I Have Something to Say

What you did has obviously hurt you very bad. I want to stress that god dosnt hate you for it he is always there for you when no one else will be all you have to do is accept him.

I want you to forget about what people might be saying about you, remember you are a human being with the right to be respected and treated with love as one of gods children - they have no right authority or power to judge you!

As for your boyfriend, I fear he is hurting you more than most things, by his rejection you feel as though you have no one to turn to. Remember he must be going through the same feelings of guilt. You are looking for reasurance from a person who feels as guilty as you. What assurances can he give if he feels you have both done wrong I am sure that is the reason for his distancing himself. All in all the relationship seems to be at some kind of an end.

You have both hurt each other, both not meaning to but never the less that feeling of guilt you both seem to be feeling has driven a wedge in between you. I wont tell you what to do but what I would do.

I would end the relationship telling him you need sometime alone. Second I would refrain from relationships and intercourse for sometime - I would need time to re -evalute where I was going and if I was happy with who I was becoming as a person.

I would reflect on the things I had done and offer my appologies to god. I would contemplate his forgivness and my unworthiness of it.
I would offer myself to do gods will. Then I would forgive myself!

The babys daddy I havent seen in 2years so im am getting myself off of that


i am trying to get off of what I have done and I know its not gonna be easy its been sooo hard for me since I had it done and I can forgive but never for get what I did and I know I will never do it again unless the baby isnt healthy even if it isnt I would have to think twice ........................

I really wanted to start going to a church but then again im not sure if I will be accepted by the people

im looking for a guy that will respect me and accept me for who am I am and what I have done

Ok.. If you say your abortion was for the best than what makes you think other's aren't for the best? Just because you might not think it's best doesn't mean it isn't. The only expert on my life is me and not you so you don't tell me what decisions I make are truly for the best or not.. . What's best for me is whatever the hell I want.

Lol that is true I am here for me im gonna do what I think is good for me

"i really wanted to start going to a church but then again im not sure if I will be accepted by the people"

what kind of church would be like this?

My experience of my own denomination is it dosnt matter what you have done anyone who confesses will be forgiven, and the people dont judge as they too are far from perfect and need forgivness.

I assure you, you will be accepted, welcomed and people would be very pleased to see you, especially christ I would guess at any denomination.

Bd I dont think she was telling you what to do, she is just feeling bad about what .S.H.E did

I had a termination at 22 weeks, at this point stupid to say but I had actually started to bond with my unborn child, for example talkin to him when I was alone, feeling him kick, and all sorts of other things. In a way I knew all along that I couldnt keep him, for a number of reasons like not being with the father, my parents hating the father, the father having another baby on the way other than mine that was due to be born too months before, myself been in debt, and also because I wanted a career and wasnt ready to bring a child into the world. After bonding with my baby it was very hard to let him go the main factor being that he was there live and kicking relying on me. After the termination I felt lost, every where I looked babys appeared. The only one thing I can not get over is my ex boyfriend having a new healthy baby just two months before I should have been having mine and it is a boy as well, not to mention the fact I still speak to him, help!!! I miss my baby as well! Although I have a new supportive boyfriend who has been there through it all its hard!!!