
more miscarriages, it's referred to as
repeated miscarriage or habitual abortion.
Once you've suffered from multiple
miscarriages, though the exact number will
be determined with the help of your care
provider, you might be offered special
tests to try and help determine the cause
of your losses.
causes of
repeated miscarriage
chromosomal
this is one of the most common causes of
miscarriage, comprising over half. It may
be a case of problems with the number of
chromosomes, the structure of the
chromosome, or even the genetic material
that they carry. Random, chance problems
are the usual cause of genetic problems,
however there are times when some genes
are repeatedly passed on which can
contribute to multiple pregnancy losses.
You and your partner should be tested by a
genetics specialist if you are repeatedly
passing on chromosomal problem.
uterine
anomalies
abnormalities of the uterus can be
something that you're born with, like a
double uterus, a uterus that is divided by
a wall (septate), etc. There are also
problems with fibroids for some women.
These are growths that can occur any place
in the uterus, which may have no effect on
conception or pregnancy or can cause
problems. The good news is that the
majority of these problems can be dealt
with prior to conception through surgery,
thus increasing your chances of a health
pregnancy.
hormone
imbalance
hormonal imbalance can be a problem for
some women, usually known as a luteal
phase defect, where there is not enough
progesterone to sustain a pregnancy.
Treatment is usually given in the form of
hormones prior to the luteal phase to
increase the progesterone or in the form
of progesterone supplementation.
Progesterone therapy has been wildly
popular and many women and practitioners
swear by this form of treatment. However,
there are also those who have no found it
to be beneficial. The studies available
are really inclusive. A look at the
potential risks and benefits is advisable
for those considering it.
immunization problems
sometimes your body will see the baby as a
foreign body and attack it rather than
accept it. When this happens the mother's
body rejects the baby and a miscarriage
ensues. There are certain blood tests,
which can help determine if this is your
problem and there may be medications to
help you maintain a pregnancy. It can
also be caused by an immune difference
between the mother and father.
maternal
illness
generally a healthy mother, even with a
history of chronic illness can have a
successful pregnancy. Usually the key to
this pregnancy will be diagnosis and
control of the underlying factors. Some
will have no effect on the pregnancy,
while others require monitoring. Here is
a list of some of the potential problems:
-diabetes
-heart disease
-kidney disease
-high blood pressure
-thyroid disease
-infections
-environmental factors
-exposure to certain chemicals, drugs,
x-rays, etc. Have the potential to cause
repeated miscarriage. Some of these
factors are work related, while others may
be related to your life style. Factors
like drinking, smoking (first and second
hand) do have an impact on pregnancy, for
both partners.
diagnosis
& future pregnancy
this can be the difficult part of the
process. Sometimes no answer is ever
found. However, the process is quite
involved. In addition to complete medical
history for both you and your partner, you
will have a complete physical exam as
well. Which may include:
-blood work (hormones, antibodies,
disease)
-genetic counseling and potential testing
(you and your partner)
-testing for infection in the reproductive
organs
-ultrasound to look for structural
problems of the uterus
-biopsy of the uterine lining
-x-rays of the reproductive tract
(hysterosalpingogram)
-hysteroscopy (minor surgery to visualize
the reproductive organs through the
vagina)
-laparoscopy (minor surgery to visualize
the reproductive organs through the
abdomen)
-testing of any genetic material from
previous miscarriages, if available
when to get tested will depend on your
feelings and those of the practitioner you
are using. Generally having one
miscarriage is not a reason to run for
testing unless something out of the
ordinary is expected. However, it is hard
to realize that sometimes there is nothing
we can do to prevent the loss of a
pregnancy.
future
pregnancy
the good news is that even after more than
one miscarriage your chance of having a
healthy pregnancy is still good. With
testing and possibly treatment you and
your practitioner can hopefully bring down
the risks of a future loss. What type of
treatment will be necessary will depend on
the cause or causes determined. Make sure
you talk to your practitioner about what a
future pregnancy will be like, what type
of special tests or monitoring you might
require.
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
Posted: 11-18-04 05:03am
Heres some hope: I had 3 miscarriages and
I now have a almost 4 y/o and this
pregnancy is going well so far!
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-18-04 05:13am
I don't know why you are so worried, I
can't answer that sorry.
I also don't know what blood tests they
would have run at the hospital, you need
to call up your doctor and ask. You have
a right to know the outcome of each test
taken but.... The ony way to find out is
to ask the health care professionals who
did it/ have access to your records.
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Shayna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jul 2004 Posts: 180 Location: NY
Posted: 11-18-04 13:58pm
Hey I felt the same way as u.... I had a
miscarriage at 8 weeks and was really
paranoid that it was going to happen
again. I only had one normal period after
that then I was preg again. Im 30 wks now
and everythings fine so dont sweat it.
I went to the hospital when I had
miscarriage....When I got my hospital
bills it said every test that they scanned
me for and im almost positive chlamydia
was one of them. Didnt they send u ur
bills???
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-18-04 15:27pm
Most people go on to have perfectly
healthy babies after their first
miscarraige. It is very rare to be one
who has many in a row....I would ease your
mind and know that it is in gods hands!!
I was worried to my first 3 months...But
if its going to happen it will, and
unfortunately theres nothing we can do to
stop it. I wish you the best of luck...Do
not worry!!
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-19-04 04:15am
sarahsweet
wrote:
most people go on to have
perfectly healthy babies after their first
miscarraige. It is very rare to be one
who has many in a row....I would ease your
mind and know that it is in gods hands!!
I was worried to my first 3 months...But
if its going to happen it will, and
unfortunately theres nothing we can do to
stop it. I wish you the best of
luck...Do not
worry!!
don't think things will be fine after 3
months!!!
Both myself and kristen can tell you the
first 3 months can be fine, it's at 4 1/2
- 5 months things can suddenly change
drastically.
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mommax3
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1134 Location: Virginia
Posted: 11-19-04 09:33am
Yep, that is why they tell you up to 20
wks "whatever happens"....Go to emergency
room, and after 20 wks report to labor and
delivery, so just take care of yourself
and that baby